Hi It Seems Like You Made A Post But Forgot To Make It About Me?

Has anyone else noticed how many people are total flakes now? Is it more often or am I off base? Everyone I know talks about wanting to do something, but either won't commit or won't show up

"men can be misogynists while having gfs so why can't women do the same" and "sexualizing men is getting back at them" are such insidious false equivalents lol misogyny is a default for any male and they use sexualization as a tool of oppression because the system is built to oppress women. it's in their interests to keep women under the boot and their hatred for women isn't a source of cognitive dissonance in their relationships with women because they have the power in this dynamic. you claiming to be a misandrist while having a bf just proves you're a willing participant in your own subjugation and that you're all bark and no bite though

Every dumb ass post on here about men having soft bellies or whatever has the same energy as every other dumbass and constant defense of men. If you are falling over yourself to defend men, imaginary or real, you’re just another schill for the patriarchy, and whatever equipment and pronouns you have just tell everyone to what degree you hate yourself or if it’s just self-serving bullshit

Where were these men and their little pills bury bellies when Roe v Wade was overturned? Where are these sad little soft boys when women are getting assaulted in town halls? Where are these delicate little ferrets when it comes time to protect our right to vote?

Either still imaginary or waiting for women to take care of them I guess

Male positivity posts on this website are both useless and fucking insulting. Men hold 65% of the world’s wealth and account for 99% of rapes. What do they need your positivity for?

There is a word for pumping up somebody over and over who shits on everyone else. It’s called enabling.

Anyways I hope all men on the spectrum from hard to soft either start showing up for women, go to a secret undersea incel bunker where they will never contact humans again, or end their lifetimes and give their carbon energy back to Mother Earth in restitution

For most western women;

Why would you take the risk of trying to find a male that won’t kill, disrespect or rape you, when you could just not?

Too many cases of women and girls being abused by male partners to justify it.

Types of women/red flags to avoid in friendships.

Women who always complain about everything

Women who seek to embarass you in front of others.

Women who dont acknowledge you in front of others.

Women who often -subtly- put you down.

Women who constantly tell you when other people say something bad about you

Yes-gyns. Women who always blindly agree with everything you say.

Women who always make excuses

MaIe-crazy women.

Women who dont respect boundaries.

If you're thinking of someone as you're reading all of this or the moment you saw "friendship red flags" - it's a sign to start moving on from them especially if they're draining you more than fulfilling you.

Will update this with link to longer post later.

It always tickles me when songs about rebellion and "doing it your way" are sung by THE most gender conforming women you've ever seen in your life. Its like ok bbg keep shining yayyy girlboss power divine feminine!! Eyeliner sharp enough to kill a man!!! Do it your way exactly like all the women around you and in media ❤️

I think about your post about women’s feminist views coming from a place of genuinely loving men a lot.

radfeminism in general comes from a place of wanting to reform men and convince them to be niceys because women cannot let go of their love for them and honestly genuinely truly want to be loved back. and the tryhard misandry comes from a place of hurt, the realization that men view them as subhuman even though they crave their affection, respect and attention like nothing else - while desperately wanting to be treated as an equal. this is why they willingly and readily abandon both when the right nigel comes along lol they think that their nigel is different and that they themselves are different because they're experiencing it firsthand and their experiences are real, unlike everyone else's. but that's to be expected in a hetero society, no amount of politics will ever keep women and men from each other

Next time someone tells you women are meant to have children blah blah blah have them look up what a placenta is. We are so misinformed about the female body that despite most of us hearing that word before, we don’t really think about its role. The placenta is built by the embryo (not the mother) to essentially hide itself from the mother. Because otherwise she would KILL IT. It’s a foreign body with half of another person’s genetic code. Also we all have heard about the hormone HCG but most of us hear of it in regards to pregnancy tests and not the fact that it forces the mother’s uterus to start secreting a protein to feed the embryo. With every pregnancy, the fetus and mother are in competition. The fetus wants to grow and the mother tries to protect herself and not DIE. we are capable of pregnancy, we have the organs necessary to birth new life. This does NOT mean our organs are for anyone but ourselves. Every part of you is there FOR YOU. Regardless of what anyone might say. Don’t be ashamed of not wanting children. Don’t feel like a broken woman for not being able to have children. Don’t let anyone tell you your sexuality is wrong because it doesn’t result in offsprings.

What are you refering to specifically when you say women harm other women and they're fully aware of their actions as they do it. That they aren't unaware they just dont care (until it hits home for them)

I think that women who harm other women & uphold/engage in patriarchal structures at the detriment of other women tend to be infantilised by feminists & feminist aligned women. MaIe identified womens actions tend to be excused under the guise of "they don't know", "it's internal misogyny", or "they're just trying to survive", etc whenever they're criticised & held accountable for their actions. These women aren't stupid, they're aware of the misogynistic world we're in & the consequences of their actions. Many of these women only care a little when things backfire.