devilangelin
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“You Will Be Mine Forever!”
#FemaleSuperiority #FemDom #FLR
If you reblog this post, your current or future wife will become a whore for a black man who will pass her around to his friends. They will dominate her completely and will even fuck her in front of you. So be careful, if you reblog this post, it will happen.
Ten reasons why you should date & marry a cuck 😊💁♀️
Disclaimer: this is 100% being written while my husband’s tongue is in my ass 😜👅👅🍑
1. You get to fuck other men, I mean c’mon 😍
2. They’re more than willing to satisfy ALL of your sexual needs😈
3. You’ll get to go on more dates 🍷
4. There’s no hard feelings or weirdness when you have guy friends 🤷♂️🤷♀️
5. YOU define your sex life ♠️
6. They’ll encourage you to spoil your body more so it’ll be appreciated by other men 💅🏻
7. You don’t have to settle for only one dick for the rest of your life 🍆🍆🍆
8. They’re always going to cuddle and take care of your body after you’ve been fucked raw by alphas 💞
9. You’ll never stop being treated like an absolute queen 👸
10. He’ll be devoted to you alone while you’ll get to have your cake and eat it too 🍰
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Hotwife/Vixen Interest Survey for Women
On a scale of 1 to 10,
with 10 being you are very interested, 5 being neutral and 1 being not at all interested,
please answer these following questions:
Becoming a hotwife?
Caging your husband’s cock?
Having sex with other men while your husband only watches?
Having sex with other men without your husband there?
Having sex with other men and your hushed at the same time?
Having anal sex?
Role playing with your husband?
Having a secrete lover that your husband doesn’t know about?
Having one time sex with men without your husband knowing?
Playing with sex toys?
Playing with bondage?
Going to nude beaches?
Watching your husband have sex with another woman?
Having sex with another woman in front of your husband?
Having sex alone with another woman?
Having your husband film you having sex?
Letting your husband pick men to share you with?
Having a monogamous relationship with your husband?
Going on vacation alone to have sex with other men?
Going on vacation with your husband and having sex with other men?
Going to a female strip club with your husband?
Going to a female strip club without your husband?
Going to a male strip club with your husband
Going to a male strip club without your husband?
Stripping at a bachelor or private party for a group of men?
Serving men during a football game or poker night wearing seductive clothing?
Sending men you meet online sexy photos and videos?
Sharing your messages/conversations with your husband that you have with other men?
Keeping secret you conversations with other men?
Edging your husband husband close to orgasm and then denying him repeatedly?
Ruining your husbands orgasms?
Limiting your husbands orgasms?
Making your husband clean his cum out/off of you?
Making your husband clean another man’s cum out/off of you?
Surprising your husband with a used pussy when you get home?
Making your husband suck another man’s cock in front of you?
Making your husband clean off the cum from another man that just fucked you?
Kissing your husband after another man came in your mouth?
Having your husband lick your clit while another man fucks your pussy?
Having you husband lick your clit while another man fucks your ass?
Having your husband lick your asshole while another man fucks your pussy?
Making your husband were a cock extension when he has sex with you?
Making your husband wear a cock cage in front of other men you are fucking?
Make your husband where a cock cage when he works?
Make you husband wear a cock cage while you watch porn and masturbate?
Make you husband were a gag dildo and you fuck his face?
Trying to stretch your pussy to take a fist?
Trying to stretch your asshole to take a fist?
Wearing an anal plug at home?
Wearing an anal plug out in public?
Having sex in your marital bed with another man?
Having sex only with men that do not know where you live?
Having sex with men you and your husband know personally?
Having sex with your husband’s friends?
Having sex with a coworker?
Having sex with your boss?
Answering the door nude?
Walking around the house daily nude?
Swinging or swapping partners with another couple?
Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) with your husband there?
Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) without your husband there?
Masturbating alone with toys?
Masturbating alone without toys?
Masturbating in front of your husband?
Masturbating in front of a bull?
Mutual masturbating with your husband or bull?
Sucking cock?
Sucking big cock, 8+ inches
Sucking small cock, less than 5 inches?
Having sex with big cocks?
Having sex with small cocks?
Getting a tattoo?
Getting piercings?
Getting your nipple pierced?
Getting your clit pierced?
Getting your bellybutton pierced?
Getting matching tattoos?
Wearing a hotwife anklet?
Wearing the key to your husband’s cock cage lock?
Squirting?
Letting your husband give you an enema?
Using a sex toy on your husband?
