You Want To Know A LGBTQ+ Historical Fact That Is Not Centered In The US?

Someone reblogged that post of mine saying how people will assume a lesbian saying “I don’t like men” means “I hate men” with a very interesting phrase:

Men would rather believe they’re hated than recognizing they’re irrelevant sexually and romantically to certain people (lesbians).

just a reminder that stone bottoms/pillow princesses aren't selfish for just existing and their boundaries aren't only valid when they're partnered with a stone top

i need her so fucking badly it actual pains me. no one understands…….🤕

yes i see that you're femme4butch, but do you recognize that being a safe space for butches comes before your attraction? how do you feel about butch4butch couples, or butch stone bottoms? do you give them the same level of respect as you do to butches who you find attractive? what about stone butches? do you see them as people, or as a outlet to receive sexual pleasure? do you enjoy butch friendship, or do you only hope to gain romantic attention?

what about femmes? do you look to build community with other femmes, or do you see them as competition to receive butch attention? do you understand butchfemme history and the history of your identity? and most importantly, do your prioritize community above your own attraction?

A good video that accurately explains why stud is a term used for black lesbians only, not white, not poc, BLACK

I’m not even going to say please. Respect black identities and labels, they are ours for a reason.

I always saw Anya as autistic but they said since she was a vengeance demon for so long she forgot how to interact with people. And I think that’s partly true for being in modern society. But when it went back in time to show her life before she had the same traits as she did in the present. So that was confirmation that Anya is autistic for me.

oh no!!! The tables have turned!

I'm dying 😭

anya + season 5

I mean, I for one didn’t want to start my day with a slaughter. Which really just goes to show how much I’ve grown! 

Is it important to you to identify with labels that reflect your experience?

Then consider how it is also important to lesbians to be able to have a word that describes our experience- one that is not changed to mean other things or made to include experiences that are directly antithetical to ours.

Lesbian is lesbian. It is not bisexual, it is not pansexual. It is lesbian.