Hotwifing Explained In Mind Blowing Way.....never Ever Someone As Explained Hotwifing As Clear As This
Hotwifing explained in mind blowing way.....never ever someone as explained hotwifing as clear as this
This is a new alternate blog started because Tumblr has designated my original “The Hotwife Blog” as explicit, thus almost everything I post is flagged/removed unless it’s extremely tame.
This blog is about the Hotwife phenomenon. I began researching the subject many years ago seeking to understand what about a Hotwife was so sexually exciting, and if I was crazy for wanting my wife to be one. Was there something screwed up in my head, that my wife having sex with other men turns me on? At the time I had no idea there was even a term for my fantasy. I found out that not only is it the most common fantasy men have, but it is also a lifestyle that is much more mainstream than I ever imagined. I also found a lot of confusion and conflicting information.There are a lot of wife sharing lifestyles, many of which overlap or share some of the same basic ideas, but too often the Hotwife lifestyle and cuckold lifestyle are depicted as being one in the same. In actuality they are very different. Unfortunately, Tumblr is probably the worst offender at spreading misinformation. It is full of captioned photos linking cuckolding and Hotwifing. Not to mention most of these photos are of young women with perfect little bodies fucking hot young guys with big cocks, which doesn’t represent reality for most people. Add to that captions saying something to the effect of how the husband is a sissy and needs to lick the cum off her when she gets home, and you can get a really distorted view. I understand these are fantasies, but anyone looking for information about the lifestyle, especially women, could be immediately turned off before having a chance to explore the true lifestyle. I hope to clarify the classic Hotwife lifestyle with this blog. The following is a compilation of information gathered from across the Internet along with my own experiences and preferences. Hopefully, for anyone who happens to stumble across it, this blog will give a little clarification into this quickly growing phenomenon.
First let’s define the Hotwife. A “Hotwife” is a happily married woman who has the freedom to have sex with other men with both the permission and encouragement of her husband. However, while the wife is free to play with others, the husband remains completely monogamous to her. The husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits. The wife’s sexual pleasure should not be confused with romantic feelings for her sex partners. The other men just are sexual adventures, she loves her husband and both spouses understand the distinction between love and sex.
The hotwife shouldn’t be confused with other forms of wife sharing lifestyles including swinging and the aforementioned cuckolding. Swingers are typically couples that enjoy having sex with other couples, so both the husband and wife have sex with different partners. The term “cuckolding” is tossed around quite a bit these days and while “Hotwife” is often used synonymously with the term “Cuckoldress” within that lifestyle, it is a different idea. Cuckolding, while also wife-centric, focuses on demeaning and abusive behavior towards a submissive husband whom usually considers himself sexually inadequate. Where Hotwifing could be considered the polar opposite of cuckolding. It focuses on the wife’s experiences. Hotwives and their husbands are motivated by the sexual thrill, for its own sake. The exhilaration she gets having sex with other men and knowing that this excites her husband. Humiliation has no part in it. Recently the term Stag, for the husband, and Vixen, for the wife, have starting to be used to further define this lifestyle and distance it from Cuckolding.
Clearly, the Hotwife concept is at odds with cultural conditioning and human tendencies toward jealousy and possessiveness, so it’s no surprise most wives are shocked to learn of their husband’s desire. At the same time, most husbands wouldn’t allow their wives to become Hotwives. Although they may entertain these thoughts in fantasies; possessiveness, jealousy and cultural conditioning ultimately prevail. However, we know that some husbands seem to handle this without ill effects on the relationship. The jealousy often still exists, but comes out in their sexual excitement, rather than through fear or anger. And some husbands seem to just be immune to jealousy, either by virtue of their own personality, or by their confidence in the security of their relationship and the love they share with their wives. Surprising to most people, couples that participate in the Hotwife lifestyle aren’t unhappily married couples that have fallen out of love and are just looking for a way to fuck around. In most cases, the couples have been together for a very long time and are very much in love. They still have great sex just maybe not as often as they would like. By exploring this lifestyle they experience more physical and emotional intimacy and end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when they do it. That being said, these types of relationships are not for everybody. Many couples may dip their toes into these waters, and yanked them out again, because of jealousy and fear. Furthermore, if you have an unhealthy relationship, venturing into the lifestyle is just asking for trouble.
