Hey, you take your time. Heal. Do what feels right for you. If you need to step off completely from your socials, do ! We’ll still be here when you need us :)
(Ps. Something that helped me with my anxiety was blocking everyone I knew irl from my socials) Wishing you the best 💛💙
This is very very sweet. Thank you, I appreciate it. I don't want to lose all social interaction, just those irl. I feel like the risk is lower here.
Being in your twenties is just
Have I eaten today? Do I have autism? I want a new job. Am I dehydrated? God, I want top surgery so bad. Where's my birth certificate? Oh it's nice out today! Should I get high tonight? I'm so hungry. I'm so sad. Do my friends hate me? I need a nap. I'd be so much hotter without tits.
i want to slonk your shit silly style like sloppy swag
Psh. Whatever. It’s not like I wanted to get my shit slonked silly style anyway…
running into a trans girl while you're out and about makes the entire miserable errand worth it, whatever it was. like glancing upward at just the right time to see a shooting star. I spot a trans flag and it sincerely ceases to matter that the bus is crowded and it rained unexpectedly and my shoes are soaked through and my headphones are dead. I am happy to be on that specific bus on that specific day, because you're there too.
quickly posts this because im starting to see other people posting card themed ocs and im scared of being too late
*puts a big bowl of soup in askbox*
YES!!!!! THIS IS THAT SHIT I'M LOOKIN FOR
for a while i tried being as Not weird, gross and cringe as possible and i tell you i was deeply depressed the entire time. turns out you need to be embarrassing to enjoy life to the fullest
something about crowds singing in unison at concerts that leaves my entire existence awestruck. so ethereal. its the the most human thing ever.
look, i'm sorry to say it, but if you really truly want to see more queer representation in media, you're going to need to be okay with seeing representation that you don't relate to at all. you need to be okay with media that has queer characters but none who share your specific identity. you need to be okay with media that has queer characters who do share your identity but who you find completely unrelatable. this is because you are not the only queer person on the planet and queer people who are not you, including queer people who you share no similarities with besides your queerness, deserve to see themselves represented.
you also need to be okay with media that shows a queer experience that you personally find uncomfortable. it's okay if you hate coming out stories, but other people find them valuable, so they need to exist. it's okay if you're a masc trans guy and you feel uncomfortable seeing femme transmasc characters, but femme transmascs do exist in real life and also deserve to see themselves represented. it's okay if you're uncomfortable with queer stories that involve cheating or abusive/toxic relationships or queer characters who are not good people, but other people find a lot of meaning in those stories, so you need to be okay with the fact that they exist.
please stop calling out creators—particularly queer creators—for writing queer representation that you don't personally relate to. if you want every queer person to be able to feel represented in media and if you want every queer creator to be able to make the stories they want to tell, you're going to have to learn to accept that some stories will feel completely unrelatable to you, and that's okay, and it doesn't mean those stories are "problematic" or "bad representation"
I did an IZ redraw for a doodle I made back in 2019 (which I’m pretty certain was the first doodle I made for my IZ series)
I don’t quite like how the final product came out but alas
Andrew Garfield attends the Golden Globes in Beverly Hills, California on January 10, 2023