It's Easier For People To Pretend To Be Concerned With The Non-existent Children Of Childfree Women Rather

Women will complain about abortion bans and being treated like breeding mules but these same women (who are most likely moms) will shut down conversations that childfree women attempt to have about our experiences.

I stay within childfree spaces. I follow mostly childfree women on social media. I don't go online looking for spaces where mothers are talking about their experiences because I don't care.

However, whenever I go into the comment section of a childfree woman's post I see a lot of mothers commenting. Some of them criticizing, some giving backhanded compliments or their motherly approval nobody asked for, but what I find most interesting is how they will talk amongst themselves within the comments on posts or pages that are geared towards childfree women.

They know who's reading these posts, they know it's predominantly childfree looking for support or a place to share our experience being childfree. But still, I see comments along the lines of: "yeah yeah being childfree is great BUT LADIES CAN WE PLEASE DISCUSS THE BEAUTY OF MOTHERHOOD? ☺️"

Women police other women back into the roles that they simultaneously bitch about.

Whining about motherhood and how hard it is to a man but if a woman says she's childfree and wants fuck all to do with kids then she'll weaponize her societal status of mom to size up that woman and try to make her seem lesser.

It's passive aggressive and attention seeking behavior.

do not give me a love confession note man i will straight up roll that shit into a joint. i am not kidding. fuck your feelings for me i am smoking that shit

A lack of sexual discipline is present in both women and men. Women mistakenly believe that their sexuality is more virtuous because men are more openly degenerate. Both sexes are after social validation and physical release in their pursuit of bodies. “Making love” isn’t any less selfish and degrading. This world is a perverts playground, both men and women have made it that way. Watch the gender divide disappear when a woman speaks of sexually abstaining indefinitely. Men and women, regardless of orientation will unite to shame her.

SAHMs and working women are not on the same team. If SAHMs receive government welfare, it is working women in male-dominated fields that will get the shortest end of the stick. Career-oriented women who do their own chores already have to compete in the workplace with men that get pampered by their wives. On top of that their income tax will end up paying for something that works against their favor. It’s very telling who the pro SAHM welfare ‘feminists’ on this app want to sacrifice for their cause. 

It’s sad that participating in a movement as simple as 4B, a movement that merely requires an inaction that will keep women safe, is considered difficult, unusual or extreme.

4B is the bare minimum and women doing anything less than 4B shouldn’t be considered feminists.

If you’re not doing 4B, you should be ashamed, not only are you hurting yourself by dating or marrying men, you’re hurting everyone else around you too.

If your boyfriend or husband becomes violent, it won’t only be you that has to deal with the violence, your family, potential children and potential pets may face it too.

Even in a best case scenario situation in which your boyfriend or husband never becomes violent and is kind to you, you’re being a horrible example to any girls looking up to you, you wouldn’t get blackout drunk in front of a child, would you? No, you wouldn’t. So don’t normalize dating oppressors or act as if heterosexual relationships are typically healthy either, most heterosexual relationships are toxic, and like I said previously, even if what we’re talking about here is a best case scenario and your man is decent, there is still an inherent power imbalance between men and women, meaning no heterosexual relationship can be considered healthy.

Now, repeat after me:

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which femicide is common worldwide, even in the most “progressive” countries. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which most murdered women and girls are murdered by a male family member, boyfriend, husband or son. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which men who murder women get a slap on the wrist and sometimes even walk free. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which people regularly and knowingly vote rapists and pedophiles into office. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which most rapists aren’t charged with rape. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world where women are forced to wear the hijab and refusal to comply means risking beatings and even death. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which millions of women and girls have had their genitals mutilated and were killed due to infection that came from the unclean equipment used to slice up their genitals. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world in which virginity testing is still a thing. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where abortion is banned, causing both maternal and infant mortality rates to climb exponentially. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world that wants to restrict or ban access to birth control. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world that wants to erase women and discourage us from talking about our oppression. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where baby girls are discarded in trash cans because they happened to be girls. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 99% of the people who sexually abuse children are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 97% of the people who sexually abuse animals are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme response to a world where over 99% of poachers are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world where the majority of people who physically abuse or kill animals are men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not unusual or extreme reaction to a world where terrorism, shootings, hate crimes, strangulations and arsons are typically committed by men. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

- 4B is not an unusual or extreme reaction to a world currently going through a mass extinction event due to men polluting this planet and forcing women to reproduce, to the point this planet is becoming so overpopulated, we are running out of resources. You’re just used to women staying silent and accepting mistreatment, even though it’s justified for us to lash out since we’re treated like garbage.

4B is an amazing, merciful movement, it’s the opposite of what men and anti-feminist women paint it out to be. 4B will undoubtedly save lives if enough women do it. Every baby not born is one less baby that will be an oppressor or victim. Every baby not born is one less baby that will contribute to climate change, meaning that neither babies or adults will have to suffer in the future due to a lack of resources.

the wrong people in this world are unlearning shame

Is it not patronizing to claim that women are unintelligent to the point of always falling for social conditioning and propaganda and that women's decisions are always informed by such as a result? Because that is the notion that radical feminism is promoting and has been ever since I became acquainted with it.

Women are adults capable of making informed decisions and this fact remains true even if you believe that said decisions put women in a worse light. Besides, not only is this denial of women's agency patronizing, it is also offensive to the women from developing countries who continuously make decisions that do not involve exploitation or abuse under much worse pressure only to be lectured by western "feminists" on how impossible it is to achieve.

Men will never let you go peacefully

I really dislike radfems hating on asexuals. Not desiring sex is deviant from what is expected of society, whether among the right or the left (yes, even among radfems and it's quite obvious). There's a level of sex negativity that is encouraged in these spaces (don't have sex with men), but people taking it further upsets you (because you're a woman with the same desire for sex as the men you dislike). I will always support asexuality and acespec identities. If you want sex positivity in any form and don't want those "annoying asexuals" to bother you, just go outside. Stop acting like your stance on sex is not a mainstream opinion

kink isnt sexual and dude isnt gendered and aces can desire sex and cishet men are queer and lesbians can sleep with men and twinks can be fat and communists can own for-profit businesses and punks don’t have to listen to punk music and vegans can eat meat and white people are poc and humans can breathe underwater