So why would a husband who truly loved his wife want to see her with another man? There are many answers and it varies from husband to husband. I think most are voyeuristic in nature, but the underlying answer is that it’s his love and deep emotional connection with his wife that’s at the core. It’s his wife having sex with others that excites him; not strangers having sex with which he has no emotional connection. He gets turned on seeing his wife excited and feeling free, in the throes of passion achieving greater sexual pleasure through the attentions of more than one man. It makes her more appealing and naughty, basically letting her inner slut out.
So why would a wife who truly loves her husband want have sex with other men? As with the husband, there can be many reasons. For some, they like feeling desired or they may enjoy being seduced. Others may simply enjoy the opportunity for sexual variety, the excitement of new sexual experiences, the “forbidden” nature of what she’s doing and knowing that it excites her husband. In many cases it improves relationships communication and intimacy, as well as, supercharging her sex life with their husband. Some women may immediately embrace the opportunity for sexual freedom, but most will take some time to weigh how it will affect her marriage and your feelings toward her. Many wives will suspicious that you have some ulterior motive… that its just a ploy for you to later say that since she is fucking other guys, that you should be able to fuck other women too. In this case, it will take time for her to truly believe that this is not your desire. It should be noted that, of course, many wives are not interested in becoming Hotwives, even though she may enjoy sex and may have had numerous sexual partners before marriage, and may even enjoy Hotwire role play, actually being a Hotwife is just not something she will ever be comfortable with. In this situation the husband should not push his wife into doing anything she doesn’t want to do. If for no other reason than it defeats the idea of the fantasy, but more importantly it will most likely damage your relationship.
Hotwifing has several levels of involvement by the husband. The arrangement between each husband and wife will be specific to them depending on the couple and what they prefer. There are no set rules; it depends entirely on the partners to set the boundaries and limitations. The wife may meet other men alone. The husband may never know or meet the other men. She meets them on her own, and makes all the arrangements without any involvement from her husband. The other men may or may not know about her lifestyle, or be aware that the husband knows about them. They may not even know she is married, if she chooses to remove her rings and pretend to be single. Sometimes both the husband and wife meet men together. The husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for the wife to meet her “dates”, but the husband is not involved in any sexual activities between the wife and the other men. Other wives will have sexual relations with other men in her husband’s presence, or even engaging in sexual play that involves all three, as part of threesome where she first has sex with the other men and then her husband, or both with her at once. Whatever the level of involvement, the husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits, whether this happens with his direct involvement or with him just watching or hearing her recount later when she returns home from a date.
The rest of this blog consist of a collection of inspirational images collected from across the web that I believe embodies the true spirit of the Hotwife/Vixen lifestyle.
