What's With Me And My Habit Of Forgetting To Crosspost

Ridiculous yet effective ways to deal with Executive Dysfunction

Dealing with executive dysfunction and ADHD becomes so much easier when you stop trying to do things the way you feel like you should be able to do them (like everyone else) and start finding ways that actually work for you, no matter how “silly” or “unnecessary” they seem.

For years my floor was constantly covered in laundry. Clean laundry got mixed in with dirty and I had to wash things twice, just making more work for myself. Now I just have 3 laundry bins: dirty (wash it later), clean (put it away later), and mystery (figure it out later). Sure, theoretically I could sort my clothes into dirty or clean as soon as I take them off and put them away straight out of the dryer, but realistically that’s never going to be a sustainable strategy for me.

How many garbage bins do you need in a bedroom? One? WRONG! The correct answer is one within arms reach at all times. Which for me is three. Because am I really going to get up to blow my nose when I’m hyperfocusing? NO. In allergy season I even have an empty kleenex box for “used tissues I can use again.” Kinda gross? Yeah. But less gross than a snowy winter landscape of dusty germs on my desk.

I used to be late all the time because I couldn’t find my house key. But it costs $2.50 and 3 minutes to copy a key, so now there’s one in my backpack, my purse, my gym bag, my wallet, my desk, and hanging on my door. Problem solved.

I’m like a ninja for getting pout the door past reminder notes without noticing. If I really don’t want to forget something, I make a physical barrier in front of my door. A sticky note is a lot easier to walk past than a two foot high cardboard box with my wallet on top of it.

Executive dysfunction is always going to cause challenges, but often half the struggle is trying to cope by pretending not to have executive dysfunction, instead of finding actual solutions.

“can mutuals dm you?” my mutuals can fire me from a cannon through a brick wall, looney tunes style. as long as we’re all having fun

I have opened ask box now!!

About Post

(03/26/2025)

Name's Kari. 20+ 25-. She/they

I identify as nonbinary woman and butch lesbian

This blog is dedicated for the character Sakuma Jirou and Kidou/Sakuma ship from the Inazuma Eleven series. I mostly post arts and analysis here. I have many other faves, but I'm too Sakuma hyperfixated to spare time for them. Just a note if you're following me for them :')

BYF and tag directory under read more

BEFORE YOU FOLLOW

My ask box is locked and my DMs are closed for non mutuals but you can mention me anytime, I will take some time to reply

I don't fuck with whitewashing and dead dove contents (incest + adult/minor ships and sexualization of minor characters). I don't want to follow people who like them and/or actively defend them for my own comfort # peace

I also don't like reposting of arts and fanarts especially uncredited

TAGS DIRECTORY

#my art - art posts

#my analysis - character analysis

#shitpost - joke posts and anything that's not really related to the blog's main contents

#reblog - fandom related reblogs

#reply - reblogs with reply and discussions with other users

#unsorted reblog - non fandom related reblogs

I always tag series names and characters!

on unrl note sakuma’s birthday tag was the reason why i started drawing him cause i got mad last year tag has so many whitewashed arts to the point i barely retweeted any. now i draw him non stop. this sakuma jirou hustle is so serious

can you believe it? sakuma’s birthday! only 8 days away!

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the sameer project

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🍉 I'm a lot more active on X and Bluesky so I likely will respond to questions a lot faster there, however I still check in other accounts time to time so you're free to ask me here too :)

Waaahhh thank you so much for tagging me they're very very precious I love them... T_____T💜🩵 I don't know how to describe him but I love the way you draw Sakuma's nose in the expecting tongue part lol they're both so lovely in your style

The bit of Kidou liking it when Sakuma gets angry at him always makes me laugh every time even tho I had seen it in the DMs before LMAO

I really like the thought of Kidou being down bad for Sakuma. He's a person who is as motivated by love as many others in the show, and added with the comfort level he has with Sakuma he would be as affectionate as Sakuma is to him especially in adulthood. That aside I just love the idea of Kidou being a wifeguy (gender neutral) haha

Kisaku meal is served

I like the impassible at work and professional settings to down bad trope, I think it’s funny

I’m a bit exaggerating cause like, I know Kidou is literally this emoji🧍‍♂️but since I saw @fraybury ‘s post about him being comfortable with Sakuma giving him physical affection it wouldn’t be crazy to think he’d like it more the older he gets and even giving back when he finally gets that stick out of his bootyhole 🙏

Do you think sakuma will ever act like his off-duty self when he sees the teikoku (inago) members outside of school/work setting? If so, which of the members will be the most surprised?

I think he does drop the work persona around Miyabino! Which makes sense considering Miyabino is Teikoku's most trusted member at that time.

I think Sakuma would be more guarded around other members, but if he does get found out, he'd be more flustered than actually disliking it. I think like Kidou, Sakuma would want to keep a distance specifically with Teikoku members that live in a different environment than Raimon's, but because he is naturally affectionate he might drop his guard time to time off-practice. Members who are more prideful of their Teikoku status like Ryuuzaki and Mikado would be more shocked because wdym our assistant coach is actually friendly??

hey 👉👈 if anyones able to throw a few bucks at me so i can get lunch at work the next few days itd be very much appreciated, I typically spend around $6-$10 a day thanks to my employee discount but im broker than broke rn and just embarrassed myself with a declined card 🙃 literally anything helps i just wanna be able to eat

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