Why Does Everyone Keep Calling Kylo An Abuser And Manipulator? As Someone Who Has Been Abused And Manipulated

Why does everyone keep calling kylo an abuser and manipulator? As someone who has been abused and manipulated her whole life, I can tell you that nothing kylo did was manipulative or abusive

Honestly? This entire fucking movie exists to show you Kylo has NEVER been abusive/manipulative towards Rey. It’s fucking hilarious it flies RIGHT over their heads.

When Rey doesn’t find answers toher parents, and the mirror shows her worst fear to her, being alone, Kylo replies “You’re not alone” instantly?

Kylo waiting patiently for Rey to finish talking and listening to her worries?

Kylo speaking gently with Rey the entire movie, except at the end when he’s desperate for her to go with him?

Instead of Kylo threatening Rey, or telling her in TFA “I can take whatever I want”, begging her “Please”?

Kylo killing his abuser he’s had for 29 years of his life without even having a second thought and without being conflicted at all, to protect Rey, and out of anger that his abuser hurt her?

Kylo never lying to Rey and tells her the honest truth every single conversation they have with each other?

Kylo helping Rey come to the fact her parents won’t come back and she finally lets it go after 10+ years?

WHERE. IS. THE. ABUSE.

THIS ENTIRE MOVIE EXISTS TO SHOW YOU KYLO CARES FOR REY.

Nonnie, I’m sorry to hear about your experiences, I can relate because I’ve also been manipulated and abused most of my life (which is only 16 years) by my father. I can say with the deepest ability, and in the depths of my heart that it’s NOT abuse or manipulation. Everyone bases that currently on the “You’re nothing- but not to me” line because THEY DON’T HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO FUCKING USE. And it’s honestly sad because it’s out of context to what it actually means. Whatever, man, fuck these people.

Kylo could literally die saving Rey, and/or the resistance, and say he loves her thousands of times, and these people will still find a way to call it something it isn’t. So, you know what? Fuck ‘em.

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I still somehow wish the ending is just trolling us all, and the real one will be released next week.

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The Future of Star Wars...a theory:

Anyone else wonder if they decided to end the saga this way because they want us to be deeply invested in whatever else could be coming down the line for Rey and Ben and the rest of our ST characters? I mean...it seems like a pretty corporate thing to do.

We have strong evidence that a different ending was filmed—changing that ending to be more “ambiguous” could have easily been a late decision made to keep possibilities for other stories open. An ending like the one we we given in TRoS keeps people talking—it leaves people wondering what could be. And when DLF announces that a new story is continuing on with our ST characters (Rey, Ben, Rose, Finn, Poe and the rest of the gang) people will be more than ready to roll.

But the Skywalker Saga is over. Where do we go from here?:

Yes, the Skywalker Saga has ended...in the sense that the nostalgic-ridden story that lives in the shadow of our OT characters has ended. LF closed the book on the Skywalker Saga and gave “traditional” OT lovers the nostalgic film they wanted to “satisfy” them at the end of their nine film storyline. Rey literally laid The Skywalker legacy to rest by burying the family sabers.

But now, our new characters that were introduced in the ST don’t have to live with the shadow of Luke, Leia, Han, and Lando looming over them—These characters can grow and change and have their own story arcs separate from the OT characters. Gone are the days of catering to the OT audience—it’s time for a new generation of stories.

Do I think our OT characters will be erased and never talked about again? Of course not! But this isn’t their story anymore. Star Wars is about a new generation now. 💜

There is so much left open for us to explore: Rey’s story arc isn’t complete—she still has to finish her heroine’s journey. Ben Solo isn’t dead. He’s somewhere in the Great Unknown—the World Between Worlds was introduced for a reason. There can be no balance without the Dyad together—Ben and arey must reunite. Finn is Force Sensitive—there is so much to explore there! And Rose, Jannah and Poe all have stories brewing, too.

I’m excited for the future. Wether these stories are explored in comics, novels, animation, Live Action TV shows, or (we can all hope) films—I am ready for any of it. I’m craving these stories. So many of us are.

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5 years ago

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