Adam & Eve
a lot of children - especially mentally ill children - end up traumatized not because someone was specifically hurting them but because their needs weren’t being met, or because their problems weren’t being seen, or because they were rendered particularly vulnerable by other aspects of their identity, like queerness or race.
and it can be hard to look at your childhood and go “I was hurt” and also know that the hurt wasn’t deliberate. it’s uniquely painful to not have someone to blame.
you do not have to excuse the people who hurt you, even if it was unintentional. & acknowledging your own pain does not necessarily entail blaming them for it.
you are allowed to do what you need to do in order to recover.
I feel like this sums up legal studies https://www.instagram.com/p/BsH5khonlchS-4HD8DtvgDQ83B4bKSbsXrHVLk0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1evmzg4ni7wf1
i wanna know why this dude made this
Time lapse of a lightning storm on Maui. Via here
to the casual observer it may look like i'm trying to summon a demon but anyone who knows me will realize that i am simply calling my wife
The ides of March is coming up what’s everyone getting me?
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