“Never Miss An Opportunity To Show Your Love, Especially To Those Close To You, Because We Are Always

A little message from me, a mexican, to y’all my white followers, for this May 5

**IMPORTANT

Some sentences to help you set boundaries!

Pakikipag-pustahan

Nakipag-pustahan kana ba? Yung pustahan na makakasakit ng isang tao. Na ang pustahan eh paunahan kayong dalawang makuha ang loob ng isang tao. At pag-napasagot eh kailangan hiwalayan para matapos ang pustahan at masabing ikaw ang panalo? Ngunit paano kung sa gitna ng pustahan bigla kang na-inlove sa kanya? Sa taong pinag-pustahan at pinagtitripan nyo. Anong gagawin mo? Itutuloy mo paba ang pustahan? O ititigil ito at aaminin sa kanya ang totoo?

Napakasakit sa pakiramdam na pagtripan ka ng mga tao, lalo na’t ang damdamin mo ang pinaglalaruan nila. Yung gagawin nila ang lahat gumaan lang ang loob mo pero katapos tapos eh sasaktan ka lang nila at iiwan. Sobrang sakit diba? Paano nalang kung yung taong mahal mo eh minahal ka dahil sa isang pustahan? Hindi mo masasabi yan dahil sa ngayon likas na ang mga manloloko. Kaya wag kang magtiwala sa mga salita, hangga’t hindi mo nararamdaman na mahal ka wag na wag kang mafo-fall. Para hindi ka masaktan ng wala sa oras. Para hindi ka tawaging TANGA.

Payo lang sa mga nakikipagpustahan, dapat buo ang loob mo sa pakikipagpustahan mo, kasi once na nafall ka mas magiging complicated yung sitwasyon. Kung ako sayo don’t play someone’s feelings. Kasi magbabounce back yan sayo hindi man sa time na gawin mo yun pero isang araw makakaranas ka din kung anong naramdaman nya nung pinagtitripan mo sya.

things that are not selfish:

prioritizing your mental health

saying no

calling in sick to work or school (even if you’re not physically sick)

limiting contact with someone when their issues are affecting your happiness negatively

cutting off toxic people

declining help

setting boundaries for yourself

not immediately responding to texts/calls/emails

ending a friendship or relationship even though the other person “hasn’t done anything wrong”

not donating any money

complimenting and being proud of yourself

treating yourself

One of the sneaky ways people with secret animosity towards you try to sabotage you is by influencing you to make detrimental choices.

Hateful monitoring spirits recognize your value. They know they can’t tear you down through direct attacks, so they pretend to be in your corner, hyping you up while encouraging you to make decisions that will ultimately harm you.

If you're trying to lose weight, they might try to get you to break your diet or skip the gym because “you deserve it” or “your body already looks great as it is.” If they see you’re close to getting a promotion, they may try to convince you that your career path is toxic and you’re better off quitting. If you want to change your lifestyle and stop being hedonistic, they will try to make you feel like you only live once and shouldn’t “restrict” yourself from having fun.

These people know exactly what they are doing. They are envious of you and terrified of your potential. They sometimes understand what you are capable of more than you do. A real friend is someone who holds you accountable and has your best interests at heart. A hater is an enabler who will steer you towards a path of self-destruction. Don’t mistake smiles for genuine support and love.

Mr. Robot

“Without music, life would be a mistake.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche (via neckkiss)

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