Fucking your husband with a dildo?
Fucking your husband with a strap-on dildo?
Being blindfolded during sex with your husband?
Blindfolding your husband during sex?
Tying your husband to the bed for sex?
Allowing your husband to listen on the phone to you having sex with another man?
Taking photos of you having sex with another man and sending them to your hubsand?
Video taping you having sex with another man and then showing your husband when you return?
Having your husband reclaim you after you have sex with other men?
Going to a sex club and allowing other strangers to watch you have sex with your husband?
Going to a sex club to meet other men to have sex with in front of strangers?
Going to a sex club to only watch others having sex?
Going to a sex club without your husband?
Going to a nude resort on vacation without your husband?
Going on vacation without your husband?
Allowing your husband to go to a sex club without you?
Allowing your husband to go on vacation without you?
100.Flashing your husband in public?
101.Having sex in public places?
102.Going out in a skirt without panties?
103.Having sex in a car or limo?
104.Having sex in the back of a car with a man while your husband drives?
105.Having your husband drive you to meet your date and then having him pick you up?
106.Having your husband thank your bull for fucking you good?
107.Having your husband ask your bulls to cum in you?
108.Always having to ask for permission from your husband before having sex with anyone else?
109.Having the freedom to have sex with anyone you want any time you want without your husband’s permission?
110.Accidentally getting pregnant by another man?
111.Getting pregnant by another man with you husband permission?
112.Having sex with string muscular men?
113.Having sex with men over 50?
114.Having sex with men under 30?
115.Having sex with black men?
116.Having sex for money?
117.Having sex while your husband is hiding in the closet?
118.Having sex while your while your husband is in the guest room?
119.Having your husband bring your drinks while you have sex with another man?
120.Have your husband shave you?
121.Have your husband watch you get ready for a date with another man?
122.Have your husband help you prepare for a date with another man?
123. Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same room?
124.Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same an adjoining room where he can only hear the moans?
125.Clean the house naked?
126.Cook naked?
127.Be waiting naked at the door when your husband got home from work?
128.Be waiting naked at the door when your date comes to visit?
129.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex in the bar bathroom?
130.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex with him in the parking lot?
131.Let another man finger you in a public place?
132.Dance with hot men at clubs?
133.Flirt with hot men at bars?
134.Go on vacations with other men without your husband?
135.Have one man fuck you in the ass while another man fucks your pussy?
136.Have one man fuck your ass while another fucks your pussy and another fucks your mouth?
137.Continue living a hotwife lifestyle if you become pregnant?
138.Stop living the hotwife lifestyle if you became pregnant?
139.Only have sex with your husband?
140. Allowing your husband to lick your pussy anytime he wants?
141.Allowing your husband to fuck your pussy anytime he wants?
142.Allowing your husband to fuck your ass anytime he wants?
143.Giving your husband a blow job anytime her wants?
144.Making your husband lick your pussy anytime you want?
145. Making your husband fuck you whenever you demand?
146.Get massages from your husband?
147.Get massages from other men?
148.Get massages from women?
149.Let other women give your husband full body massages?
150.Suck a cock after it’s been in your pussy?
151.Suck a cock after it was in your ass?
152.Be treated like a Princess in public but a whore in the bed?
153.Rough sex?
154.Talking dirty during sex?
155.Telling your husband about other men you have fucked during sex?
156.Using a cock cage on your husband to get things that you want sexually?
157.Using a cock cage to get your husband to reach goals..like weight loss…
158.Vacations were only you and your husband have sex together?
159.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per week?
160.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two weeks?
161.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per month?
162.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two or three months?
163.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once or twice per year?
164.Having your husband surprise you by planning sexual adventures/nights which include other men?
165.Having sex in a pool?
166.Having sex in a hot tub?
167.Having sex in a shower?
168.Having sex on a boat?
169.Having sex in a plane?
170.Keeping secrets from your husband?
171.Using floggers/whips/paddles?
172.Having your husband use flogger or spank you when you are bad?
173.Using a flogger or spanking your husband if he is bad
174.Wearing a ball gage while you have sex?
175.Making your husband wear a ball gag?
176.Making your husband cum inside is cage?
177.Play with hot wax?
178.Explore robe bondage?
179.Share your sex life relationship on a Tumblr blog, but hid your identities?
180.Shop at a adult book store with your husband?
181.Shop at an adult book store alone?
182.Shop at an adult book store with a man other than your husband?
183.Go to a bar with your husband but pretend you don’t know him and flirt with others while he watches?