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पहले थ्रीसम की कहानी
कितने महीनों की मान मनौव्वल
कर तुमने मनवाया
तरह तरह के क़िस्से दे कर
मन राज़ी करवाया
उन क़िस्सों में उलझ उलझ
मैं खुद को थी बहकाती
मन में हाँ कहती थी तुझसे
मुँह से न कह पाती
फिर आख़िर एक दिन मैंने ही
छोड़ लाज का आँचल
कहा बुला लो आज किसी को
जो कर दे मुझको घायल
भूल न पाऊँ उस रैना को जब
तुमने मुझे कहा था
सपनों वाली रात सजेगी आज
तुम तैयारी रखना
संग तुम्हारे वो आया था
बाँका छैल छबीला
अँखियों में जिसकी जादू था
कैसा बदन गठीला
बातों का वो जादूगर था
मोह लिया मन जिसने
होंठों को कितने हौले से
चूम लिया था उसने
लाज से दुहरी हो कर मैं
होती थी पानी पानी
हर धड़कन की हसरत में
नई थी एक कहानी
सामने तेरे उसने बालम
चोली मेरी खोली
मेरी चूच्ची को मींज मींज
हौले से साड़ी खोली
हर पुर्ज़े पर तन के मेरे
होंठ से उसने चूमा
उचक उचक के मदहोशी में
मैंने भी उसका चूमा
दोनों हाँथों से उसने फिर
अलग किया जाँघों को
बुर मेरी थी पानी पानी
चाट रहा था जिसको
पूरी जीभ घुसी थी अंदर
मैं तड़पी जाती थी
हाँथ तुम्हारे हाँथों में था
तुमको चूमी जाती थी
संकेत तुम्हारा पाकर मैंने
खींच लिया था उसका
हाँथों में उसका मूसल लेकर
चूम लिया था उसको
चूस चूस कर उसका लौड़ा
लाल किया था मैंने
मोटा तगड़ा मुगदर जैसा
बना दिया था मैंने
आँखों में चमक रही थी खुशियां
मुझसे ज़्यादा तो तेरी
रात स्वप्न की तुझे मिली थीं
बाँट बदन को मेरी
फिर पा के अनुमति तुम्हारी
उसने जब था पेला
लोहे का सरिया मानो जैसे
मैंने था कोई झेला
फाड़ के मेरी चूत धँसा वो
धीरे धीरे अंदर
बुर में पानी इतना आया
मानो हो कोई समुंदर
चुदी चुदाई चूत मेरी थी
जैसे अभी कुँवारी
इतने गहरे में घुसी न थी
अबतक तेरी गाड़ी
झटके उसके ताकतवर थे
झूल रही थी जिस पे
दर्द वो कितना प्यारा सा था
चीख रही थी जिस में
तुम भी बैठ गए थे उस पल
आ चेहरे पर मेरे
चाट रही थी गाँड़ तुम्हारा
तुम थे चूच्ची को भींचे
कितनी देरे झुलाया उसने
लौंड़े पर वो झूला
फिर उसने खींच लंड को
कुतिया मुझे बनाया
मैं रंडी थी आज लगा यूँ
जब मैंने मुस्काया
खींच खींच के बाल मेरे
वो फट फट मारे झटके
चूतड़ मेरी लाल लाल
जाँघों से टकरा के उसके
फिर उसने खींच लिया
मुझको अपने ऊपर
वो लेटा था बिस्तर पर
मैं उसके लौंड़े के ऊपर
तुमने कहा फिर कानों में
रानी है तेरी बारी
उछल उछल के चोदो अब
याद दिला दो नानी
मैं भी दुगुने जोश में आकर
चोद रही थी उसको
वो भी हैरत में डूबा सा
देख रहा था मुझको
झाड़ के मुझको तीन बार
वो था अब भी मैदां में
रण जैसा कुछ आज ठना था
बुर में और लौड़े में
फिर मैंने चाल चली एक
वो ऐसे चकराया
गाँड़ पे अपनी लंड लगा कर
एक झटका लगाया
दर्द तो ऐसा जागा कि प्राण
गया हो मेरा
पर मैं रंडी बन बैठी थी
दाँव था मेरा तगड़ा
कुछ पल में उसने छोड़ा
अपना लावा गाढ़ा
मुस्काई थी गाँड़ मेरी
पा के लंड वो तगड़ा
मैं उतरी जब उससे तब
तुमने गले लगाया
चूम के तुमने मेरा माथा
मेरा मान बढाया
मैंने मन ही मन आज कहा
नित् ऐसी रैना देना
यौवन ही तो है जीवन का
सबसे अनुपम गहना
सबको मिले तुम्हारे जैसा
साथी मेरे सजना
हर जन्मों में बस मेरे तुम
मेरे बन के रहना
©
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Ground Rules
Another day of Hotwifing advice and of course..your questions and stories is upon us. Today I am going to address the topic of Ground Rules.
I have heard some major horror stories in the lifestyle from couples who swing and from couples who Hotwife and all due to this one most important topic. Due to the fact that there are 2 people involved in both lifestyles, you have to remember that feelings and emotions matter not just with you, but also with your partner. Without solid ground rules that address the feelings of both partners, this lifestyle can and does destroy marriages and relationships.
