Not A Dom.

Not A Dom.

If you only pay attention to your sub when it is convenient for you, you are not a Dom.

If you tire of a submissive, and ghost her, rather than having an honest conversation with her, you are not a Dom.

If you view boundaries, limits, and the word “no” as impediments to your will to push past and degrade, you are not a Dom.

If you make a sub doubt and question themselves to produce an outcome that’s favorable for you, you are not a Dom.

If you think Dominance is all about having a relationship that revolves around you and serving your needs, you are not a Dom.

If you refer to subs as “broken”, or view them as a hassle because they have mental, physical, or emotional challenges, you are not a Dom. 

If you think that your way of being a Dom is the only right way to be a Dom, you are not a Dom. 

If you are having multiple relationships with submissive girls without them all knowing about each other, you are not a Dom. 

If you degrade your partner’s relationships to isolate them so that they don’t get opinions other than yours, you are not a Dom.

If you play or prey on girls who are under the age of 18, you are not a Dom.

JD

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2 years ago

That excuse doesn't work out for two reasons: 1. Why tf was he aiming for an autistic person in the first place? And 2. You're an officer. Shouldn't you have better aim?? Last I checked, you can't have weapons if you can't aim properly.

TW: Police Brutality

Police officers claiming to support "autism awareness" is one of the worst examples of performative allies in existence.

The murder of Philando Castile showed that police officers are legally allowed to give unclear instructions and kill people who don't understand them.

There was another police officer who shot a caregiver of an autistic person and literally used the excuse that he was aiming for the autistic person as a defense.

Until you make sure pigs who would even consider doing something that evil are not welcome anywhere near the police force, don't you fucking dare pretend you care about "autism awareness".

9 years ago

No excuse to cheat

Warnings: Slight angst, slight hurt/comfort, cheating boyfriend, arguing, break-up.

“You're an asshole!" You screamed at him. You were furious. You had just found out your boyfriend had cheated on you and now he was trying to give you weak excuses as if it made things okay.”

"Y/N, please. I'm sorry." He said.

You scoffed bitterly. "Oh, your sorry? So that makes everything okay, does it? No! It doesn't. You being sorry doesn't change the fact that you did it in the first place. In fact, I doubt your even sorry at all. Your just sorry you got caught. You know what? I'm sorry. I'm sorry I ever thought you were worth my attention in the first place."

"Y/N, I still love you. We can still be together," he pleaded desperately.

"Why....would I want a cheating scumbag like you? I think I'll pass thanks," you sneered in disgust. In all the anger and shouting, you hadn't noticed Castiel in the doorway, watching the scene intently. The Angel had heard you shouting and went to investigate. His eyes narrowed in anger at your boyfriend - or should you say ex boyfriend. There was no way in hell you were gonna take him back. Your boyfriend attempted to grab your wrist but you pulled away. "Ya know what the sad part is? I actually loved and trusted you and this is how you repay me?! By going behind my back and shagging some bimbo slut that probably couldn't find her way round anything even if she tried. No. I'm done with you." You turned to walk away but he grabbed you.

"Please, we can work this out."

"Why would I want to?" You snapped. "You betrayed me! You broke my trust and anything I held for you. It's men like you that cause the most pain to women. You claim to love em but at the end of the day, men like you seem to forget one thing. Cheating isn't an accident or a mistake. You don't slip and fall into another girl's fucking vagina! Getting the wrong thing from the shops is a mistake. Cheating is a choice, it's intentional. There is no if's or but's. You knew exactly what you were doing and how I'd feel if I found out and yet you did it anyway. If you loved someone then there's no way in hell you'd ever cheat on that person. Ever! Love is true and pure, it's being loyal, truthful and faithful. That's what love is. How the hell can you stand there and tell me you love me? Loving someone is how I loved you. I never once thought or ever considered doing to you what you've done to me. I don't need your fucking excuses! It's no excuse to cheat. Just get the hell out and stay the fuck away from me. We're done and I want nothing to do with you. Ever!"

