I’m so tired of seeing women constantly defend male gynecologists and shit on female ones. This is another rebranded form of internal misogyny and male worship AGAIN. Every time a woman posts “I don’t feel comfortable with men as gynos”, women FLOCK to defend male doctors. Why?
Males should not be OB/GYNS, and honestly, even pediatricians. Yeah sorry, I don’t want the sex most responsible for rape and CSA to be my or my child’s doctor.
OB/GYN and midwifery is a WOMANS field. It always has been, always should be, hence why I’m entering the field. To push the males out. There are several other forms of practice they can do in the medical field.
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but I just want to say, as someone who used to wear acrylic nails for at least a decade, they are such a fucking sham.
Growing up I was always fed the idea that nails meant you didn’t have to do anything? Which was supposed to be considered a good thing? Like “teehee I don’t have to do anything I’m so spoiled” but they try hiding from you how fucking fun it is to actually do things.
Ever shoot a gun? Fucking phenomenal. Hit your target? Feels fantastic. That aside, being able to take a gun apart, study how it works, and put it back together? Absolutely amazing.
Ever use a fucking power saw? Power tools in general are invigorating. Built a whole work bench in the detached garage. Talk about something being actually empowering.
I had to stop playing piano because of my nails. Who chooses fake nails over literally getting to create art?! Crazy. I can’t believe once upon that time I actively made that choice.
Gardening? Couldn’t imagine trying to do that with nails. Getting dirt stuck in there for days? Would feel horrible. Feeling self conscious when you go to get them fixed because of how dirty they are. I forgot how much I loved playing in the dirt as a child. I love the smell of soil. It makes you feel more connected to the Earth. I talk to my plants, I read to my plants. I love my plants.
Book Nooks! They’re models you get to put together. Super small parts. Glue needed. So far put together a model greenhouse and a model library. Would literally be impossible with fake nails. You feel so accomplished when you’re done. Takes about 6-8 hours to do most of the time. There’s electrical you get to put together. Sometimes you’re twisting wires together trying to get the lights on lol. Love those things.
Getting to work with your hands feels great. It’s freeing. Fake nails completely strips you of that. When I had nails on I had problems simply trying to button a blouse…. that’s depressing to think about.
I know basically all radfems know of this. So this is more for the cryptos. The lurkers. The ones in the shadows who are curious. Who want to learn.
Im telling you. You don’t know what you’re missing.
I can't forgive the TRAs for turning the near universal trauma of girlhood into some convoluted proof that gender dysphoria is innate, and being some flavor of trans is the only explanation for those feelings. What better way to stop womens progression and liberation than to take away the words and experiences shared by those who have experienced lifelong misogyny. The silence is deafening
Thank you so much!!❤️❤️❤️
something to think about
You can really see "women see other women as enemies" it's female socialization. Back then, women were constantly pushed to hate each other. We saw it through movies, novels, everywhere. And everytime, everytime other women were painted in a bad light because they "were trying to steal our man"
All of this content were made by men themselves, they knew if women were busy fighting each other, they would never realize men are the actual cause of most women's struggles. They knew if we were together, we would be strong.
Now most women are aware of who they should be aware of. I see so many women supporting each other, and it makes me so happy.
I don't think non muslims and male muslims understand the extent of the oppression women face under islam. Women are seen as so sexual that our whole body some will even argue that even our face, hands and feet should be entirely covered, that our voice is too sexual, that even wearing perfume or jewellery makes us too sexual. It drives me insane how women are treated in islam every part of our body is treated like we're porn and its our fault if men are attracted to us. Women are treated like literal children Because men are our gaurdians, men control every part of our lives from who we marry to where we can go. Women are seen as forgetful and deficit in intelligence so were given half the inheritance a man is given, and we are half a witness a man is. And even after being treated like absolute shit in this world what do we get in the after life, we get to be the queen of hoors of our husbands we don't even get hoors, hell most of women don't even get into janna were sent straight to hell.
Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes
I've never understood the argument: "You're going to alienate people if you continue to hold such a purist view." I saw that a lot in radfem circles before I left.
Alienate whom exactly? The people who don't care about the meaning of the label they're applying to themselves? The people who selfishly want to warp a whole movement or definition to include them, because they don't want to follow certain foundational aspects of it but still want to be included in the "club"?
It's so crazy how radfems would shun any other people narcissistically and falsely trying to include themselves in a group they don't belong to (4Bers who still date men, kinksters calling themselves asexuals, men calling themselves women) and yet they fall for this cry for "inclusivity"by women who are trying to water down their movement from within. It's such a joke!
You shouldn't be worried EVER about alienating people who are objectively not part of your group/movement; this is common sense. You should be gatekeeping the true meaning of it ruthlessly, or just give up and accept that it's going to be unrecognizable in a few short years.
If you only knew how much Muslims want to wage jihad. They want to be heroes of the Islamic war. I feel sick every time men talk about massacres with reverence.
It's not widely publicized, but Islam allows sex slaves. Only for men, of course. And then they try to convince me that it's the most feminist religion. Fuck zombies
The most insane psyop of the twenty first century was people trying to convince the world that Islam is a #progressive religion or somehow more progressive than Christianity when— ignoring all of its other flaws— Islam and Islamic societies have engaged in just as much colonialism and colonialist atrocities as Christianity and Christian societies, and that colonialism is still on-going today. Places like Chechnya, Uzbekistan, Libya, Malaysia, Sudan, and even fucking Iran did not just come into being as Muslim, it took centuries of oppression of indigenous populations and their religion to get to that point. Islam (as well as Christianity!) is not above criticism.
I'm not really sure why some transwomen/TIM are under the impression that radfems stating that TIM cannot physically be female or women somehow means they have to go back to adhering to what society expects of "a man."
It's quite the opposite actually. I WANT you to wear dresses and skirts and pink and heels and wear makeup and do whatever it is you like to do that makes you feel like you're somehow female, but I also want you to understand that those things DON'T make you female or have any proximity to womanhood. You're allowed to express yourself through fashion and personality without lying and claiming you're female