184.Drive around in a car naked?
185.Be driven in a car naked?
186.Grow old with your husband?
187.Divorce you husband when he gets too old?
188.Have an open relationship where husband and wife can have sex with others?
189.Never allowing your husband to have sex with any other woman?
190.Allowing your husband to have sex with another woman only with your permission and by your rules?
191.Setting up rules for being a hotwife?
192.Setting up punishments for breaking the rules?
193.Sharing all of your personal communication outlets and passwords with your husband including phone messages and all social media messaging?
194.Having all of your husband’s communication and social media passwords?
195.Allowing your husband to make all the rules?
196.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role all of the time?
197.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role most of the time?
198.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role all of the time?
199.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role most of the time?
200.Alternating about 50/50 between playing the submissive role and dominant roles with our husband?
201.Have your bulls be dominant?
202.Have your bulls be submissive?
203.Becoming friends with your bulls?
204.Have the same bulls long term rather than many strangers?
205.Have the bull always wear condoms?
206.Have the bulls not wear condoms?
207.Allowing the husband to stop a date or sex at anytime for any reason without getting mad?
208.Allowing your husband to decide he wants you to stop being a hotwife and live a monogamous traditional lifestyle?
209.Having kids with your husband?
210.Being wealthy?
211.Always telling the truth?
212.Always getting the truth from your husband?
213.Trying new sex positions?
214.Trying new sex techniques?
215.Watching porn with your husband?
216.Watching porn alone?
217.Privacy while talking to other en on the phone?
218.Privacy while on the computer chatting with other men?
219.Fulfilling your husbands fantasies?
220.Fulfilling your fantasies?
221.Sharing your fantasies with your husband?
222.Hearing your husband’s fantasies?
223.Having a fit muscular husband?
224.Using nipple clamps during sex?
225.Having your husband use a pussy pump on you?
226.Using a penis pump on your husband?
227.Using a sex swing with your husband?
228.Using a sex swing with other men?
229.Role playing with your husband (doctor/patient, student/teacher, master/slave)
230.Playing sex games with your husband?
231.Playing sex games with others?
232.Hiding your sexual activities from friends and family?
233.Having similar interests are your husband?
234.You husband having similar interests as you?
235.Sacrificing to give you husband pleasure?
236.You husband sacrificing to give you pleasure?
237.Sleeping naked in bed with your husband nightly?
238.Having your husband wake you up in the middle of the night for sex?
239.Waking your husband up in the middle of the night for sex?
240.Knowing where your husband is all the time?
241.Spending nights in bed alone without your husband?
242.Always sleeping with your husband?
243.Always sleeping with someone?
244.Never sleeping alone?
245.Showing public displays of affection?
246.Having sex while having your period?
247.Playfully humiliating your husband when having sex alone with him?
248.Playfully humiliating your husband with having sex with another man in front of you husband?
On a scale of 1 to 10,
with 10 being you are most important and 1 being not important at all,
please answer these following questions:
How important is:
Trust in your marriage?
Sex in your marriage?
Honesty in your marriage?
Wealth in your marriage?
Health in your marriage?
Kids in your marriage?
Having time to spend with your friends?
Having time alone?
Having time to spend with family?
Sharing home chores?
Shopping together?
Working together?
Both having jobs?
Being a housewife?
How many kids do you want to have?
How would you feel if you had no kids with your husband?
Can you accept being a stepmother and treat your husbands kids as your own?
How would you feel about becoming pregnant by a man other than your husband?
At what age do you want to retire?
Where would you like to live when you retire?
What is an ideal sized home for you and your husband?
A. very small, 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room
B. small - 2 bedroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room
C. medium - 2-3 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room
D. large -3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, garage, big yard
E. very big - 3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, large yard, garage, pool
Explain why that is your ideal home size:
Would you rather go to the movies or watch a movie at home?
Who do you prefer does the:
(husband, wife, both equally, husband most of the time, wife most of the time)
Laundry
Cooking
Cleaning
Making the bed Yard work
Gardening
Driving
Shopping
Dishes
Banking/accounting
Work - earring money
Initiating sex
Ironing
Decorating
Planning vacations
Deciding where to spend money
How many times a month would be an ideal number of time to have sex?
Do you think men or women desire sex more?
What are your true feelings about the hotwife or vixen lifestyle?
Do you feel you that a hotwife or vixen lifestyle is right for you? Explain
How important is your partners appearance?
How important is your husband’s physical appearance?