This was the moment Castiel chose to reveal himself. He stepped forward, catching your attention. Your eyes widened. "Cas?"

Your boyfriend's eyes narrowed as he took in your expression then turned to look at the Angel. Castiel stopped beside you, his eyes soft and caring. Something your boyfriend didn't like. "Look, it was only for a few months, okay? It was just a bit of fun. Let's just go home."

Your jaw dropped. Was he serious? Not only did he cheat but he just expected you to forgive him and let it go like it was nothing and play happy families again. Well he can think again. "I'm not going anywhere with you. We don't have a home. That disappeared when you did what you did. You threw it all away for some trashy bitch. Now you can deal with the consequences. I meant what I said. We're done."

"I wouldn't be throwing anything away if you'd just get your ass home." He snapped. You lunged at him but Castiel held you back. You were fuming. How dare this bastard act as if he'd done nothing wrong! Although you didn't know it, Castiel was also furious. Furious at how your boyfriend was treating you. He was supposed to love and care for you but he wasn't. And he wasn't even remorseful about it. "Are you coming or not?" He asked impatiently.

"No, I'm not!" You snarled.

"Ya know, I wouldn't have had to cheat if you had just put out and given me what I wanted. It's your fault really," he stated, rolling his eyes.

That was it. You gave Castiel a dark look and he immediately let you go. Before your boyfriend could react, you were on him in seconds. The first punch broke his nose. The second hit landed on his eye. He would be sporting a black eye later but you didn't care. When he was unconscious and you were satisfied, you got up, breathing heavily. "Go to hell."

You walked away, leaving him on the floor. Castiel followed closely behind you. When you were far away enough, you broke down in tears. You fell into his arms when you felt his arms wrap around your waist from behind. "I'm sorry, Y/N. You didn't deserve that. I promise you'll find someone who will be loyal to you as you are to others and he'll look after you like you deserve," he vowed.

You shook your head sadly. "How would you know?"

"Because I already love you and I promise you I'll never hurt you. I'll wait a thousand years for you."

"I don't think you'll have to wait long."


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8 years ago

Don't. Don't do that. Don't delete your stuff. Why should you? Tbh I think most forget when they have so many followers that the main reason they write is cause they can. Cause they want to. Ya know there are other websites you can post ur stories on to. I do it. I don't just use tumblr. Now, I haven't posted in quite a while but that's cause I've got stories elsewhere that hit off well and people on here are fucking hard to please. X

I have a question

I’ve been thinking about something since last night, but I need y’all’s input before I make a rash decision.

It’s no secret that I’ve been struggling to try to get my fics finished. I’m too hard on myself about it and it stresses me out because I feel like I’m not only letting you all down, but I’m letting myself down as well…but I keep trying.

Last night, someone I’ve followed for a long time finally posted the 1st part to a new series they’ve started. I look up to this person/blog because they have long periods of time between fics like I do, but they still have thousands of followers. (I don’t even have 75, total.)

However, after I read it, I literally said to myself, out loud, “Why are you still trying to write? You will never be half as good as 90% of the people you follow, but this person? HAH! You’re a joke, Danni and you don’t even deserve to breathe the same air!”and it took every molecule of my willpower to stop myself from deleting my Masterlist.

I know that the trick to writing is to write for yourself first….

But I’d also like to know if any of you even want to read my stuff anymore.

I’ll reblog this a few times, so that way people have a chance to actually see it, but I’d appreciate it if you guys would either reblog or message me with your opinions. Thanks for your time.

8 years ago

Fucking hate men like this. Nothing but a bunch of assholes. I'd beat the guy who did this to me without my permission

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4 years ago

I'm with you. Justice for Johnny!!

It absolutely infuriates me.

Despite all the evidence, that judge still took her word over everything presented forth.

So, now, how are victims of abuse, specifically male victims, supposed to feel safe when coming forward with their experiences?

#JusticeforJohnnyDepp

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