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“there’s no way i’d run into an unpickable door in THIS shack.” god, the place looked like it’d been abandoned for months, not even counting the smell of varying types of plants lingering around the place. a set of lockpick tools sat beside him, with his latest one (   a bobby pin, because desperate times call for desperate measures   ) also being a bust.

finally, he moved to retrieve his first tool again, a huff escaping. “there’s no such thing as an unpickable lock, unless it’s electric...”

Apparently “spite” is not an ‘appropriate answer’ to “What motivates you?”

《侏罗纪世界》（Jurassic World）

⨳ — MUNDAY;

send one to get to know the mun better!

If you had to choose a new faceclaim for your muse, who would you pick?  What’s your sweetest RP experience so far?  How many drafts are you stalling with this meme?  If you had a billion dollars and could only spend it, what would you buy first?  Is there something you really would want to write? What about not wanting to write something? What made you decide to write this muse? If you could “borrow” one aspect of your muse and apply it to yourself or your own life, what would you borrow?  How would you describe your muse to someone about to meet them, in person, for the first time?  In what ways are you better than your muse? In what ways are they better than you? Are there any characters that you love, but simply cannot RP? What’s your greatest source of inspiration when it comes to role playing?  Do you listen to music when you write? If yes, what kind of music?  Do you have a preference when it comes to gender regarding your muses?  Tell us about your day. How many ships do you have on this blog?  Is there some character/mun you want to ship with? Would you say you’re a decent roleplayer or do you have any self doubts?  Give us a rough estimate: How much time have you spent on your graphics? (icons, theme, banners, promos, etc)  Got any memorable threads on here? Care to mention a few?  Do you think you’d survive a zombie apocalypse?  Tag someone you love/look up to! If you could live in the world of your muse(s) would you?  Are there any muse(s) you miss roleplaying?    What is an AU you really want to play with your muse?  Which tropes do you find overused/boring?  Who is your favorite muse to RP? (Includes past muses.)  What advice would you give to a new RPer?  What does your URL mean?  How involved are you in your rp community?  What do you do when you get writer’s block?  Have you even encountered any partners that threw a tantrum at you?  What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you?  Have you managed to stay away from drama?  What’s your RP pet peeve?  What has made you completely lose your chill?  What do you think about public call out posts?  Thoughts on duplicates following you?  How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?  Thoughts on the fandom you’re currently RPing in?  What RP trends are you so over and can’t wait for it to die?  What’s something you enjoy? Be it a food, a band, etc. What is something or someone you have always wanted to write with? i.e. a particular plot, a character, etc. 

Dear Innocence,

                                Where are you?                                 What happened?                                 Who I’m I?

okay, THIS is the part where i post a starter on a sunday night so i can stop dicking around and actually like. write. so.

feel free to like this for a starter, reply if you’re a multi or a sideblog, the usual stuff. mutuals only. yeah.

The Seven Deadly Partners

I am by no means trying to tell you what you should and should not do, nor am I aiming to police the internet. If you’re comfortable with some of the following, that’s fine but this is a list based on my own personal experiences and what I have learned from them and it’s to help as a warning to those who might not know what to look out for as they’re new to RPing.

((If you choose to reblog this post for others to see you may do so only on the condition that you do not tag or mention anyone who you feel is one of these partners. This is not a call out freebee, that’s not what this post is for!))

1. Possessive Obsessive

    These are Partners who become easily jealous when your muse interacts with other muses. They don’t like the idea that your blog is a multiverse/ship blog because theirs is not or whatever reason they give for it. They might even go as far as to contact others anonymously to tell them to leave you alone without even consulting you first. Some of these parters appear to become upset or aggressive when you don’t know everything about their muse or you refuse a plot suggestion from them. They will try to isolate you in such a way that you are only able to write with them.

2. Guilt Tripper

   Those that don’t like what has happened in a thread or that you’re writing with someone they don’t like and then threaten to leave the site if things don’t change. That it would be your fault if anything happens to them or their blog, even threats to alter their muses relationship with yours. This is an attempt to control how and who you interact with. This is manipulative behaviour and should not be stood for.

3. The ‘Game Master’ 

   These partners are those that come up with the plots only they control everything in the plot, your muse isn’t allowed to actually be your muse because it effects their muse or their plot. In the end you must consider if you are writing your muse or if you are writing an NPC for them. You owe these people nothing you don’t want to give, no matter how controlling or guilt tripping they then become when you confront them.

4. The Stifler 

    Similar to the Game Masters, these partners smother your muse with threads but every single one of them is centred around the needs of their muse and not yours. While their muse grows and develops, there’s no breathing room for yours to do the same. You burn yourself out in keeping up with their threads but don’t feel like you or your muse are getting anything in return.

5. The Stalker 

   They ask for all of your URLs and it can be quite flattering, only they become annoyed if they find another blog of yours elsewhere you haven’t mentioned, or that you don’t interact with them through a certain muse of yours. These people might just be excited and eager to write with you but they have no right to expect you to do so on any of your blogs.

6. The Victim

   This one always, always plays the victim ooc. Whatever you do that they don’t agree with suddenly turns into vague blogging, sending anonymous messages, setting their friends on you or blatantly ignoring you in the IMs. It turns into a public call out post in which they expect their followers to side with them no matter what and deny you the chance to explain your side of the situation, yet they do not block or unfollow you, wanting to see the chaos play out. When eventually reasoned with, this usually results in a sob story from them in order to get your supposed forgiveness and as if you might return to everything as normal… beware the apparent victim.

7. The Bleeder

   These are the partners who blend whatever is happening in character into out of character things. Sometimes it is just a one off and many, many people have done it in the past, but when it keeps happening there should be red flags and warning bells ringing. If your partner cannot differentiate between OOC and IC expect considerable drama!

&. ARGUING STARTERS.

“i can’t believe you.”

“are you serious?”

“we’re not finished. i’m not just going to let this go.”

“so you don’t trust me?”

“fuck you.”

“you know me! and the fact that you still think i’d do that hurts the most.”

“i miss the old you. i don’t want the person you’ve become.”

“you never understand.”

“you said the same thing last time.”

“i’m so tired of constantly doing this with you.”

“you don’t even try to see it from my perspective.”

“i’m not apologizing.”

“hell if i care.”

“this is fucking bullshit.”

“why are you always the one who’s breaking my heart?”

“i can’t do this anymore.”

“you don’t mean that.”

“i hate you.”

“you never keep your promises.”

“out of all the things you’ve told me, what was true?”

“i can’t even look at you.”

“do you even love me anymore?”

“i’m fucking done.”

“i shouldn’t have ever trusted you.”

“you’re being unfair.”

“i’m not going to keep being your little secret. i deserve better.”

“i’m leaving.”

“just… just go.”

“i thought you’d be the one to make me happy.”

“you don’t even pretend to care about me.”

“i don’t even remember the last time you told me you loved me.”

“don’t go.”

“i never asked for this.”