As Someone Who Spent Years Being Everyone's Listening Ear (parents, Friends, Aunties And Uncles) Please

As someone who spent years being everyone's listening ear (parents, friends, aunties and uncles) please stop doing this to others constantly. Specially when you yourself are never there for the other person.

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1 year ago

literally though if you feel like your life is slipping through your fingers and every day goes too fast… try doing hard things, not just taking the easy route, like reading and making art and exercising and cooking a meal from scratch and journaling, doing these things without distraction, without being absorbed on a screen… the time will stretch and you’ll be reminded that life is long and beautiful if you make it so.

1 year ago

This episode was so so beautiful. I can't

This Episode Was So So Beautiful. I Can't
This Episode Was So So Beautiful. I Can't

" Uska rang kya tha ? "

- " Kiska "

" Uss takleef ka jo meine tumhe di "

- " Purple "

" Aur jo meine tumhe di .. wo kis rang ki thi ? "

- " Brown "

" Brown kyun ? "

- " Purple kyun ? "

~ Mala az nemrah ahmed


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11 months ago

SO glad that france officially made abortion a constitutional right but i think people saying “france is going in the right direction, light years ahead of the USA” have all forgotten about all the racism????? hijabs and abayas are illegal in public schools and have recently been banned for french athletes in the 2024 paris olympics. france is actively making anti-muslim legislature. do not praise them without knowing what they’ve done

11 months ago

Hello sorry for tagging. I am very sick, my asthma is at its maximum level, my nose freezes, I have no medicine or food. I am in bad shape financially, I am a black disabled, who uses multiple medications, I pay for my food and lodging

Unfortunately I do not have all the resources to keep me safe, that is why I need your help, whatever you can contribute to me will be of great help.

Guys anyone who can help please do.

I don't have a bank account and am also a Pakistani so like idk how to donate

1 year ago

my problem with slb's filmography is that he romanticizes events so much that his movies/shows don't have the desired impact on the people. in padmavaat he glorified jauhar to the point that people started defending it and even sati. in gangubai, he made everything so grand that people forgot that the lady herself wasn't an all around good person. now, he's done the same thing with heeramandi. like i genuinely saw someone say that they wanted to live a life like in the show where they have 5 attendants to lift their skirt for them and whatnot. the people are so enchanted with the clothes/sets/etc that they have failed to grasp the main premise of the show. they fail to realise that the women he has shown had to go through innumerable brutalities and were just glorified mistresses with no power of their own. and living their life isn't gonna be fun and aesthetic.

1 year ago

gentle reminder you can rise up from everything. you can recreate yourself. nothing is permanent. you are not stuck. you have choices. you can think new thoughts. you can learn something new. you can create new habits. all that matters is that you decide today and never look back.

11 months ago

Can confirm this

the thing that gave you anxiety attacks for 2 years straight will be resolved on a random Wednesday morning btw

1 year ago

You just know she diagnosed herself from TikTok

This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any
This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any
This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any
This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any
This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any
This Fucking BITCH, Claims To Have A Whole Laundry List Of Mental Disorders Yet She Can’t Spare Any

This fucking BITCH, claims to have a whole laundry list of mental disorders yet she can’t spare any empathy or imagine someone being debilitated by depression. Also, still sticking by the unproven claim that he cheated and he was a “narcissistic abuser.” if anyone is the NARCISSIST in that relationship it’s the one who wrote songs about cheating on a man because he was too depressed to feed her ego and then vilifying her fans who criticised her for rebounding with a racist.

1 year ago

Israel is bombing Rafah where millions of people are taking refuge. 610,000 children are in Rafah right now. Rafah is also a tent city where IOF forced people to go saying it's a safe zone. Israel has also taken control of Rafah crossing which means millions of people are trapped. Israeli tanks from three sides and sea on one side and bombing from the sky.

Fuck the Met Gala

Harris Reed At The 2024 Met Gala

Harris Reed at the 2024 Met Gala

1 year ago

On my way to get Saleebein Meray Dareechay Mein 🏃

15 August 1952:

15 August 1952:

Your letter came today. I feel happy today after a mild attack of a blue period lasting over a few days. It must be the weather. It is more like spring than summer. The mornings are vaguely cool and disturbing like the first breath of love and the sun in the early hours brings more colour than heat. In the evenings the breeze seems to bring the breath of the seas and the skies seem to close not on drab prison walls but on distant palm- fringed beaches. And it is sad like all beauty that is within your sight and beyond your grasp—like all beauty that you know to be an illusion.

An excerpt from Faiz’s Letters to Alys (Saleebein Meray Dareechay Mein)

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