Call me a puritan or a label me a misogynist, but I don't care about a woman's "human need" to sleep with multiple strange men. To me, it's just as selfish and reckless as men hopping from woman to woman creating children that will end up unloved or abandoned. I'm first and foremost an antinatalist at heart and the "sexual liberation" movement is a major detriment to society and the children that spawn from it. Especially when these men are literally telling you, "I don't care about you or any baby that results from this exchange; I just want to use your body for my pleasure".
*US online activist voice* you want me to give up fucking strawberry milkshakes???for so-called """global south""" if that's even a real thing.jokes on you. fucking that syrawberry miklshake brings me JOY and joy makes the Big Cheeto angry. and that's the truest activism. so you can stick your "brown" (??what does that even MEAN) strawmen up your ass. i prioritize Real, Tangible forms of protest, such as sticking my in this glass of milkshake, over your made-up gotchas (noce try, "africa"... when you're making up name locations at least try to make them sound real LMAO) that you clearly fabricated to create division and discord among activists. terminally online people telling you "poor" (?) "people" are "slave labour" for our "luxuries" but if you actually go outside and TOUCH GRASS you'd already know that you get milkshake from the store, not from child slaves. but i bet purit culture will find something wrong with going to the store too 🙄
The way most feminists believe women have no agency sure resembles the "I'm literally JUST a girl 🎀" thing to me, in spite of how much they claim to hate and reject that sentiment.
Yeah, and it's one of the reasons why I stay on the outskirts of radblr. Too much of radblr and it's choice "feminism" is bad for a womans health.
It's basically just a place for whining about the patriarchy and yet pretending there's nothing at all that can be done about any of it. It's a brainwashing arm of tumblr for women who are tired of liberal feminism. A new trap of fake feminism.
"We know wearing makeup is a way of performing for men and that it has harmful health effects, but don't listen to those mean women who say you can choose to stop! It's too haaaaaaaard cause like we were brainwashed, so that means we don't have to try and stop."
"We hate men but of course we need to keep fucking them! OMG my poor vag needs a man, like, psychologically or something. How can those mean separatist radfems say I should quit men even though I keep talking about how dangerous they are?!"
Thinking about when I asked my mom why humans keep having children when we spend the majority of our lives working—is life just supposed to be work? Is that the point? Are we learning something? Why did you have children? Why is human life so precious when it’s mostly suffering? Why do we keep doing this? And she just stared at me blankly for a long time then said I don’t know I don’t think about things like that I would never ask those questions. Oh ok
the worst person you've ever met: the most revolutionary thing you can do is hang out with your friends. if you can't hang out with me you're denying me the sense of community i need to survive and yes i know went on a pseudo-political rant about how you're a terrible person last time i saw you because i felt rejected by you not wanting to take responsibility for my basic needs (which you don't want to do because you've been brainwashed by capitalism) but sometimes human relationships are messy and if you can't stand by me through good and bad you're literally an oppressor with an avoidant attachment style who doesn't understand that you being needed by me is a profound gift borne out of my gracious superhuman vulnerability. i took accountability. now you 🫵
only just remembered the conversation I had with the person who said they couldn’t read anything written by a lesbian because they were a bisexual and it would be seen as infiltrating a space that wasn’t intended for them and wasting resources that weren’t theirs to use and they were terrified of getting in Trouble.
I will never forget when I read a revolutionary, pioneering, piece of academic literature on feminist ethics by a truly inspirational feminist academic who is still active to this day, whose conclusion was that most women are too fucking stupid and dick-obssessed to even desire liberation from men, let alone to actually achieve it. I have never seen an academic veer from science and empirical evidence like that. The fact that she did it is a testament to how inferior and hopeless most women really are.