Mm-hmm.
Omg!!! I can’t breathe! Space dad!!
- I was 12 when somebody tried to kiss me, and I thought this was the most uncomfortable thing that ever happened to ne
- I was 13 the first time I was called 'a weirdo’ for thinking that kisses were gross
- I was 14 when people laughed at my face when I said that people touching me made me uncomfortable
- I was 14 when I started to pretend and say “omg they’re so HOT” - even if I didn’t know what the hell is 'hot’ (it’s just not a word I use for people, never did) - because I didn’t want to be the weirdo
- I was 15 when people called me a 'freak’ for saying “NO” when they started saying they would fix me with some friends, because they assumed I couldn’t get a date on my own
- I was also 15 when in a game of truth or dare people laughed at me for saying that to me, making out was just uncomfortable (even talking about it)
- I was 16 when people told me I needed “to grow up” when I said that I didn’t feel comfortable talking about dating, and sex
- At the age of 19, people would side-eye me for leaving the room when the topic of conversation involved sex
I’ve ALWAYS been sure of what I liked and what I didn’t.
If I had changed in the meantime? That would be ok. But I didn’t, and this is also ok.
I’ve pretended to have crushes, and to find people 'hot’ just to fit in.
Until the age of 16, I used to pretend I had kissed 2 people, because I wanted to fit in.
At the age of 19, I was getting desperate, because I was getting old, and I still have the same thoughts I had when I was a kid.
At the age of 20, I’ve found out that it was okay.
I was alright all along.
There’s nothing wrong with me, never was! Yet, at the age of 23, I found people calling me 'toxic’, 'an abomination’, saying I don’t exist.
It would work well if I was a teen, but guess what?
It’s been a journey, but I’ve found myself. When I was young. I just didn’t believe it.
Stephen, while looking through alternate universes, discovers that he is connected to Everett Ross in more ways that he thought was possible. - (Originally posted on my insta @/bannersodinson)
Can it be more self explanatory?
“Describe your cat in one picture"
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lovecore asks
1.) what’s your sexuality?
2.) are you dating someone right now?
3.) would you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?
4.) what comes to your mind when you think of love?
5.) what’s your type? (body + personality wise <3)
6.) flowers or hearts?
7.) red or pink?
8.) do you prefer pastels or dark colors?
9.) scented lotion or perfume?
10.) what color(s) do you associate with love?
11.) what animal(s) do you associate with love?
12.) how do you know when you’re crushing on someone?
13.) how do you know when you’re in love?
14.) have you been in love?
15.) favorite romcom trope?
16.) what’s your favorite aesthetic other than lovecore?
17.) favorite romantic movie?
18.) ideal date?
19.) what would you give your partner for a romantic gift?
20.) what would you want to receive from a partner as a romantic gift?
21.) why do you like lovecore?
22.) what do you think love is? like, how would you explain the concept
23.) do you believe in love at first sight?
24.) have you ever crushed on a friend?
25.) have you ever crushed on a stranger?
26.) celebrity crush?
27.) do you have a crush on any fictional characters?
28.) matte or shiny?
29.) bright or dull colors?
30.) do you have a favorite lovecore blog? if so, what is it?
31.) favorite love song?
32.) <3 or ♥️?
33.) do your best heart spam!! (ex. 💗🏳️🌈💗💓💓💝🍓💝💫✨💫💞💝💗⭐️💘💓💗💞♥️)
send in any other love/lovecore associates asks as well~! i love you all!!!
Hi, I searched your posts so I’m sorry if I missed anything, but I was wondering if you knew of any book recommendations that discuss asexual culture/history. Thanks!
I actually just finished a great book on the subject!
Ace by Angela Chen:
“An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that's obsessed with sexual attraction, and what we can all learn about desire and identity by using an ace lens to see the world What exactly is sexual attraction and what is it like to go through the world not experiencing it? What does asexuality reveal about consent, about compromise, about the structures of society? This exceedingly accessible guide to asexuality shows that the issues that aces face—confusion around sexual activity, the intersection of sexuality and identity, navigating different needs in relationships—are conflicts that all of us need to address as we move through the world. Through interviews, cultural criticism, and memoir, ACE invites all readers to consider big-picture issues through the lens of asexuality, because every place that sexuality touches our world, asexuality does too. Journalist Angela Chen uses her own journey of self-discovery as an asexual person to unpretentiously educate and vulnerably connect with readers, effortlessly weaving analysis of sexuality and societally imposed norms with interviews of ace people. Among those included are the woman who had blood tests done because she was convinced that "not wanting sex" was a sign of serious illness, and the man who grew up in an evangelical household and did everything "right," only to realize after marriage that his experience of sexuality had never been the same as that of others. Also represented are disabled aces, aces of color, non-gender-conforming aces questioning whether their asexuality is a reaction against stereotypes, and aces who don't want romantic relationships asking how our society can make room for them.”
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