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Cuckold Hubby Training 1

Nothing too serious to begin with - but when you meet a guy you like, let it show. It’s a way of getting hubby’s imagination going and gently opening the door to the possibility that you may, one day, not be exclusive.

Of course, it could also make him want you more and spice up your relationship. Once he sees you as a flirt, he will instinctively raise his game to compete.

Start with just enough flirting to let hubby know that you notice other men, and maybe would have been interested if you’d been single, but not so much that he worries what you’re up to. Then gradually, over time, take it a little further.

Just don’t take it too far until you’re sure he’s ready for it. Too much too soon, and you may permanently kill any chance of achieving your aims. You want a supercharged sex life, not a jealous rage or relationship problems, right?

Seja a boa garota

Ele adora

“Seja a garota má

Ele deseja

Seja a garota safada

Ele deseja

Seja a senhora

Ele adora”

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Head empty only

“Come here angel”

“On your knees”

“Fuck, is that good?”

“Mmm you’re taking me so well”

“You’re doing so well for me”

“Good girl”

“mmm, god you feel so good”

“Is this okay?”

“Oh you like that huh?”

“Deeper? Okay darling”

“Oh you like it right there?”

“God you feel so good”

“Aw you’re so wet for me”

“Is this okay like this?”

“You like it when i touch you here don’t you?”

“Fuck, you’re so cute like that”

“Can you say my name darling?”

“Yes. What?”

“Good little slut”

“That’s it right there”

“Fuck”

“Aw you’re doing so well”

“Shh shh, it’s okay it’s okay”

“Such a good slut taking me this deep”

“You’re so pretty when you moan like that”

“Fuck you feel so good”

Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

Techniques For Hotwives

This is awesome. Just pure awesome. Thanks Albany Hotwife! 

From: http://albanyhotwife.tumblr.com/page/10

Techniques For Hotwives; I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

Cumslut Affirmations!

Ladies! Do you feel like deep-down you exist to serve cock? Do you need a little help releasing your inner slut? I was inspired to make this file after spending time on the discord server belonging to @cumslutallie

Listen and repeat these powerful affirmations to yourself, before too long you’ll be the dumb submissive cumslut that Men deserve!

Transcript:

You can treat me like all the other toys Because I exist to please the boys On my knees where I obey I must do the things you say

You show me what I should be When you cum all over me You can do it on my face or tits Because I am just a stupid ditz

Make me dirty, make me wet I am just your mindless pet Cover me in all your seed I’m a slut it’s what I need

Girls are cumsluts, one and all We exist to drain your balls So much better pleasing men No more thoughts, just giving in

If you like my work and want to hear more like this, please consider becoming a patron on: https://www.patreon.com/chaosdoll (every pledge helps keep these files coming!)

Reblog this and I will DM you a nice photo, courtesy of me *wink*

After it got dark and all the other cousins and grown ups had gone inside the house, my cousin and me stayed in the pool splashing around. He’d lift me on his shoulders and drop me into the water making a big splash. After awhile we were tired and got out to dry off on two of the lounge chairs.

“I’m taking drivers ed next month,” he told me.

“Are you getting a car?” I asked, jealous knowing that he probably would be.

“I hope so!”

Even though he was only two years older than me, it seemed like forever before I’d have the freedom to drive.

We don’t say much else as we sat there wrapped in towels by the pool. Then out of nowhere he busted out.

“So you ever seen one?”

“Seen what?” I asked him.

“A dick?” he answered.

“No!” I was embarrassed by the question.

“Want to see mine?” He asked with a sheepish grin.

I hadn’t been offered before and I suppose the curiosity got the best of me.

“Ok!” I told him.

My answer surprised him but without hesitation he began pulling down his board shorts that were still damp from the pool.

“Well?” he asked.

It was bigger than I imagined and I sat up on the lounge chair to get a closer look.

“Ok,” I responded feeling a little awkward.

“Want to touch it?”

I shrugged my shoulders and extenddd my finger and touched the top of it. It started to move.

“Why don’t you hold it?” he asked.

I gripped his shaft and my eyes opened wide as it began to grow in my hand.

“Oh wow!” I told him.

“Move your hand up and down it.”

I did as he told me, my hand clenched around his cock watching as it got harder and harder.

“Does it feel good?” I asked.

“Yes,” he replied in a soft whisper his eyes now closed. “Keep going!”

My hand was shaking as I looked up at the house and around us in the dark making sure no one was watching.

“Go faster,” he asked me.

By now his smooth cock was almost two hands worth as I sped up my strokes on his shaft. His breathing got harder. I stopped.

“Wait! What? Why did you stop?” he asked his chest heaving .

“You want me to keep going?” I asked.

“Yes please. It feels very good.”

I wrapped my hand again on his long shaft and continued to slide it up and down. He put his hand over my clenched fist.

“Harder. Grip it harder . Hold on to it and then stroke it .”

I could now feel his cock throbbing in my hand with my tighter grip.

“Oh god Kaylie. Much better,” his pleasure now obvious on his face . “Show me yours.”

“You want to see mine?” I asked surprised.

“Yes. I’ve only seen one in pictures. Please.”

Felt weird that my cousin was asking me to show him my private parts. My mother had warned me not to ever show anyone anything inappropriate from strangers to her boyfriends or even my uncles . But she never told me not to show my cousin who was only a couple years older than me and not even old enough to drive yet. So I figured why not?

I unwrapped my towel with one hand and began pulling down my bikini bottom all while still stroking my cousins hard cock. I pulled them to my ankles and he asked me to spread my legs.

“Lift your legs up onto the chair,” he asked as he leaned in closer. I put my feet up on the lounger and spread them out. My bare pussy with only the moonlight shining on it.

“Can I touch it?” he asked shyly.

“Ok” I said.

His open hand reached towards it and the tip of his middle finger made contact.

“Feels so soft and smooth.” He continued touching it making circular motions. “Does it feel good?”

“Yes.” I said.

Just then I felt his body tense up.

“Should I stop?” I asked.

“No. Keep going.”

He sat across me, legs stretched out on the lounger, his cock straight up in the air, my arm tiring from the constant stroking. And just like that a rope of his young milky cum shot up straight in the air. Followed by another thick shot and even more until it covered my hand.

“Holy crap,” I told him. My eyes wide open with an uncontrollable giggle.

“Fuck that felt good,” he said, his firm body trembling.

“Kaylie! Brian!” We heard my aunts voice from the house. “Come get some cake before it’s all gone!”

“Ok Mom. Be right there.” He responded.

We both pulled up our swim suits and he cleaned himself with his towel. I dipped my hand in the pool and dried it off with my own towel and giggled the whole time before heading inside.

Now six years later whenever we run into each other, we never mention that night, but look at each other with those knowing glances of what happened between us.