Agere Asks! ♡

I want all agere babies and tots to know: you all are valid and supported on my page 🧚🏻‍♀️🌸💕

I was just about to spiral into a bad panic attack, and my boyfriend goes "Stick an ice cube in your mouth." I'm not really sure where he got the idea, and I kinda laughed at it because I didn't see how it would help, but he was insistent. So I did it.

And now I'm on my second cube, because it worked.

Reblog this if being called "little one" makes you melt on the inside

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The dream

I'm tired of chairs, I want to sit on a girl's lap

i have never felt as mature as when i finally understood (through therapy) and internalized (through emotional work) that you cannot connect and communicate with some people no matter how kind, compassionate, understanding, articulate, eloquent, or smart you are, and that sometimes a person not listening to you does not reflect on your communication skills or ability to connect or straight up intelligence. in a way, it’s letting go of the belief that you have the power to make people understand you. communication is a two-way street, and needs two willing participants. some people are just walls, and it has been unbelievably helpful for my mental and emotional health to let it slide and know that it does not affect me or my self worth. 

little journal ideas 🍀🐸

im starting an agere journal again and i see that theres not much stuff about them here so here are some of my ideas as what to write about!!

🍄 about me page!

🍄 stuffies log! tell about who they are!

🍄 your favorite recipes so you dont forget them!

🍄 a little gear wishlist!

🍄 a list of what little gear you do own!

🍄 a sticker collection sheet! show them off!

🍄 write down your bedtime/morning routine to remember it!

🍄 a chore sheet/checklist so you dont forget the things you need to get done!

🍄 what are some of your favorite things? write about them!

🍄 have a page dedicated to cute doodles!

🍄 practice your alphabet! or for older littles, your cursive!

🍄 treat it like a diary! write some of your feelings down or what fun stuff has happened to you recently!

small things u can do to make u feel cleaner, more organised and less stressed

-gather all ur bags and empty them- pockets and all. put things back in their normal home. then repack ur bags with what u really need

-do the same for ur coat pockets!

-tidy ur room!!!

-hoover ur room!!!

-open ur windows, even if it’s cold outside; ur room needs an airing every once in a while

-spray a little perfume round ur room whilst ur at it

-clothes in ur wardrobe all a mess?? refold/hang up those bitches

-light a candle/set up an infuser

-organise! ur! folders!!

-make a to do list. put it into sections: things to do today, things to do soon, and things to do when u have time

-organise ur laptop/desktop/phone (especially ur photos!)

-have a shower if u need one; take ur time and enjoy it. de stress.

-make a new playlist for whatever mood ur in: sad, happy, angry, mellow, whatever ur feeling

-delete old songs/playlists u don’t listen to anymore

-go through ur social medias & unfollow accounts u don’t care about anymore & accounts that make you feel shitty

-clean out ur email inbox

-down the side of ur bed is messy? clean it

-u have a bedside table? clean it

-if u have more time, look through your belongings and see if u have anything u don’t want anymore & can donate. do this in sections; books, clothes, stationery, etc

-make something u can eat or drink: a smoothie, a cup of tea/coffee, eggs, toast, whatever ur heart desires

-that thing you’ve been meaning to do for ages but keep putting off? do it. it’ll relieve more stress than u can imagine

(feel free to reblog this with additions!!)

✨Looking for Blogs to Follow!✨

I am looking for blogs to follow for my regressed self. Please reblog or comment saying that I can follow you, if you meet the requirements below and are comfortable with what I post!

Your Blog Needs to Be:

10000% SFW

Any aesthetic is fine (I’m not picky considering how inconsistent my blog is lol)

Agere-related, OR nature/cottagecore/kidcore/babycore if not agere-related

Allow interaction from CGLRE blogs (because I post about my caregiver sometimes)

My Blog:

Is 10000% SFW

Posts about agere + CGLRE (reblogs and original posts)

Uses terms such as “little” “little space” “caregiver” and parental terms for my caregiver (all in a SFW context!)

Has a DNI (read more here)

Has no set aesthetic because I like a lot of stuff!

Thank you to anyone who is interested!

XOXO,

💜Gracie💜

Source | X

What You’ll Need

* A Large Box

* Utility Knife

* Packaging Tape

* A Large Nail

* Strands of White Lights (photo has about 225 lights)

* A Blanket or Material

Instructions

* Cut the opening to your cave.  Secure any flaps or reinforce your box with the packaging tape

* Poke holes in the box with the nail and push the lights through.

*  Finish your cave by draping material or a large blanket over the box.