Today In Social Media...

yes i see that you're femme4butch, but do you recognize that being a safe space for butches comes before your attraction? how do you feel about butch4butch couples, or butch stone bottoms? do you give them the same level of respect as you do to butches who you find attractive? what about stone butches? do you see them as people, or as a outlet to receive sexual pleasure? do you enjoy butch friendship, or do you only hope to gain romantic attention?

what about femmes? do you look to build community with other femmes, or do you see them as competition to receive butch attention? do you understand butchfemme history and the history of your identity? and most importantly, do your prioritize community above your own attraction?

Why do people want to praise Taylor Swift as an LGBTQ+ icon (and even act like she’s openly lgbt) so much when there’s people out there who’re actually open about being part of the community?

I wish Hayley Kiyoko received all this praise and recognition as TS does, because Hayley is actually very open about her being lgbt.

Tip: You can kiss girls.

Just you and the real me

anya + season 5

I mean, I for one didn’t want to start my day with a slaughter. Which really just goes to show how much I’ve grown! 

When will my husband (Ao3) return from war (is up again)

Rejection-sensitive or not, you have to accept when people say “no” and realize that people’s “no” is not about you. A boundary is never about you, it’s about that person’s sense of security. Do not make people’s personal limits a matter of targeted offence.

Jinx before I had surgery so I want to do it over

Poor Vander, he is a patient dad xD

You do realize just because you are also called something it doesn’t mean you’re what people called you, right?

Using that as an argument to use slurs that are not yours to reclaim is so stupid lol

I’ve been called straight before, does that mean I am straight? No…

Even if someone called me the f slur (that means someone gay, as in homosexual) that wouldn’t mean I’m that thing, which still doesn’t give me the right to reclaim that slur.

I’ve seen a lot of non-lesbian sapphics taking advantage of “I’ve been called dyke before so I get to call myself one” as an excuse to reclaim the word and the second they can they call a lesbian a dyke to offend them. So no, you don’t get to reclaim a slur if that slur doesn’t describe you.