These women want to be hand-held and coddled as they willingly walk into the fire. It's just not gonna happen. Sorry. You're going to get criticism and pushback. You cannot navigate relationships with men safely. There will always be risks regardless of how many legal or cultural boundaries you attempt to put in place to protect women.
At this point you have already been told the risks of rape and violence; you have already been told the truth about male nature that you choose to ignore in favor of adopting the socialization cope; you already have abortifacients and contraception, as well as resources available for women in DV situations and these are not perfect solutions. So what is the last bastion of defense against males other than to avoid them altogether which the bulk of you refuse to do or act like if you do it Gilead will descend upon us as if it isn't already while women are still willingly giving men what they want?
It is illogical for OSA women to sit up here saying that men are evil predators, pedos, and rapists and then turn around and defend dick to the death, continuing to serve them and birth their sons.
You should be saying this to the MEN who deprive you women of safe, fulfilling relationships by being the way they are.
All WE are doing is pointing out that you are the ones choosing to date your oppressor, gamble with your lives, and choosing to pursue the same men that you KNOW are dangerous and deceptive. And then when you inevitably get burnt you throw tantrums towards the women who don't participate in your trauma-bonding circle-jerk and pat you on the back for what the big bad man did.
i don't understand it when radfems/leans reblog or post content of super femmed-up women, usually celebs, like ... this is all the stuff radfems are criticizing and against because it harms women, do you really still find it aesthetically pleasing?? am i the crazy one for being confused?? i don't want to just straight up accuse so many people of being hypocrites but i really do not get it
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"being traumatized made me funnier!" no you just say out of pocket shit and people laugh as a stress response
Men are absolute garbage
And women are garbage collectors,garbage lovers and garbage birther...
Long live the garbage !!
being in a relationship with a man requires cognitive dissonance. When you’re a radfem in a relationship with a man, reblogging rape and dv statistics it’s so much more extreme than it is for the average woman.
It is okay not to like sex. You are allowed to hate it as a concept and view it as disgusting. Whenever you hear/see/read etc about other people having sex and you feel disgusted, it is simply a natural reaction and one that should not be vilified.
Sex is not some god that you're required to worship. It is not a sacred cow and you are allowed to criticize it as an idea, as a concept. Some of the most common excuses sexuals use to defend sex (e.g sex is love or ) are easily debunked and are nothing more than rationalizations of personal weakness.
If of course, you don't feel that full on antisexualism is right for you, you could always step down and be sex-critical instead. After all, sex is not above criticism and anyone who makes fun of you for not wanting sex is clearly insecure about their own inability to find joy outside of a brief high that isn't worth the time and effort.
why do you think women get so angry when they see women posting themselves not wearing makeup to special occasions like this? I’m sure envy/ jealousy is a part of it but I don’t think it’s just that
https://www.tumblr.com/comradical/779514171640397824/the-misogyny-is-coming-from-inside-the-house?source=share
They hate to be reminded that there's a life outside the cage. Just like they hate to confront the fact that they're willfully participating in their own oppression. These women just want all women to maintain the status quo because it's easier for them to live life.
theres a phenomenon that happens on here i have been calling "normalize loving parents posting" which is when you spend a lot of time on tumblr and are exposed to a lot of one specific counter-cultural narrative day in and day out until you start to forget what the dominant ideas are for most of the human population and thus feel the need to "defend" things that are widely accepted and popular. it's called this because of the time a bunch of text posts about shitty dads were circulating and then people with good relationships with their dad didn't feel included enough and started making "uhmmm can we normalize loving parents? not everyone has a deadbeat dad, MY dad is great" type posts, seemingly forgetting that good relationship with dad is a cultural norm that is expected and encouraged. i think its good practice, especially when im annoyed, to stop before i hit the post button and ask myself if this is a real issue or if im normalize loving parents posting. because often im about to try to normalize loving parents