Are you interested in becoming a hotwife/vixen?
Why or why not:
What rules would you like to have if living a non traditional marriage?
Is your husband’s cock enough to keep you totally satisfied?
What more could your husband do to keep you sexually satisfied?
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Survey - Getting to Know the Cuckold
In April of 2011 I created a survey (using Surveymonkey.com tools) intended to gather data on men who self-identified as cuckolds. This survey ran for 8 weeks and was advertised on my website, on Facebook, via Twitter and on specific Cuckolding websites such as Jinxypie.com and Hotwifelife.com. The response rate was excellent, with 486 men participating from all over the world. And while a multitude of countries were represented, just over half of majority of those who participated live in the United States. The intention of doing this work was to contribute to the body of knowledge on the practice of Cuckolding and to determine if there are any common characteristics shared by men who are attracted to this lifestyle. To ensure the questions accurately targeted the real-life experiences of cuckolds, I constructed this survey in consultation with Steve, an American who has been previously been a cuckold himself. While he does not live as a cuckold in his current relationship, it remains an ongoing source of arousal for him and his advice on the type of questions that are relevant to an erotic interest in Cuckolding were of great value. In a Cuckolding relationship the wife has sex outside of her marriage with her husband’s knowledge, while he remains faithful to her. The husband is known as a cuckold or cuck for short and he does not take lovers himself, instead his sexual pleasure and gratification is derived from the existence of his partner’s relationships. There are all sorts of variations in how these relationships operate and what involvement the husband may have, ranging from simply hearing about it from his wife, to input in the selection of her lovers, helping her prepare for a date, watching during sex, participating as directed, or by providing some type of sexual service to the wife and her lover. According to the results of this survey, the so-called ‘typical’ cuckold is a very well-educated, white man in his thirties or forties who lives in the United States. He earns well above the average wage and is most likely to be in a long term relationship or first marriage. He does not have self esteem issues and considers himself an alpha male with an average sized penis. Despite that, he enjoys being sexual humiliated and in particular may enjoy penis humiliation. He is most commonly sexually submissive to his wife and he enjoys the loss of control and responsibility being in this space offers. His enjoyment in loss of agency and control is fulfilled by having little or no choice in how his wife expresses herself sexually. He is likely to have been initially drawn to Cuckolding by arousal experienced at the idea of his wife having sex with another man, and his lust and passion for his wife is increased after she has been with another man, a response say researchers into the male brain caused by the stimulation of mating hormones. He is also most likely to be bisexual or at least bi-curious, whether he articulates that to his partner or not. Cuckolds report having sex with their wives in roughly the same number as the population surveyed in the Kinsey Reports, which is at odds with a general perception that they are denied marital sex. However they consider themselves to need more mental, visual and aural stimulation than other men and say they enjoy masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex. 17th June, 2011 Angela Lewis, PhD Steve, anonymous cuckold AGE Cuckolds who responded to this survey were fairly widely and evenly spread across all age groups. The largest number were found in the 30-49 year bracket and either side of this, men 50-60 years old and men 21-29 years old, were to be found in roughly equal numbers.
ETHNICITY AND NATIONALITY Cuckolds were most commonly Caucasian (at 91.1%) and at 55%, the most represented nationality was American.
There was a large gap numbers-wise to the second highest nationality represented, with Britain and Canada tying at 6%, followed by the Germans in third place at 4%. The table below goes down to a 0.4% representation, and a diverse range of nationalities were present under this figure, but the numbers were too low to register any significant value. Some of those countries included in small numbers were Estonia, Poland, Turkey, Portugal, Norway and Scotland.
EDUCATION Men who identified as cuckolds in this survey were well educated. For example, a total of 83% of respondents had some form of college/university education and 19.5% of those had completed post graduate studies such as an MBA or PhD.
INCOME Reported income levels tended to be fairly high (Given the average American wage is said to be around $35,000), with 48.8% of the men earning over US$50,000 per annum and just over one third, at 30.6%, earning over US$100,000.
INDUSTRY SECTOR 47.3% of the men were employed in the white collar (private or government) sector, which explains the high income levels. The other sectors were all represented, but in much low numbers and the number of men who were retired, students or unemployed were extremely low.
RELATIONSHIPS Unsurprisingly, given that a Cuckolding relationship is based on the existence of a primary traditional husband/wife dynamic, 87.3% of the men were living with their significant others and a majority of 77% were married.
