Sometimes You Have To Take A Step Back And Remember That Same-sex Marriage Has Only Been Legal In America

Benvenuto, welcome.

[𝐀𝐕𝐄 𐕣 𝐏𝐀𝐏𝐀 on Spotify]

Here is the lay of the land. Please read:

IN SHORT: Admin is a legal adult. Blog will contain NSFW content, so no minors please (MDNI). Hateful behavior is not tolerated.

More guidelines below.

Detail from Masaccio’s “Holy Trinity” [Inscription: IO FUI GIA QUEL CHE VOI SIETE, E QUEL CH’ IO SONO VOI ANCOR SARETE]

Admin is over 20.

Some content here will get a little nasty and NSFW. I ask minors not to engage with this blog. I’ve seen multiple people try to be slick and sneak in, or just flat-out ignore this rule. I’m not comfortable with underage people seeing it get freaky in here, so if I find out you’re a minor you will be blocked.

I feel like this goes without saying, but just to be clear– I refuse to engage with hate speech, discrimination, harassment, right-wing ideology, or anything else along that line. End of discussion. [Edit: I support a free Palestine, Sudan, Ukraine, etc. Foreign occupation/colonization/genocide must be stopped worldwide!]

I also thought that this went without saying, but apparently I need to clarify it to some people. If you’re a zoophile (bestiality), MAP (pedophile), etc… For the love of god, don’t follow me. It doesn’t matter if you’re “anti-contact” or whatever else. I don’t care what anyone is into sexually as long as it isn’t illegal– these categories are illegal, and they are illegal for a reason. They are not kinks, they are serious psychological issues. There is a difference. I genuinely encourage you to seek help if you have any of these tendencies.

Please don't send me anything serious: I'm not here to give drastic life or health advice, and I'm definitely not qualified to do so. I can give you encouragement or tips, absolutely! Go right ahead, I don’t mind it at all. But if you need serious help, please talk to a doctor, your family, or another trustworthy person in your life. I’m just some person on the internet– I’m not able to fully help you in the way that you would need. I don't take myself too seriously, and I encourage you all to do the same.

Please don't ask me to weigh in on any controversies within the Ghost fan base. (Or controversies in general.) I don't know anything about the majority of Ghost drama, and frankly, I don't really care. I will address situations on my own terms if I want/need to, but for the most part I’m staying out of it. I don’t like participating in that kind of stuff. I'm just here to have a good time and be nice to people.

In short, I’m going to block you if you cross the boundaries I set above, or if you act like an asshole. And if you treat me respectfully, I will treat you with respect in return. It’s that easy!

My grasp of Italian is shaky, and for that I am sorry. Please just pretend that I am not using an online translator.

Grazie, ciao!

Admin 🜋

Hot people on tumblr are even scarier than normal people because you know something has to be wrong with them

Devastating to have more evidence that done IS better than perfect

people will design soap dispensers and dish racks and go like it's okay if this is capable of getting rusty, right. that's an acceptable weak point for an item whose sole immutable destiny is to get wet every time it's used, right

Hex yuri 👭

i love it when you accidentally meet eyes with a stranger in public and you flash a quick polite smile and they look at you like they wish you were dead in a ditch

What is the best way to financially help Ukraine? Is it better to go through organizations or gofundmes or something else I'm not aware of?

Thanks for asking, nonnie. That's very kind of you. If you or anyone else has some spare change and wants to give, here are a few ideas:

United24 is the official fundraising platform established by President Zelenskyy and other Ukrainian governmental members and directs money to all areas of the country.

The Olena Zelenska Foundation is primarily focused on medical, humanitarian, and educational aid across the country and was founded by the First Lady.

Stand for Ukraine gives you a range of charity options, depending on whether you want to donate directly to the military, or you would prefer to fund non-lethal or humanitarian aid, etc.

Come Back Alive is the main fundraising platform for the Ukrainian military. You can choose to donate to air defense, heavy weapons, demining, medical aid, overall combat equipment, etc.

Donate to Ukraine's Defenders also offers various (carefully vetted) links and options to donate to rebuilding projects, private medical assistance programs, initiatives for democracy, and others.

Hi there! In response to some hate I’ve been getting I just want to clear up a few things.

Queer Undefined is not unmoderated, as some people have been claiming. Each definition is reviewed and only some are approved - as stated in the guidelines, any definitions that are hateful will be rejected.

If you think a definition is offensive or wrong you have two options. 1) You can report an offensive definition by clicking the flag icon in the corner. 2) You can add your own definition to explain what you think the term really means. This includes terms that you find offensive - you can submit a definition explaining why it should not be used.

I’m trying to fuck all 12 zodiac signs within a year and so far I have 5/12 🤭

ahh fuck, made a whole fuckin universe to justify my fetish doodles again