𝐌𝐘 𝐃𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐘 𝐇𝐘𝐆𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐄 𝐑𝐎𝐔𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐄

being a lover girl around men who only want me for sex is like being a lamb surrounded by wolves and im being eaten alive again and again and again because i think they're different and they're not

where?

“how to” masterlist | adult cheat sheet ⋆·˚ ༘ *

download free books! the world’s largest ebook library - read as much as you can! and read with an open mind ♡

daily living

manifest using the law of assumption

quick fix meals - 30 minutes or less!

easy meals for when there’s “nothing” to eat

how to use a charcoal grill

what to do when you can’t afford therapy

things to keep in your car incase of emergencies + tips for driving in the winter

where the fuck should i go for drinks? an app to find places near you.

birth control info

book recommendations for

100 organization tips (slideshow style! dont worry about endless scrolling.)

the ultimate laundry fabric care cheat sheet

step by step guide to laundry + laundry symbols

ideas for closet organization

know your rights and what to do when the cops pull you over

how to send a letter

a sweet message from dad how do i?

book recommendations (free)

master your emotions: a practical guide to overcome negativity and better manage your feelings

big panda and tiny dragon -  amazon link, i couldn’t find a pdf for this one :(

atomic habits: tiny changes, remarkable results

the 7 habits of highly effective people: powerful lessons in personal change

how to win friends and influence people

the 4-hour workweek: escape 9-5, live anywhere, and join the new rich 

the 48 laws of power

power of now

recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)

affirmations

30 self concept affirmations

+ more will come soon!

finances

financial managment app - free

money management 101 + how to manage your money

how to open up a bank account

what’s a mortgage? loan basics for beginners

how to write a check

things to know when you have trouble paying your bills

how to do your taxes

resume workshop

car

how to jumpstart your car

how to change a flat tire

how to check your car’s fluids

how to check the air pressure in your tires

how to check and change you car oil - a complete guide video

health

things to know before you pick a health insurance plan

your first gynecologist appointment

taking care of yourself when you’re sick

note: please don’t overwhelm yourself with this post. you’re doing amazing. these things are just good to know, us humans are not built for remembering ALL of these things!!! when you’re having trouble or need some tips, this post is to be your go to reference!!

**if any links no longer work, send me an ask and i’ll fix it right away.

reminder to always cross reference if you don’t understand the linked posts. these are just things to piggy back on to get you started.

+ i’ll add more things such as daily tips and advice as time goes on and when i make tumblr posts. 

this post was inspired by this user! so shout out to them. most of it was missing so i decided why not make one myself while adding things of my touch. i hope this helps!

how to become a neat-freak

I’ll be the first to admit i have not always been a tidy person. In the past i said things like “it’s an organized mess, i know where everything is!” As an excuse for not keeping my space neat.

Now i love having a clean space! It gives me peace knowing i have one less thing to worry about - cleaning my room

- start to view having a clean space as a sign of respect for yourself, and your space. There are many important things you need to do on a day to day basis, and that list can be cut significantly by setting a standard of cleanliness for yourself. Im sure you have many beautiful things in your room, and if you’re like me you care about maintaining them. Respect them accordingly.

- as cliche as it is, your bed is the best place to start. It takes up the majority of your room, so having it made daily allows the smaller tasks of putting things back in drawers, taking water bottles downstairs, feel much smaller in comparison. Doing this first thing in the morning is a great momentum tool as well - your brain will view it as a big task checked off your list and continuing your tasks for the day will appear easier.

- know where everything is. Workout leggings and tops in one drawer, pjs in one drawer, dresses on hangers, etc. Being consistent with where you put your things saves you time and energy. No need to hunt for 30 minutes trying to find your favorite top when you can just put it in a specific drawer and remember where it is whenever you need it. Giving everything a place also helps prevent losing small items like airpods, earrings, and house keys

- organize your closet conveniently. For me, this means hanging my clothes in rainbow order. Ive done it for years and i love how it looks. I don’t have to rake through my closet for the black dress i want, i just go to that section and pick it out. I also organize by shade (which comes in handy when you’re me and have 50 shades of pink to choose from😄)

- create a routine. I vacuum my room, wipe my mirrors, and wipe down my desk every week. I typically do my laundry twice a week. I wash my sheets weekly, and my comforter biweekly. Having a routine that you don’t have to write down makes cleaning feel more natural and less forced.

- clean when you aren’t busy. I don’t do laundry on days when my schedule is packed because i know my clothes will end up sitting in that laundry basket and getting wrinkled. Tasks like washing my sheets or cleaning out my closet require dedicated time, so i do my best to plan accordingly.

- blur the line. You are not someone who is messy and wishes to be tidy, you are a tidy person that is human and slips up. The more consistent you are with cleaning your room, your car, your backpack, the more natural it will feel. When people come over they always compliment my room and i take pride in that! I can’t just appear to have my stuff together in every aspect, and then neglect my room. Hypocrite alert.

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what are some of your favourite books?

more book talk, i love it here <33

fiction:

hook, line, and sinker

the silent patient

the sweetest oblivion

frankenstein

off campus series

normal people

red mercedes (ff)

peaches*

my year of rest and relaxation

scream for us

when heroes fall

lilah*

gaslight*

over my dead body*

priest

the saints devil*

top floor*

deviance*

ace de luca + aria de luca

birthday girl 🫣

love unexpected

* = wattpad / soon to be published

non-fiction:

digital minimalism !!

deep work !!

48 laws of power

rites of lucifer ♡

lilith dark feminine archetype ♡

101 essays that will change the way you think

the girls’ book of glamour + the girls’ book: how to be the best at everything + the daring book for girls

ten arguments for deleting your social media accounts right now

atomic habits

the modern lady’s guide to elegance and charm

your brain on porn: internet pornography and the emerging science of addiction

talking back to facebook: the commons sense guide to raising kids in the digital age

the simple parenting guide to technology: practical advice on smartphones, gaming and social media in just 40 pages

the tech diet for your child & teen: the 7-step plan to unplug & reclaim your kid’s childhood (and your family’s sanity)

reset your child’s brain: a four week plan to end meltdowns, raise grades, and boost social skills by reversing the effects of electronic screen time

pls tell me ur favs as well! ♡

I didnt realise that I flirted with my friends until I started talking to guys bc the way i msg guys is the same way i msg my girlfriends

and if i msg guys the way i msg my friends, i realise its flirting woops

self-doubt simply doesn't exist within me. no matter how impossible something seems or how hard it will be to achieve I'm always like "okay and?" and then I make it happen. maybe it's bc I have a proven track record of getting what I want but like nothing seems impossible to me. why would I doubt myself? I can have whatever I want, it's that simple. if other people have made it happen, that means it can be done so why would it not be able for me to get it too? no self-doubt. no need for it.