What If…

Most men can’t even comprehend how precious this gift is, when she finds you worthy enough to submit and finally opens herself up to you, when she shows her gratitude and obedience along with an insanely strong, ever present desire to serve and make you happy, trusts you to calm her mind, it’s beautiful beyond words, the experience to see the real her, to see how small and how big she is at the same time is indescribable.

I pity men who don’t even know the existence of this marvel of nature.

Safeword lessons

I had cause to use my Safeword last night. I knew that I needed to because my body wasn’t reacting well to what was happening to me. This is the first time I have had to use it with My Master, and we didn’t handle it as well as we should have Hopefully our lessons after talking it through may help some others.

When I used my Safeword everything stopped, as it should always without exception.

I wasn’t in a good place emotionally, I felt like my body was rebelling against me. I felt that I could take more mentally but not physically. Did this feel like I was letting my Master and myself down…. Yes it did.

The very first thing that came out of my Masters mouth was a question. Not ideal at least not for me. I couldn’t think straight let alone give a suitable answer to a question. Did he have a right to ask… of course he did. We have a completely open dialogue within our relationship, it was more that I wasn’t capable of answering.

What happened due to the question was that I questioned myself, I doubted that I had done the right thing, I doubted myself. I let the negativity in and from there it was a snowball going downhill fast.

I created within our dynamic a negativity. I allowed myself to feel less than. Not acceptable…. I am not permitted to put myself down, by doing so I am putting my Master’s most loved down…me!

The outcome really was that he got angry with my actions and thoughts. Not that I Safeworded not for one second was he upset about that, but it was my actions after I used it.

Once I was in a better place emotionally I was able to express not only what I was feeling emotionally and physically, I could also and appropriately express to him the need to be held not questioned after I Safeword, the questions can and should come but not until I am settled again.

As I write this I am still going over it all in my mind, I am still processing what happened, as I am sure he is, you go through these experiences and you learn. You learn about each other and what works.

Don’t ever feel that you can’t use your Safeword no matter how the outcome plays out, it is your safeguard and the most valuable word that you possess.

Yummy

Frozen Chocolate Pie

reblog to save a life, i didn’t know this

Sitting here, watching you,

the pictures of you are making me hot

Yes i need to stroke, can’t take my eyes off of you, you’re so beautiful it takes my breath away

Damn i act like a 18y young guy, not like the adult i supposed to be.

Hell i don’t care, my cock is so hard and trobbing.

Up and down is my hand going, long gentle strokes, i move up the tempo, faster, harder… Will i shoot my cum? Would you like me to shoot my cum knowing that i watch you?

Tales from the dark side 😉

Perfect for a naughty romantic walk in the park ☺️

😯

She...

She touched me, deeply, hard and unexpected.

She didn't planned to do so, but it happend.

She told me her truth, the way she looked at herself.

She couldn't understand that i saw her different,

I saw beauty, she only have seen her imperfections,

She was not just average...she stoot out

Yes she will never be a photomodel in a magazine, but she will be mine!

She's beautiful on so many levels, just because she is who she is.

She shines like a star

She Rock my mind and soul,

She became the biggest treasure for me

She just didn't see the things i see

One day she will believe, one day she will trust, one day she will accept it all

One day.... She will, i hope and dream she will

Power

Never underestimate the power of a friendly word.

Never underestimate the power of a friendly smile

Never underestimate the power of being honestly interested in what someone tells you

Never underestimate the power of being honest

Never underestimate the power of words, they can build or destroy

Never underestimate the power of being friendly

Never underestimate the power of being a gentleman (perhaps you will not get to fuck her but at least you will have her respect and attention)

Never underestimate the power and strength in yourself

Never underestimate the past, without it there is no future