As a Hotwife myself, my goal in the lifestyle is not just to fuck other men, but to enhance my marriage with my husband. In fact, the latter is priority number one! And if you don’t do the same, then you are not Hotwifing….you are just dating and playing the field.
To avoid the tragedy, ..set ground rules….both of you! My Stag and I do not have many ground rules now but we started off with a ton of them. And if you are just starting off in this lifestyle, I can recommend a few to use on your own. Experiment with them. Use them if you like. Add to them if you like. Delete a couple if you like. It really is all about what works best for you both as a couple.
A good one to start with is to set the ground rule of ..You do not message or contact men without your Stags approval. And you do not agree to meet anyone without his approval. This will eliminate the possibility of jealousy.
Another good one is that you will not have a playdate without your Stag being present. The truth of this one is that your Stag most likely really will demand this anyway for safety sake.
Another is that there is no kissing (I can’t do this one at all and my Stag has never laid down this rule but there are those who are serious about this one)
Couples who are ok with the wife playing alone, some set a rule for the Hotwife to take pics and video each and every time they have a playdate. (This is one of my Stags rules).
Another good one for beginners is to always include the Stag, whether that be by the sex itself or the constant eye contact or touching. This is used to assure the partner that you are his always and it also helps show affection in a very intimate setting.
Some Stags require their Hotwife to dress super sexy. But I think this is a given anyway!
Another very good one for beginners is to set the rule that anytime one of you is feeling uncomfortable with anything, that you immediately stop and talk about it until you come to an agreement and set the boundary or draw a line in the sand.
Remember you can set whatever ground rules that you like. And also remember that this isnt just about you. Do not get into this lifestyle thinking that your needs are to be met only. That doesnt work. This lifestyle is for you both. Keep each other in mind at all times and you will have a great time!
This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and stories of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions or stories today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ♂️♀️♂️ ~LillybGoddess
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15 ways to be a better cocksucker
#1 – Be able to host, especially if he is married.
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo
.#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
.#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – you don’t need to take a break.
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, you are not done. Get him hard again.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. I would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off
.#13– Rim him. When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#14 –touch your cunt when you are sucking him, but do not cum
.#15 - Ask him if he wants to take pictures or record you sucking his cock to brag and show to his friends
Lovely explanation
An open letter to my Wife and all other Ladies
If your man has had the courage to tell you that he wants you to fuck other men, stop tormenting yourself with the morality of the situation and worrying about whether he loves you, or if this is a ploy for him to have sex with other women. If he is like the other 99% of us who have had the “talk”, then what he wants is for you to experience pleasure and for you to share that pleasure with him in some way.
Each of us are different, pleasure for me is not humiliation, it’s the raw sexual ecstasy that I want her to feel. The thought of watching her pussy stretch around a very hard, thick cock, and makes my cock throb, my breath short, and my lust intense. I can almost feel the pleasure that she would experience between her legs, almost as if my cock were her pussy. I assure you, wives and girlfriends, that this request by your man is an act of love and admiration and is staunchly centered around his lust for ONLY you. In fact most men who want this, rarely fantasize about anyone else but you. You are the center of their sexual fantasies and desires. You will not be “unfaithful” by carrying out this act of love for your husband/boyfriend. Faithfulness is what is in the heart, not a physical act. The words “slut” and “whore” are often used by him referring to you in a loving way…this is what he wants you to be, at least in our secret sexual world (none of your friends and family need to know). The idea of you being promiscuous serves to heighten his desire for you a great deal.
So please, whisper in his ear that you are ready to become a slut for him. Tell him that you want your pussy to be fucked and filled with cum while he watches and then you want him to slide his cock into you and deposit his own load into his little slutty whore. Do it for him, do it for you, free yourself and your sexual desires. You’ll never turn back and wonder why you took so long to get there!
I would love to hear your thoughts ladies and hubbies/boyfriends!
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