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Non-Cheating Hotwife Challenge

This is for a non-cheating “Hotwife”.  These dares involve flirting and risqué behavior only which are designed to increase trust, confidence, desire, appreciation, lust, intimacy and FUN in the marriage. NO ACTUAL CHEATING TAKES PLACE!! Make up your own “rewards” for achieving certain point levels.  

 1 Point

 #1 – Suck a lollipop seductively in public.

 #2 - Play naughty ‘truth or dare.’

 #3 – Send your hubby a kinky pic of you while shopping.

 #4 - Let your hubby take sexy pics of you flashing in public.

 #5 - Talk to someone on the phone whilst you use a dildo or a vibrator.  Bonus point if it’s one of your husband’s  friends or a male family member.

 2 Points

 #6 - Go out in public in a short skirt with no panties.  Bonus point if you bend over with people around!

 #7 - Wear a skirt and remove your panties in public not far from people.

 #8- Get your hubby a cock cage and lock him up while you dress provocatively all week.

 #9 – Role-play that your hubby is a stranger and you’re a horny, cheating wife.

 #10 - Flash your boobs to a stranger.  Bonus point if it’s “accidentally” to a male acquaintance!

 3 Points

 #11 – Eye fuck a guy. Bonus point if it’s in front of your husband!

 #12 – “Forget” to wear your bra in public when it’s somewhat noticeable.

 #13 – Wear a loose fitting top in public.  Bend over in front of attractive people.  Bonus point if no bra!

 #14 - Have your hubby make his dick bigger with a penis extender and role-play that he’s a big-dicked stranger.

 #15 – Tell your hubby he can cum only at the thought of you with another man.

 4 Points

 #16 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt with your hubby.

 #17 - Hubby picks out a revealing outfit for you for the day. Whenever you catch someone looking, smile.  At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while he strokes himself.

 #18 - Flirt with another man while you’re seated.  Cross your legs slowly as you talk and see his reaction. Bonus point if you’re wearing a skirt/dress. 5 bonus points if wearing a skirt/dress and no panties!

 #19 – Flirt strongly with a girl.  Tell your husband all about it if he’s not there.  Bonus point if your hubby is present!

 #20 – Go to dinner with a low cut top and your tits out.  Put your tits on display every time the server comes to your table.  Bonus point if the server gets caught obviously looking!

 5 Points

 #21 – In front of people (strangers or acquaintances), say slutty things.

 #22 - Get a lap dance at a strip club with your husband watching.

 #23 – “Accidently” show someone a hot pic of you while showing them something on your phone.

 #24 - Get hit on and picked up by a hot guy.  Your hubby can “rescue” you at the right time.

 #25 - Go to dinner with your husband.  After the meal, slip your panties off and sit at the bar and flirt with other men as he watches.

 6 Points

 #26 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt without your hubby.

 #27 - Go out in public with a remote vibrator in you and talk to attractive guys.  Your hubby watches and controls it.

 #28 - Dress revealing.  Look at an attractive guy until he looks away.  Bonus point if he approaches you!

 #29 - Make up a story about getting it on with another girl while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.  

 #30 - Have an anonymous dirty conversation with a stranger online.

 7 Points

 #31 – Time how quickly your hubby cums when you talk about:

a.   Fucking another man

b.  Sucking another man

c.   Him and a stranger (guy or girl) sharing you

 #32 - At a party, leave at least one extra button unbuttoned.  

 #33 – Make up a story about fucking or sucking another guy while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.  

 #34- Wear a button-up top.  Hubby dictates how much cleavage is shown.  Smile and flirt with every person that looks. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while you blow him.

 #35 – Next girls’ night out, wear a dress or skirt with no panties.

 8 Points

 #36 – Hubby gives you money to buy new shoes.  Wear a skirt with no panties while trying them on while someone assists you.

 #37 - Wear a short skirt, dress or revealing top with no wedding ring. Have fun and see how much attention you get.  Share it with your husband as you stroke him.

 #38 - Have your hubby fuck you slowly while you tell him a made-up fantasy about fucking someone else.

 #39 - Use a vibrator while watching porn (any genre - your choice) while describing how hot the guy is or how big his cock is while your husband is forced to masturbate.  

 #40 – Fuck in the bathroom of a club or bar after flirting with strangers.

 9 Points

 #41 – Tell your hubby a made up story about having sex with someone else while he fingers you.  Bonus point if it’s a true story from your past and you let him know!