How Long in Current Relationship Cuckolding relationships appeared to be durable and long term, as most of the men were in them for 11 plus years. The second highest number of cuckolds were in the group married 0-5 years, so we might assume that there is space and time for the couples to partake in cuckolding early in the relationship—say before c***dren come along—and then again later after have and are raising young c***dren, perhaps explaining why the lowest number of cuckolds were in relationships of a 6-10 year duration.
Most of the cuckolds were in their first marriage and close to a third were in their second marriage.
We were interested to know if cuckolding was present in the men’s previous relationships, however for the majority, their current Cuckolding relationship is their first. If you take into account that many are in long term relationships with their partners, this would confirm 9.3.3% agreeing with the statement: Happy and successful Cuckolding couples are able to separate love from sexual desire. Nearly one third (25%) of practicing cuckolds have been in a previous Cuckold relationship, so for these men it is likely an openness to the possibility of Cuckolding was a factor when seeking a prospective new long-term partner.
THE PRIVATE CUCKOLD SELF Asked to choose a response to this statement: “I’m an alpha male and I enjoy the loss of control that Cuckolding gives me,” 64% gave a positive response, making comments about how Cuckolding offered a way to take a step out of how they usually lived their lives and how it temporarily released them from a position of control:
Being temporarily absolved from responsibility, for my performance, for her pleasure, in fact having no control even if I wanted it, is incredibly freeing. I like the idea of having no choice, from being the guy always in charge to being the guy who is told to lick the other guy’s jizz, it freaks me out and excites me. Allowing others to make decisions for a while is relaxing. I love giving the gift of male sexual dominance to my wife. Not having a choice in their partner’s behaviour was rated as exciting by 65.7% of respondents. As cuckold Steve explains, this is also tied in with the humiliation factor that many cuckolds crave.
76.2% of the men described themselves as sexually submissive with their wives and a further 15%, while not submissive, found the idea attractive. Only 8.8% had no interest in being sexually submissive. Some comments made included: It gives me a freedom I don’t have when I’m expected to be sexually dominant. We both enjoy being submissive, so we try to take turns with each other. I like the loss of choice. Are you sexually submissive with your wife?
65% said their partners tended to be dominant in all aspects of the relationship, and when asked the question: “Do feel inferior to your wife?” exactly half said they did not feel inferior on any level to their female partners, while the other 50% considered themselves inferior to their wives in some fashion. Given the submissive nature of Cuckolding, it would be a fair guess that the men who do not consider themselves inferior consciously chose a role of inferiority/submission as part of their sexual persona, and are not victims of circumstance. Taking into account the high percentage of men who consider themselves alpha males, it is probably not surprising that only 8% nominated themselves as intellectually inferior. My fellow researcher, cuckold Steve suggests that the 20% who nominated being physically inferior would be alluding to their genitals and not to their physical stature. If you take into account that 36% of the men said they were attracted to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having a small penis, coupled with the fact that sexual humiliation was nominated as attractive to 55% of respondents, this would seem like a fair assumption.
The Cuckold’s Sex Life Based on the responses I recorded, cuckolds have regular sex with their partners in proportion to population averages as rated by the Kinsey Institute. While figures do vary widely according to which reports are consulted, I have chosen to compare my data to that collected by the respected research body, The Kinsey Institute (www.kinseyinstitute.org.) Using the Kinsey data for comparative purposes, I averaged the number of married men aged between 25—69 who were tabled as not having had sex in the past year and arrived at a figure of 20.7%. There is a perception that cuckolds do not have sex with their wives, however when you compare this to the figure of 19.8% reported by the cuckolds in this survey, there is not a big differentiation between the general population and cuckold men. Similarly, 38.8% of married men between the ages of 24—69 in the Kinsey data had sex a few times per month to weekly and this correlates fairly closely to the 45.1% who said they had sex 1-3 times per month in this survey group.
