I totally get you. Was very similar to you (and honestly still am) until I met my bf/queer platonic partner. I wish I could care for him the same way an allo person could, and I know that our relationship is very different than how allo people would approach theirs. He is the sweetest and very understanding about me having no interest in anything sexual, but I still wish I could be intimate with him that way.
sometimes I wish I could fall in love. like I'm happy I'm aroace don't get me wrong, but sometimes I wish I was like allo people. I hear love songs and read books and fanfictions about love and it just seems like the sweetest thing, but I know I can't experience that. people always say "you'll meet the right person!" but wouldn't I have experienced something by now???
even when guys have said they like me, there's just this small panic or absolute disinterest I experience towards them. like I like the idea of a relationship and having someone there in your best and worst times, but I know I wouldn't be able to love someone. I could never imagine myself loving someone like that. and while a qpr does sound nice, I imagine the chances of something like that is small. and even then, if it was an allo person I would feel terrible not being able to love them in return. I don't know. I love being aroace, but sometimes I feel so upset I won't ever have the allo experience.
btw I’ve found these stretches from the WAK blog very helpful when knitting a lot:
Plus make sure to take breaks regularly - and stop if anything starts to hurt!
especially with gift knitting I know it can be tempting to push through it for a deadline, but it’s really not worth causing long term injury. (And anyone knit-worthy should be understanding of that, imho.) Stay well :)
FINISHED DIABOLICAL BOX YESTERDAY!! God why are the stories so sad. Explain that to me. WHY ARE THEY SO GOD DAMN SAD‼️‼️ shed a tear at the first game and cried the entire pacific ocean in this one wow. Also why is there like 3 whole plot twists in this game damn bro 😭😭!! Other than that, i really enjoyed it. Plus the puzzles were muuuch harder in this one arghh
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Every Robin After Becoming Robin: omg bruce didn’t replace you!!!! your literally perfect in his eyes. you can do no wrong. and he looks at me and ……. he sees all the ways you were better. he loves you ….. i cant replace you when we dont even compare !
Every Robin When Someone Else Becomes Robin: this mf replaced me
Ugg I so agree. I remember reading the last book and I was so wtf when the sisters thing came out cause I had been shipping them the whole time
I am so sick of people guilt tripping lesbians when we that say we feel queer baited by Sophie and Agatha. Aside from them already being heavily queer coded as individuals (I already made a separate post about that) – they fucking kissed in the movie. On the lips, might i add. Before y’all start coming to me with the whole bs that is, ‘oh no it was supposed to be platonic!!’ and ‘kissing doesn’t have to romantic!!’.
I KNOW that. But let’s be real for a second. They kissed (on the lips) in a climactic moment, revealing that they were each other’s true love. If this had been a guy and a girl – y’all would have never implied that shit was platonic. Hell, even if it was two guys!! That’s not how friends act!
I feel like this is adding to the whole rhetoric that ‘Lesbian relationships are not serious’ and ‘oh they’re just really good friends’.
We were queer-baited. I don’t care who you ship. I don’t care that Soman himself is queer. This film is reaching a wider audience and can potentially add to the negative representations of sapphics in media.
Stop guilt tripping us. We deserve to be upset. And hopefully, we can influence the writers to retcon that stupid sisters twist. This doesn’t mean that agaphie has to be endgame (tagatha can still be) – but i’d at least like an explicit confirmation for a little while.
Clark: Bruce Bruce what is this 9 yr old Dick: :D Clark: Bruce Bruce, haggard, injecting 5 hour energy straight into his arm: baby bird Clark: you can't let a child fight crime Bruce, near tears: you want to try and stop him? please for the love of God Clark try please Dick: I'm gonna do murder! Dick: *cartwheels* Clark: oh no Bruce: that's what I said
They always make Link look so serious in promo art and for what?
actually hold on this is something ive always been curious about. i know so many people who HATE seafood and very few of them are poc or neurotypical and i feel like theres probably some kind of correlation there SO.
bonus points if you specify in the tags (e.g i'm mixed black and asian from australia, im neurodivergent and i fucking LOVE seafood. fish in particular. im eating a tuna sandwich as i type this.)
rb this btw im nosy
i HAD to do the barbie redraw