I don't know who needs to hear this, but if the phrase "self care" doesn't resonate with you, try calling it "system maintenance" and see if that clicks.
I'm scared, and I don't know what to do. I'm scared. I see a famished purple rabbit with pink overalls and scurvy eyes everywhere on the Internet, and I'm scared. Send help. I'm going to choke on a hot dog.
all digital artists like to play a game called what fucking layer is that dot on
crisp glass of water moodboard
i maed a robot because robot :p
I don’t know if I’m allo or aro but why is love so confusing?
like genuinely what is the difference between platonic and romantic? Every answer I’ve gotten is so stupid, because I feel that way about my friends! I wish we could live together, we could be roommates and we could have movie nights daily. But it’s platonic. But also if I don’t know what romantic is so what if that’s romantic? But then why do I feel that way around everyone. Why is so confusinggggg
the most helpful chart I've found so far is this:
(source)
However, you can define your attraction however you want, or even just leave it without a label. It's okay to be confused, take your time and figure things out when you are ready.
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What kind of attraction am I feeling?
It can be difficult to figure out exactly what we are feeling toward someone, especially since we can be feeling multiple types of attraction at the same time. To help you out, here are some things you might think about someone when feeling certain types of attraction.
Romantic attraction:
"I feel a physical magnetism to this person"
"I think about them all the time"
"I can't help but imagine a future with them"
"I fantasize about kissing them, marrying them, moving in with them, etc"
"I desire for them to be romantically involved with me"
"The feeling I have for them is distinctly different from how I feel about friends or family"
"I have physical reactions to them, like butterflies when I'm near them or an ache when they're away"
Sexual attraction
"I feel a physical magnetism to this person"
"I can't help but fantasize about being sexually close with them or imagining them naked"
"being near them arouses me a bit"
"I feel my loins react to their presence and I am extremely aware of how close they are to me"
"It's like everyone is in grayscale but this specific person is in full colour"
Platonic Attraction:
"I feel an emotional magnetism toward this person"
"I feel like we are on the same wavelength and I can easily understand them"
"I feel like we are vibing and it's easy to talk and share with them."
"I feel drawn to their energy"
"I am very comfortable hanging out with them and I desire to get to know them and have them get to know me"
"I can easily spend time together without a lot of effort or emotional drain"
Aesthetic Attraction:
"this person has a really cool style or a beautiful face/body
"I appreciate their beauty the same way I appreciate a beautiful sunset"
"I want to be around them in the same way I want to be around beautiful art"
"I feel a desire to stare at them or maybe even draw them"
"I enjoy how our styles compliment each other"
Sensual attraction:
"This person makes me feel like I do when I see a big floofy dog - I feel a strong desire to snuggle them or hug them or just be near them in a non-sexual way"
"I may fantasize about cuddling them or being close to them"
"I may feel inclined to physically interact with them more than other people."
end id.
Scares the Dickens out them. 😳
A small drawing of a One-short/fanfic(?) that I'm doing :D (I haven't finished it-)
It's going to have a little bit of Bill angst, idk (I'm not good at drawing)
Hell yeah, I love the Bill angst ‼️‼️‼️
It's a story "Steve was there AU" x "Handyman Bill AU" (The idea is not mine, it came from a drawing of @meraki-sunset [also the creator of the AU of "Steve was there"])
God, how I love those two au's 👊
The drawing is not finished, but it gives an idea-
Also, the Steve in the drawing is not the normal one, it's a kind of hallucination (?) that Bill has about him between dreams (I'll give more context when I have the full story or I have more drawings 👍)
Edit: I FORGOT THE MARK ON THEIR BODIES 😭😭😭
Also, happy birthday to Isaac Asimov!
Happy birthday to meeeee!!!
BILLL, if ya could do arson would you?!!
Yes I can, could, and would again!
-Bill
I love getting unaccompanied minors (kids flying alone) who so clearly just. Don't want to be here lol. Sometimes I get to know a little of their story, like their parents are divorced, or a family member died and they're heading to the funeral, but usually they just don't want to talk about it and that's fine. But I always treat the flight like it's a challenge to make them smile. I offer them snacks and soda but that's never enough, that's whatever, they could get those from an airport vending machine. Chump change. So then I tell the worst jokes. Just the most embarrassing, kindergarten teacher, annoying dad jokes you can think of. And those always get a groan, or a "Seriously??" And that's my in! Now I can say "Why, what's your idea of a good joke? No, come on hotshot, make your best joke, let's see it." And they hem and they haw but of course they eventually tell me their very best joke because kids are little competitive comedy goldmines. And it's always super funny, so I laugh, and that's where they slip up. Because you know what you almost always do when your joke successfully makes someone laugh? You smile. And I'm like. Gotcha. Rookie move. Now you're going to end up having a good time in spite of yourself. I win.
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