Over half the men supported the statement that a Cuckoldress should practice sexual denial with her husband and this supports a theory that loss of control and agency make the idea of Cuckolding attractive to many cuckolds. As well, anecdotally another reason men who are drawn to Cuckolding support sexual denial is because they believe or want to believe that that they are not able to sexually satisfy their women (primarily because they believe their penis is adequate) and/or because they have a preference for living vicariously through the experiences of the wife’s lovers or through the fantasy of the wife’s sexual affairs. To me, the hottest thing about Cuckolding is when my wife talks me off [re-tells her sexual exploits] It is understood that my pay-off for being what she calls ‘a good little cuck’ is in hearing about it. Hearing her moaning in the other room while I wait outside the door until she finishes with her Bull is totally hot for me. Nothing hornier than receiving a text during the night to say: I have just been fucked. This probably also explains why 82.3% of the men said they believed cuckolds need more aural and mental stimulation than the average man and that 66.9% of the men surveyed said they enjoyed masturbation and fantasy more than actual sex, using the a primary fantasy of the Cuckoldress wife having sex with other men. A Cuckold wife should practice sexual denial with her husband:
WHY CUCKOLDING The men were asked to select all the factors which led them to Cuckolding. With the highest response rate at 82.8%, the major drawcard for the men was arousal caused by the thought of seeing their wives with other men; and the ‘my private porn star’ response—while not a politically correct one—was alluded to by a number of men. However to be fair, it would have to be said that anecdotally the fantasy of a wife with other men is not limited to men interested in Cuckolding.
The second most popular factor was an enjoyment of sexual submissiveness, at 61.9%. This one is interesting, as culturally men are expected to be the aggressors and being permitted a submissive role in a so-called vanilla relationship is not that common, instead it is most often labelled a BDSM practice. For men (and couples) who do not see themselves as belonging to the BDSM community, it may be difficult to frame ways for the man to be submissive; however Cuckolding does provide that opportunity. The majority of cuckolds are self-assertive and describe themselves as an alpha male, holding a socially dominant position, whether in the workplace by wealth or earning power or through being highly educated. They generally know their place in the world and it is not a submissive one. However when it comes to sex they enjoy the taboo, novelty and ‘letting go’ that being the submissive partner promises: There is no question I’m a powerful guy in real life, therefore sitting in women’s underwear outside the door waiting while some guy pleasures her is so quirky, so different to who I usually am, that I get off on the idea of that ‘other me’ being so pussy whipped. At 55%, just over half of the men rated the opportunity for sexual humiliation as a factor which attracted them to Cuckolding. Sexual humiliation falls under the definition of masochism, as it is seeking pain in some form and taking sexual pleasure from it. Interestingly, according to Baumeister (1988) rather than pathologising it, masochism should be seen simply an unusual way to take a ‘time out’ from the pressures of life, and in his words is ‘an escape from self and self awareness’, in the same way that others might take up mediation or exercise. The majority of men who took this survey described themselves as alpha males (see Self Image), as well as being well educated and earning good salaries in white collar occupations; therefore fit Baumeister’s description of individuals who use sexual masochism as a way to temporarily give up the control and responsibility that they carry in their day to day lives. In relation to humiliation, comments were made that creampies (specifically the ejaculate of the wife’s lovers on her genitals which the husband is permitted to see, touch or consume but can also be on the face, mouth or breasts), were a powerful attraction, and on reflection it would have been beneficial to have included a line of questioning on this interest. However as nearly one third of respondents said that a desire to explore bisexuality was what attracted them to Cuckolding to begin with; the desire to interact with other men’s sexual fluids in this manner could be a way for some men to express homo-erotic desires, plus for some who may be wrestling with the idea of bisexuality, enjoying this on the wife’s body may legitimise it and remove the practice from being framed as homosexual—a type of bisexuality by proxy as it were. I believe we were also remiss in not including an option for ‘pleasing my wife’, as a factor for being attracted to Cuckolding. We made the assumption that the men were only motivated by their own sexual desires, however there were a number of voluntary comments made by the men which related to a desire to please their partners: I just love seeing her live her true sexual passion. Sexual freedom for my wife boosts her confidence. My wife loves being dominant and I’m man enough to let her express it. I enjoy seeing her enjoy getting pleasured. Penis/Small Penis Humiliation The men were also asked if they enjoyed small penis humiliation, taken to mean having derogatory remarks made about their size, length, girth and their ability to satisfy a woman sexually or being compared to men who were more endowed. While 29% had no interest in it, the remaining 71% were attracted to having this experience to some degree. Cuckolds do appear to have a strong interest in the penises of other men, particularly big penises, so this could mean that even those men with average size penises fantasize about their wives being with larger men than they are. Given the interest that cuckolds have in interracial cuckolding, both anecdotally and evidenced by the large number of websites offering material that focuses specifically on wives with black lovers, this is may not be an unreasonable conclusion. For this survey we used the generally accepted penis size for Caucasian men: Small (under 5 inches long) Average (5-7 inches long) Large (over 7 inches long)
The common assumption around cuckolds is that they must have a small penis and that is is a deciding factor in them being attracted to Cuckolding. However in this survey the majority of cuckolds described themselves to be of average physical endowment. Obviously there is no way of knowing if the responses are true as men do anecodotally overestimate their penis size; however in this case 36% of men said they were drawn to Cuckolding because they perceived themselves as having as small penis, which is higher than the number who actually identified themsleves in the small penis (5 inches and under) category according to the measurement table. Taking this into account and given the percentage of cuckolds who also nominated an attraction to small penis humiliation (SPH) which again is also far higher than the self-reported figure having a small penis, we would have to consider the men assessed their penis size truthfully. Feedback from cuckolds on what makes penis humiliation (or SPT for short), attractive is interesting in itself. For some cuckolds the fact that they will never have a larger penis means they actually erotize their negative feelings about their perceived inadequacies and appear to turn this around to a plus rather than a negative. For others the taboo act of a woman actually making derogatory remarks about his penis is thrilling precisely because it is not a socially accepted thing to do. Explains one cuckold: I often suggest we watch porno movies with supremely endowed men. This makes my dick look even smaller in comparision and then I fantasise about my little dick next to his and how my wife is probably comparing me to him.
