I Kinda Wanna Hear Your Thoughts On The Extreme Overlabeling Of The RQ Community

"let's not be ableist!", "every mental illness should be respected" and "using slurs, especially ones that based on illnesses is wrong!" people after they call every abusive and evil person they met "narcissist", "psychopath" and "sociopath":😂👍

To all radqueers out there, I have some very useful tips!!

Let's begin!

1. Getting off the internet and getting some help because you guys are not okay in any way!

2. Stop thinking that you are the future because anyone in the right state of mind isn't gonna accept you as valid, ever.

3. Smell some fresh air from outside and look at what's outside for a sec, I'm sure you forgot.

4. Stop trying to convince people that you are valid.

5. Stop taking disorders, illnesses and trauma.

6. Stop thinking you're from another race.

7. And this one is for the adult radqueers: STOP PREYING ON CHILDREN ON THE INTERNET YOU MOTHERFUCKERS.

Also, kindly fuck off </3.

this user dump :3

Please stop trying to make a “better” word for transID.

So, as a lot of you may know, the creator of the term “oculoid” has been revealed to be pro-transID, and to be completely honest, I am not surprised. Oculoids were advertised as a “better” alternative to transIDs for those with genuine atypical dysphoria. After the creator was exposed, I began noticing a few people attempt to make “better” alternatives to transIDs.

Please stop doing that.

Yes, I do believe in atypical dysphoria. I, myself, have BIID. It’d be hypocritical for me not to. But that’s just what it is; dysphoria. A big part of the radqueer community is kids who are still figuring out their identity seeing all the labels for basic human things and being drawn in. Anti-radqueer made a good post about it here that I think explains it better than I could. In summary, wanting is a human thing, and making a flag and a new word every time you want is unhealthy and disrupts your view of the world.

Oculoids were introduced as a step out of the radqueer community, but unfortunately, they’ve become a step into it. It quickly became less about genuine atypical dysphoria and more about flags and labels. Making new ‘fun’ prefixes/suffixes and communities will only lead to more people falling down the radqueer rabbit hole.

I think I’d compare oculoids to vaping, in a way. It was advertised as a way out, but became a way in. You can’t make a “better” alternative to vaping and cigarettes, but you can find healthier ways to deal with your stress, just like you can find healthier (and appropriate) ways to deal with your atypical dysphoria. Does this make sense?

Conclusion: Stop trying to make a “better” alternative to transID. Stop trying to make a “better” alternative to oculoid. Stop slapping a “better” flag and label on something and calling it a day. If you have genuine atypical dysphoria, talk to others with atypical dysphoria and form a community. Find appropriate, healthy, and harmless ways to cope with it.

Also, if you can, finding a psychiatrist can also help. I am actually seeking psychiatry for my BIID. They can also help you find ways to deal with atypical dysphoria that isn’t harmful to yourself or others. I understand not everyone can get a psychiatrist though, and that’s why I encourage building a community that is not centered around flags and labels.

PREACH !!

just putting it out there that "radqueer" and "transID" shit is disgusting and is not valid. I made the mistake of diving down a couple rabbit holes based on rumors about the "transabled" (faker) community as a disabled person myself, and all the shit I found made me want to rip my eyeballs out. If you identify as or support transID labels or radqueer culture, you're deplorable and I don't like you. Not only do you harm real communities by faking illnesses, appropriating cultures, and harming safe spaces, you also make excuses for LITERAL P*DOPHILES TO FEEL WELCOME. They are not welcome. They will never be welcome. That's all.

ask her smth.. ASK HER SOMETHING NOW!!!

I hate radqueers as much as the next guy but telling anyone to kms is disgusting

taking a step back and having some more research about this, yes it was wrong of me some of those people might’ve been minors groomed into this, (feel free to fully dm me if u want help want to get better im here and ive been groomed like that before lovely’s) but for the adults that are grooming those minors. yeah go kys my stand points

the hell is transbpd and cisbpd why are we separating a mental illness by GENDER

Reminders to transBPD folk from cisBPD:

It's okay to feel ashamed sometimes

Your identity may feel lonely and "wrong", but it doesn't mean it's invalid

You are BPD, trans or not

You are not a joke

You may or may not transition. It doesn't affect your validity.

You are safe and loved.

You are cool as hell! I want to hang out with you!

/gen /srs