I have this silly little feeling in my chest that's making me want to die
god forbid a girl just wants to be loved and heard.
okay im gonna go smoke and pretend i enjoy being alive
a girl whose love language is physical touch is also a girl who hates people touching her
Marcel Proust, from a letter featured in The Selected Letters of Marcel Proust
I hate how physical touch as a love language gets mistaken as just sex. It's so much more than that and so much less at the same time. Like just snuggling or sitting next to them and laying on them, and having them trace circles on your arm just because it feels nice, or to have their fingers run through your hair, lightly scratching your scalp, or tracing their fingers along your neck because it gives you those wonderful goosebumps with how good it feels. It's putting your feet on their legs and holding their hand and taking really long, warm hugs and sitting on their lap and them giving you little massages because holy crap it feels so wonderful and I live for those goosebumps. Oh my goodness non-sexual physical touch as a love language.
especially w my outfit boards vs my actual style ðŸ˜