Bisexuality In response to the question, ‘do you consider yourself bisexual?’ 29.2% described themselves as bisexual, 18.4% as bi-curious and 18.1% would like to be f***ed into bisexual behaviour. In total this means that 69.9% of the men have some interest in, or identification with, bisexuality. The high number who would do it if ‘f***ed’ probably speaks a little to the fact that in society generally it is much more acceptable for a woman to be bisexual or lesbian than for a man to be bisexual or homosexual
Some comments made were: I think cucks are lying if they say they are not interested in the other guy’s dicks. We think about how big, how heavy or how long they are, these are all questions swirling around in the mind of the curious cuck. I wish to take my wife’s place. Every now and then she makes me come in and wipe her lover down. What can I say, it is just heaven. Occasionally I am allowed a creampie. Understandably it is only with guys she knows well so we are aware of their sexual history. While an interest in consuming another man’s semen through the act of the creampie is tied to the masochistic experience of humiliation, for many it is openly a way to express their bisexuality. For others it is also entirely possible that wishing to give a wife post-sex oral sex or licking ejaculate from her breasts or body, is a way for some men of framing erotic homosexual desires so that they remain within a heterosexual framework, i.e. between the man and woman.
LIFESTYLE MECHANICS We asked how open couples were with regard to their Cuckold arrangement and perhaps unsurprisingly, couples were very selective about who they told. Given how taboo extra marital sex remains round the world and how few people are familiar with what Cuckolding actually is; this would explain why f****y and close friends were the least likely to be chosen as confidants. However what we consider a fairly high number (at 40.7%), confided in others, who they described as not necessarily f****y or friends, and from that we would infer these are other couples in leading a similar lifestyle. Other people are of course involved by virtue of the fact that the couples need to locate, screen, meet and play with the male lovers, most often referred to as Bulls.
Bulls are located by the tried and true methods of meeting through work, at social venues like pubs and clubs and by advertising on websites that cater to the Cuckolding community. In our survey group a very tiny 9% of the men choose the Bulls, while close to half of the time the wife locates her own sexual partners. As the cuckold generally defers to her when it comes to matters of sex and the Cuckoldress generally holds the sexually dominant role in the relationship, this would be expected; however relationships appear flexible enough to leave room for it being a co-decision when required, given the result that 20% said they looked together and 25% said it was situation dependant.
Where does cuckolding take place? The question of where the actual act takes place unearthed a mixed bag of responses. While the figure of 17.8% (just over one in five men) said their wives had sex with their lovers in the marital bed, that figure is probably higher, given that 54.6% of the men stated it could be any of those venue: the marital bed, in the home or outside of the home.
As Steve explains it, anecdotally there is a strong element of submissive symbolism related to the use of the marital bed, which can be powerfully erotic and stimulating to both cucks and Cuckoldresses. In fact one of the best known amateur pay for view cuckolding sites uses the marital bed to film their exploits for precisely this reason. Given the number of cuckolds who display some interest in bisexuality it also allows a way of expressing their sexual interest in other men by smelling/tasting/feeling the other man without having any direct contact: After they have had sex in our bed I can fall asl**p and imagine I was her. I find it highly erotic to smell their sex on our sheets. It is the ultimate humiliation. What can I say, a stranger, my bed, my wife, I guess it just makes it very real to me. What Sort of Cuckold? We created arbitrary categories of Cuckold and asked the men which they identified with the most. The responses mirrored the reasons for being attracted to Cuckolding in the first place and which are discussed earlier under ‘Why Cuckolding’. We did not create a category of Submissive Cuckold, as we believed that a position of submission is taken in all the categories. There was very only a 1% difference in identifying as a Humiliation or Voyeur cuckold. Given the popularity of Voyeur Cuckold category, this also tends to support why there was such high number (66.9%), of self-reported cuckolds who said they prized masturbation and fantasy above actual sex.
