No Joke You Guys NEED To Get More Comfortable Blocking People. No More Insulting People In Public Over

are we fucking with butches with anxious attachment? butches who are a little too clingy? butches that act like rescue dogs when they’re around strangers? maybe butches that act quiet and mysterious but inside they’re just really nervous around your friends?

we fucking with that?

why are people pretending that sex is the only axis upon which some people willingly enjoy things that hurt/scare them

Include men in your body positivity. you are not body positive if you make fun of male pattern baldness, neckbeards, fatness, etc in men. these traits are just as worthy of acceptance regardless of if it's wrapped in pink bows or not.

What if

Happy new year 😘

metamorphosis

This blog is pro tits and anti Nazi

happy birthday everyone

"harmful gay stereotypes" and it's a feminine man

I feel like too many consent-related posts focus too much on giving and getting consent, and not making sure that people feel comfortable not consenting. We talk too much of consent as if it is a given, as if you just have to ask and then you’ll get it. 

like, there are so many things that boil down to “before you have sex, ask for consent” rather than “don’t assume you’re about to have sex unless you know for sure that the other party/parties want to, and even then they could change their minds”.

Which is just really unhelpful. The whole point of consent shouldn’t be “you should always ask for it and then you can have care-free sex”. That still assumes that you’re going to have sex, when the whole point of asking what people want to do is that it should be possible to say no.

Consent and dissent are both equally valuable. It’s OK if someone asks you if you want to do something, and you say no. And whether you say no for today, for a week or forever, it’s all fine.

Because you know that there are going to be people who think they’re so ~progressive~ and so ~feminist~. when they ask their partner(s) if they want to have sex, but then won’t be able to handle the word “no”.