pick your poison LMAOOO
Devastating to have more evidence that done IS better than perfect
I need to try and heal so that I do not carry over problems and pose a burden to the people who do love me
you ever feel like you were born with something rotten inside you and if people get close enough they’re gonna find out
the stoic teenager to being on the verge of tears anytime something slightly inconvenient happens adult pipeline is very real
He needs a nap from napping so much
please will someone save me. haha im just kidding. please can i be saved
Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity.
Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.” Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”
By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.