have some ~*~*~spidervi~*~*~
white ppl have no concept of the pain of finding a community that you belong to and then discovering the deeply entrenched racism in said community
if you're a white creator and your brown/black characters are always sassy, reckless, aggressive or cold and your white characters are always soft, demure, shy and introverted you should think about maybe why you did that
btvs behind the scenes
Jackie Shane | 1940 - 2019
Shane was a rhythm and blues singer, and key contributor to the Toronto Sound of the 1960s. She began her career identifying as a gay man initially, then becoming more ambiguous and avoidant to questions of her identity, before publicly coming out as a trans woman in 2017.
In this house we do not equate being butch w being a dom any more than we equate being a femme w being a sub
I think if you're still supporting Harry Potter at this point (and to be clear, this post is not about if you should or shouldn't), then you need to understand that trans people will not trust you. And you have to be okay with that. You can't get upset about it.
‘No matter what, I still want to be here with you. I will always, ALWAYS, want to be here with you.’
“are you really going to tear a friendship apart over different opinions??”
listen, I got tons of friends who like pineapple on their pizza, but once you reach that “you, your community, or other marginalized communities don’t deserve basic human rights or even perhaps the right to live” level, you should just accept that it’s your fault no one wants to be your friend.