i see a lot of my black mutuals in pain and struggling mentally lately so if any of you need it here's a post of mental health resources made by a black woman specifically for black people struggling right now... i love you all so much please take care of yourselves
Look how many people hate him. Iโm pretty damn happy about that ๐๐๐๐๐๐
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Here is something happy in all of this crazy matters my dog Bubbles!!
She is a great girl!๐๐
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They are stunning.
Things they donโt tell you about top surgery
- Talk to the surgeon about the size you want your new areolas/nipples (donโt be afraid to ask)
- Numbness. No one talks about this for guys who are about to have surgery. Youโre going to be numb all in your chest area, especially where the incisions were. They cut nerves as they pass along your chest, and it can take up to a year to regenerate those nerves. Still, feels super foreign for the first two weeks
- Make your bed into a pillow chair, body pillow, two on each side, and two for your head.ย
- Sleep alone. I tried to sleep with my girlfriend and it was miserable. You really do need the entire bed for yourself
- Go on Groupon, & get yourself a 10 foot lightning cable iPhone charger, BEST THING EVER, can reach from wherever you are
- Donโt take a week off from work, take two. You will regret the one week, and love the extra time
- When they sayย โdonโt move too much, even after the first weekโ. LISTEN. I moved way too much and got so sore super quickly.ย
- Drink lots of water & eat if your taking the pain medication, otherwise your stomach feels super funky.
- Get stool softeners, & donโt be afraid to take those babies. Donโt wait a week to poop. youโll surely regret it.ย
- The drains are scary & they may hurt while draining or rewrapping your dressings, but once they come out, the second they do, its no more pain, its crazy.ย
i hope this helps someone, because i wish i knew all of this when i was having mine a month ago. Looking back its like everyone forgets all the real negatives, its a great experience, & i healed very well & quick compared to most, but the first few days are crazy. They hurt, suck but it gets better.ย
I also might put more gacha life content in here and some writings so look out for that ๐
Yo! You can call me M.k I go by they/them pronouns, I hope your ready for crazy posts ๐ , please no hate on my post just criticising my drawings or writing or something you see wrong why?? I want you all to feel safe ๐ because that's all I want people to be happy!!!! ๐๐ ~ M.k the crazy kid running this
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