This Drama Won’t Leave My Mind Fuckkk 😭 Thinking About How Bumseok Saw Suho As Higher And Above

this drama won’t leave my mind fuckkk 😭 thinking about how bumseok saw suho as higher and above him, as the leader of their trio whereas suho just saw him as an equal friend, not higher not lower, and that’s where their misunderstandings started ;-; suho’s friendly gesture of putting his arm around his loved ones to bumseok was a gesture of control and superiority, the weight of his arm was too much for bumseok who grew up under the pressure of so many authoritative figures ;-: this also explains why bumseok was always trying to copy suho (like at the restaurant when they were making ssam ) etc etc, he idolised him and that admiration turned into an inferiority complex, meanwhile suho just never realised that bumseok regarded him so highly ;-; this showcases the difference between someone who grew up in a loving environment and was never desperate to be loved and belong (no anxiety about being accepted) and someone who grew up in an unstable and conditional environment (anxiety about all their relationships) it’s so SAD .