 #42 - “Accidentally” rub against a guy’s dick through his pants with your hand or ass.

 #43 - Wear a short skirt.  Do things like crossing your legs, adjusting your shoes, etc. to see if any strangers try and look up the skirt.  If you catch them, smile.  Bonus point if no panties!

 #44 - Dress sexy and sit at a bar by yourself.  Smile, flirt, bend over, etc. as your hubby watches.  Then go home with your hubby and fuck!

 #45 – Hubby dresses you as he sees fit.  Go out and do whatever he asks.

 10 Points

#46 - On a girls’ night out, send your husband pictures of you flirting and having fun with other men.

 #47 - Get 3 guys to buy you a drink at the bar.  Do whatever it takes to make it happen!

 #48 - Go to a club and dance with another man while your husband watches.

 #49- Go out without your hubby, flirt with strangers, and keep texting your husband giving him updates about it.

 #50 - Wear sexy, tight, short or revealing clothes when his friends are over.  Do things like bending over, etc. to show it off! See how often you both catch them sneaking peeks.

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Exploring the Stag and Vixen Lifestyle: A Journey of Trust and Connection

Relationships are as unique as the people in them, and every couple finds their own way to foster trust, intimacy, and happiness. My wife and I embarked on a journey that deepened our connection and brought us closer than ever: exploring the Stag and Vixen dynamic. It’s a lifestyle that isn’t for everyone, but for us, it has been a profound experience of trust, communication, and mutual respect.

What is the Stag and Vixen Lifestyle?

For those unfamiliar, the Stag and Vixen dynamic is a consensual arrangement in which one partner, the “Stag,” enjoys the idea of their spouse, the “Vixen,” exploring experiences that may involve other people. This is done openly, with full communication and consent from both sides. For us, this lifestyle is not about infidelity or secrecy but rather an expression of trust and open communication.

Our Journey into the Lifestyle

Our story begins with a simple, honest conversation. My wife and I have always believed in being open about our thoughts and desires, no matter how unconventional. One evening, over a quiet dinner at home, we talked about what it meant to truly trust each other. This conversation opened the door to discussing fantasies and how we could explore them together.

The idea of the Stag and Vixen lifestyle came up as a natural evolution of our mutual respect and curiosity. It wasn’t a decision we made lightly; it took weeks of discussions, setting boundaries, and ensuring we were both comfortable with every aspect. This process itself was a testament to the strength of our relationship.

Communication and Trust as Foundations

If there’s one thing this lifestyle requires, it’s communication. We talked about everything—how we felt, what boundaries we needed, and what we hoped to gain from the experience. It wasn’t about replacing intimacy in our marriage but about enhancing it.

Trust was the cornerstone of our journey. The idea of my wife exploring this dynamic was not about jealousy or insecurity but about celebrating her confidence and individuality. For her, knowing she had my full support made the experience empowering and exciting. For me, the joy came from her happiness and the deeper connection we built as a couple.

How It Strengthened Our Relationship

One might assume that this lifestyle creates distance, but for us, it has done the opposite. Our ability to communicate openly has strengthened our bond. We have learned to listen without judgment, to respect each other’s boundaries, and to prioritize each other’s feelings.

The lifestyle also gave us a chance to rediscover ourselves. My wife found new confidence, and I gained a deeper understanding of what it means to be a supportive partner. These experiences have added layers of complexity and richness to our relationship, making it stronger than ever.

What We’ve Learned

This journey has taught us that every relationship is different, and there’s no single “right way” to connect. What matters is finding what works for both partners and nurturing it with honesty, communication, and mutual respect.

For those considering exploring alternative dynamics, our advice is simple: start with an open conversation, establish clear boundaries, and always prioritize each other’s feelings. It’s not a journey for everyone, but if approached with love and trust, it can lead to a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner.

In the end, the Stag and Vixen lifestyle is just one facet of our relationship, but it’s one that has brought us closer than we ever thought possible. By embracing each other’s desires and supporting one another wholeheartedly, we’ve created a bond that is unshakable and endlessly rewarding.

Disclaimer: This blog is a personal account of a consensual lifestyle dynamic. It is intended to share insights and experiences while respecting the boundaries and choices of others. Every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Always approach such topics with open communication, trust, and mutual respect.

Eu disse-lhe que iria ficar a ver.

"Este é o que nós somos. Esta é a nossa vida, e é assim que a vivemos."

Dare!