It’s Raffle Time Babey

We’re bodily 35 - it can be hard to find other systems about our age. But we will keep trying!

Adult Sysculture is looking for system friends that are youre age and arent freaks.

Oh that one likes kids!

Oh that ones an endo!

Oh that one doesnt know how to communicate and doesnt want to learn-

WHERE ARE ALL THE COOL SYSTEMS WE CANT BE THE ONLY ADULT SYSTEM THAT HAS NO INTEREST IN CHILDREN

We are technically an adult system but we're still only 19 so it depends how much you count that as an actual adult lol

But we get that struggle. We get it very much

Someone was panhandling at a stoplight I always get caught at today. And when I handed over the couple dollars in cash I had in my wallet to him and he thanked me, I realized something.

I wasn’t afraid at all.

I had to think back. Because there was a time when I was so unreasonably afraid of homeless people that I unintentionally taught my Sheltie to bark at them because I would get so stressed out if I even got stopped next to someone panhandling.

And that was when it hit me.

That fear isn’t mine. It’s a former host’s fear. And her fear was because if people she knew could hurt her the way they did, she couldn’t even imagine what a stranger might be able to do to her.

I empathize with her fear. But I’m glad that I don’t share it. It feels like growth. In some small way.

To all the middlespace blogs we just followed - our system’s middlespace regressor blogs are:

@gq-olivia and @gq-pippa

In case you’d like to follow them.

Our partner and I joke about this by saying “Stand users attract stand users.”

We’ve noticed over the years that plurals tend to sorta… flock together. Even as egg cartons/pre-syscovery. As an egg carton we had a friend group that was mostly other plurals; initially all of these plural friends were unaware of their plurality, but slowly things became unveiled and they came out as plural. There were also singlets present, but A WHOLE LOTTA PLURALS TOO

Later when that friend group inevitably began to fall apart (~60-80% our fault, we got better though I swear), we branched out to other communities and interests for reasons that would likely de-anonymize me, and the rp we joined was populated nearly entirely by plurals and egg cartons.

Apparently, according to our mentor system, they have a habit of, as they put it, “accidentally hitting people with the plurality beam.” (Or, discovering a person they met was masking as a singlet, or being the snowball that leads to someone abruptly realizing they’re plural.)

So, is this something you’ve also noticed?

haha, honestly? we've noticed it too, in the past. our closest friends for about 3-5 years (a long time ago, when we were pre-system discovery as well) turned up to be plural, last i can remember. we had a best friend for about two years who was also a system, like ourselves, that we met coincidentally. in high school, said friend had a bit of experience with others questioning whether or not they are a system as a result of knowing them. we were never too public about our system, so i can't speak for us. maybe we are all like magnets. /j

but it is definitely interesting to hear of similar experiences. thank you for sharing your thoughts!

We’re gonna update the side logs list today!!

Blackout lol

Autism Bingo!

Blank (mostly)

Mine:

Please feel free to participate!

Acquiring Trinkets and Hobby Stuff: hell yeah

Moving all of your Trinkets and Hobby Stuff to a new apartment: straight up having a bad time right now

And then when those 7 don’t work on their problems, 7 more appear. And so on. And so forth. XD

sorry systems are so funny. *turns you into 7 smaller people to fix your problems * (all 7 people refuse to work on their problems) 

A poetry anthology but the poems are written by different headmates in a DID System. Is that anything?