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Fiddleford Mcducket!

He's a marbled duck. Was originally gonna make him an Indian runner ducks but these guys have tiny little mullets and it's incredible

+ some close-ups

"How do you get everything you want " is such a good question because no its not manifesting or attracting or feminine pussy power energy femme Fatale dark femininity whatever. It's because I learned how to ask.

A raise? Meeting w the boss it is. That cool airbnb that's not in my budget but I want? K we call the owner /manager. Event but no tickets? Who am I calling? An assignment that I want assigned to someone else? Let's have lunch together. Hell one time I got an entire plane ticket from someone at the airport and opera ticket from someone outside the opera.

I get what I want because i have the power of negotiation and communication

And I don't mean finesse, I don't curve people that's a real fast way to set yourself up for failure, if they don't catch you karma will. Life does not favor liars, I don't manipulate. I lay it on the table as it is. I want that assignment. What do I have to do to get it. Will I one up you? Probably. Will I do whatever is in my best interests? Of course. One thing I won't do though is lie or blindside. This is what I want. What needs to be done.

Ladies Everything, every single thing you get in life will be handed to you by another human being. Your house your car your job your marriage your kids. Everything. Every single thing you have you've been provided for by a person. Save the oxygen in your lungs. Hell even your genetics came from someone.

Power, real power is in communication and negotiation. No amount of loa and manifesting and pussy power feminine energy femme Fatale dark femininity whatever mumbo jumbo will save you from that. Eventually you'll get it from someone. Learn to talk to people. If you have to take communication classes do it. If you have to exposure therapy DBT do it. If you need a coach get one. If you have to read all the negotiation books do it.

Success, all forms of it, is completely dependent on your ability to effectively communicate and negotiate. Everything else is supplementary.

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Dear May,

please be full of amazing energy, positive vibes, calm and peaceful situations, happy moments and loving people! ꙳ ⋆ 𓏸𓈒 xoxo

Tonight, we remember one who lent his enormous talent to telling the story we have all come to love. Hail, the victorious dead!

May the Simbelmynë cover his tomb as it did the tomb of the one he so accurately portrayed.

Bernard Hill Dec 17, 1944 - May 5, 2024

Just today I got to see a chess book that I remember reading as a little kid. While it didn't give me a lifelong passion for chess, it did give me a lifelong passion for fantasy for its artwork.

The book is "Chess for Young Beginners" from 1975, and here's some of the artwork:

Like, this artwork goes hard. I especially appreciate the colour scheme for the black pieces, with its browns, bronzes, reds and oranges.

This artwork is amazing, evocative, exciting and dramatic. I recommend giving it a look if you have a chance - you can probably scrounge up a PDF of this thing with a bit of searching.

fun things to do INSTEAD of scrolling°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍈

the point of this post is to help u maybe limit ur phone usage and to give ur time purpose and feel more fulfilled.

learn something new online : start following up with an online course, theres this website (coursera.org) where u can engage in some courses and learn something new. CONTINUOUS LEARNING is probably something that i'd advocate for the most. there r so many things that u can learn online literally dont limit urself, i learned a whole LANGUAGE online. u can learn thru youtube, websites, reading online books, academic journals and articles, my girlblog :) etc

make a video to ur future self : like literally sit in front of ur camera and just chat as if ur chatting to ur future self (this can also double as a manifestation exercise) just TALK to ur future self, its sm fun when u look back and have a conversation with ur past self and to see all the things that u manifested materialized. its a lot of fun fr. this is especially good if ur the kind of person who struggles to see the progression that you've made. looking back on this SHOWS u ur progression.

turn ur phone into a productivity MACHINE : delete apps that make u feel distracted, get rid of old numbers on ur phone, unfollow ppl that give off negative energy/make u distracted. use notion (i love notion with my life) make schedules and to-do lists.

get a hobby : learn something new, start a hobby or continue one that you've had in the past. its genuinely so fulfilling to have something to do. (lately i've been into photography) if u can't find a hobby right at this moment then dedicate ur time and energy into something that'll serve u in the future. for me, i've been putting a lot of my time towards community service bcuz thats something that'll serve me in the future.

Pyrrha Dve Appreciation <3

i might have just done something great