“Close the door. Remove the dust. Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.”
— Paulo Coelho
“Comparing yourself to others is an act of violence against your authentic self.”
— Iyanla Vanzant
when Rumi wrote, “You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens,” he was referring to breaking our heart by giving and receiving love from other people, to fully trust them, which means, if they break the trust, our heart would break. If this repeats, either with the same or different partner, we will eventually wise up by opening our heart to ourselves: by loving ourselves, by being accountable. To ourselves.
Only when we open our heart to ourselves first, we can have a healthy relationship with ourselves. Anyone who has a healthy relationship with themselves will have a healthy outlook on life and relationship with others. It’s similar to the saying, “you can’t pour from an empty cup”. Fill your cup first. Take care of yourself first. Love yourself first.
Once we love ourselves, we don’t feel the need to completely depend on others for our happiness. Sure our happiness gets affected somehow, but if they decide to betray us or leave us, instead of kicking and screaming, throwing tantrums (or shoes, or plates), we’ll peacefully let them go. I’m not saying that we won’t feel sad or angry. The uncomfortable feelings are inevitable, but when we love ourselves, we will not avoid the responsibility to take care of ourselves.
In the long run, we’ll naturally repel anyone who is not right for us
Sometimes I feel alone..even if people i care and care me back are around me..
You feel like .. there's actually no bond..but sometimes u feel there is.
This is the case for everyone too..
No one is really friendly and attached with thier one ..
Everything is just a part 7 stages..
People are acting inorder to live..
There is no passionate love between souls...
No one feels right..
We all are different in our own ways..
We are the actors of the universe..
Who is portraying a fake message to others.
Paulo Coelho
“It takes a huge effort to free yourself from memory.”
— Paulo Coelho
“At the end of the day, people will let you down, they will label you as something you are not, it is all to make them feel better, it is about them not you.”
— Leon Brown
There will always be an invisible bridge between us
A hope , a feeling of optimism or a wish for something to happen. But here I am in disbelief that the thing I was yearning for years won't come true..
Fear of being judged by my own thereby begetting intense and impending danger portraying the evil in me
I know it hurts but I believe that these gestural expressions gives me hope of things that won't come true.. which also puts me into vivid grief..
Feels like I am enclosed within the walls of hell
But I do realize that I have a spiritual bond with the almighty which makes me an angel trapped in inferno
I am not finding quotes nor posts that can hold up my side..
I just wish someone could give their all ears.... so that i can admit it "yes i am wrong "
“Being brave doesn’t mean you aren’t scared. Being brave means you are scared, really scared, badly scared, and you do the right thing anyway.”
— Neil Gaiman