Tis The Season

Bro NO 😭

Hi my name is Mairon Lord of Dark’ness Annatar Gorthaur Evil-Way and I have long fair hair (because my form is fair) and fiery eyes shining like silmarils. I am related to Aulë but I wish I wasn't because he’s a major fucking boomer. I’m a vampire and a werewolf and a deity. I have pale white skin. I’m also a necromancer, and practice Dark Magyck in a Dark Fortress called Angband in Middle Earth where I’m the Dark Lord's Lieutenant (and Boyfriend). I’m goth (in case you couldn’t tell) and I wear mostly black. I was walking in the mountains outside Angband. It was snowing and raining so I couldn't see Arien's stupid face, which I was very happy about. Maedhros glared at me from Thangorodrim. I put up my middle finger at him

Damian : Who hurt you ?

Dick : *snorting* What, do you want a list ?

Damian : ...Yes, actually.

Dumbasses? Idk

Use your own judgement on the line between a nickname and a cutesy version of their name

You are not a creep if you find yourself sexy with your disability aids. full stop. If your partner is disabled, you are not fetishizing them if you find them sexy when they're in their wheelchair, or wearing their diaper, or have braces on, etc.

Disabled people are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to find them sexy. People with facial/limb differences and other physical differences are allowed to feel sexy and people are allowed to be attracted to them.

The problem comes from lack of consent and dehumanization. Expecting all disabled people to fit your sexual fantasy and sexualizing them openly without their consent (i.e. posting/reblogging normal pictures of a disabled person on your fetish blog or sexually harassing a disabled stranger) is fetishization and horrible. Asking us how we have sex or taking secret photos of us to jack off to later is creepy and crossing the boundry into dehumanizing fetishization. Seeing us and our sexuality as an oddity or a funny joke is not okay.

Reminder, sex toys were first and foremost created by and for disabled people. We have always been having sex and have always been seen as attractive by our admirers, without them fetishizing us. Having sex with a consenting disabled person isnt rape, and yes it is possible for us to eagerly consent! While some disabilities make it hard to consent, that isn't true for all of us.

We get horny, we have sex, we jack off, we wear sexy clothes and show off our bodies. We aren't freak shows for abled peoples amusement nor objects for fetishization. We aren't poor innocent virgins who don't know what sex is, we are a diverse and beautiful community all connected by our disabilities.

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nerve pain and cramping?? down MY asscheek?? ridiculous.

People underestimate how much it fucks you up to be subtly excluded as a kid. I would try to talk to my classmates and be met with disinterest or annoyance. The one friend I had, who I clung to and nodded along to his every word, had other friends he liked just as much or more. And his other friends didn’t care for me at all.

I look back at pictures from the time and see how separated I was from them. I remember knowing I was different. I remember posing questions about the world to the girls playing next to me and realizing that they had never asked the same ones to themselves. That the ways we thought couldn’t be more different.

I kept myself amused with my own fanatical stories and musings in my head. I would wander the playground on a circular path, imagining a friend and being sorely disappointed when it didn’t feel as real as I’d hoped.

There was a bubble separating me from everyone else, thin, and nearly invisible, but with a pearly sheen you could catch under the right conditions. I knew it was there, they knew it was there, and it changed me

Yeah... text to speech has kinda saved my life in that area

My hands hurt a lot too. So like. Limited ability to be on my phone and type or to even play games. Thanks ehlers danlos and fucked up joints.

Hear me out: s4 Sam Winchester x just a man from epic the musical

Bruce: oh my god, I'm so worried, Dick has been kidnapped, what if something happens to him.

Dick:

Depriving me of my little gay bedtime stories? This is homophobic