I like how most posts about being in love with a fictional character are made as a joke, and then there’s us in the corner like “lol… no, but actually though.”
-Admin Eevee
While watching some little kids, I discovered a kid-sized play structure that had a game with a roster of sapient characters but only in a parallel dimension where it was just me and the game, and the characters told me they existed as a way to bring joy to children through this game (which I'd never seen before), and they usually just talked with each other to pass the time.
maybe if we, as a society, spent more time in gardens things wouldn’t be like this
What's your take on 19 year olds trick of treating?
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. I’ll hand out candy to an uncostumed 48 year old man. i don’t give a single shit. i love halloween and want everyone to have a good time lmao.
RIP Jonathan Demme
Thank you for the best live concert film of all time among many other beautiful works of art.
Stop Making Sense (1984)
i loves stars
@ the creators of my f/o’s media when they kill them off
Cosplay your f/o
No seriously, cosplay them
Because then you’ll have their clothes to wear when you feel like you need them, maybe your f/o wears a necklace? You can wear it everyday! Do you imagine your f/o wearing a certain perfume or aftershave? Spray a tiny bit of it on the part of the costume you’re wearing (just be careful not to use too much)!
Seriously, choosing to cosplay my f/o was probably the best thing I did because it’s so comforting, trust me and try it out if you can!
So I was just experiencing daydream crash a couple days ago, and I realized some things that actually made me feel comforted.
This will be a list of ways to get over daydream crash.
1.) If you have a large stuffed animal (small works too I guess), just hold it like you’re holding your para.
The reason I thought of this was because I have this stuffed bunny that I named after my para Nesset, and this stuffed platypus that I named after Ellen. And when I hug them, it makes me think that I’m actually hugging my para’s. I don’t know if it’ll work for any of you, but it helped me when I was curled in a ball covered in tears haha. I just felt better I guess. Not to mention I always have to sleep with these stuffed animals, and since they’re about medium-sized, it makes me feel like my para’s are right next to me.
2.) Listening to music.
Now I’m not just talking about any kind of music. I’m talking about songs that would normally bring joy to your para’s. Or a song that made you extremely happy about a daydream you had. I know daydream crash is where you realize this stuff isn’t real and it can never be real, but if you think about it, you want the best for your para’s, and if anything, I’m sure all of your para’s want the best for you. They wouldn’t want to see you upset. So maybe listening to one of their favorite songs will make you happier because you know how happy it makes your para’s. Just because they aren’t real, it doesn’t mean they don’t care about your emotions.
3.) Listen to your para’s sing!
This one is kind of related to the last tip. But its kind of different. If you saw my post about how I give my para’s a famous singers voice, you should understand what I’m talking about here. If you don’t, I’ll explain. I have certain bands/singers that I listen to for comfort when I’m experiencing daydream crash. But the reason I listen to just a couple specific bands/singers is because I use those voices as my escape. Since I use Tossing Copper, and I The Mighty as Ellen’s voice claim. I picture Ellen singing those songs to me. And its extremely comforting because their voices are amazing, and mellow (mellow depending on the song). And if you have a para that has a voicelcaim. Use that band/singer as your escape! Like I said, its basically like your para is singing to you. Its the most comforting feeling ever I swear!
4.) The Multi Universe Theory!!
If you haven’t heard of the Multi Universe theory, I strongly suggest and highly recommend that you look it up!!
If you’re lazy and don’t want to, then I’ll explain! Basically what it is is scientists have studied that there may be more than just this universe. Because the universe goes so far out into nothing basically, obviously it has to lead to something. So if you think about it, these dreamverses that we have, these para’s that we have, they could possibly be real! Not to mention studies showed that “more likely than not” there are DEFINITELY more universes out there. If this doesn’t help you with your crash, I don’t know what will. I was super relieved when I heard about it.
The only question is how do we get there? They haven’t figured that out yet, but it was confirmed that they could most likely exist.
I really hope this helped some of you guys who have gone/are going through daydream crash! If you need to talk, I’m always willing to listen!