What the Cuckold is Allowed We also asked what role the cuckolds took when the wife was with another man. For the majority of couples it was a case of the wife’s wishes in a given situation. However from the categories we presented of watching, watching/participating and not being present, it is most likely that the wife has sex with other men alone. In terms of what the cuckold enjoys, most cuckolds nominate being humiliated, so it would depend on how humiliating the allowable roles are to him. However most cuckolds report enjoying watching almost equally, so it would seem that if only 15.2% are permitted to watch, their needs are not met in this respect, and perhaps as Steve suggests, this in itself further adds to the cuckolds feelings of humiliation and loss of control.
98.2% of the cuckolds agreed with the statement: ‘The desire and passion for my Cuckoldress is heightened after she has been with another man’. Brizendine (The Male Brain 2010, p.64) refers to this concept as ‘mate guarding’, in which a man’s mating hormones are stimulated by fear of loss and rejection, and this in turn intensifies his feelings of love and passion for his mate.
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This is an hypnosis file I picked up on a while back. Be aware, this is NOT for the mild person wanting to learn hypnosis.
Imagine having everything you get with a good wife, but with a porn star twist. She looks sexy, dresses slutty, gets flirty, likes being touchy, likes attention, and enjoys exploring sex. To top it off, you get a free live porn quality sex show when she has sex with other men. Slutwives provide unlimited sexual experiences. Why would someone not want that? Reblog if you want a slutwife.
So much this. I absolutely love it when she's brutally honest about her craving for bigger dicks than mine. She didn't always feel that way, but it was my idea for her to fuck someone else. I thought it would be fun and exciting, and it is! We both enjoy our sexual adventures, but after she started really exploring and being honest with herself, she realized that he deserves way more than I can give her. We both know it, but even though it's counterintuitive, it's that kind of bond and real heart to heart friendship that makes us closer. I love knowing she isn't the kind who would lie to me and say that I'm always going to be enough to satisfy her desires. To me that makes us way closer, strange as it sounds. I know she loves big, thick cocks, she tells me so and I know shes telling the truth. That honesty is so awesome, its indescribable. Like I'm her best friend. I love knowing she is going to get what she needs, and that she wants to get it from another man. I really hope she finds that perfect huge cock, and I hope she fucks him whenever and as often as she wants, and tells me how she loves getting fucked by him so much more than me because I just don't have enough dick for her. I want her to tell her boyfriend his dick is so much better than mine, how his dick makes her cum like I never could. I want her to say she wishes my dick was enough, but it just isn't, and she feels sorry for me because I'll never know what its like to satisfy her like her boyfriend can. I like that she still lets me fuck her pussy because she loves me. One of my favorite things is when she jacks me off and tells me her deepest, most honest thoughts, like how she is in love with another man's dick, how she needs his cock and craves it, and how great it is. It turns me on knowing she doesn't feel bad or guilty at all about fucking him. She knows I want her to! I'm so glad have this understanding, and even if we didn't, she should feel like she deserves another man's big cock because she stays with me even though I can't fuck her like she deserves to be fucked. She doesn't really enjoy sucking cock so much, but I hope that she tells me she likes sucking her boyfriends cock because it's so amazing. Some people might say this is crazy, but I know I am the man she loves above and beyond just fucking, and we have something so much deeper than that. Reblog this so I know you read it and that you need bigger cocks.
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69 Ways to Please Your Cuckold…
1. Regularly make comments to your husband about other men you find attractive.
2. Remind your husband that you prefer larger dicks during sex.
3. Tell your husband about things your lover/s do better sexually.
4. Tell your husband whenever you have thoughts of sex with someone else.
5. Have your husband watch as you prepare yourself to go out looking for other men, or on a date.
6. Shave your pussy and tell your husband it’s because another man asked you to.
7. Have your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, or pick out clothes, jewelry and perfume to get you ready for your dates.
8. Get a discreet (or temporary) sexually suggestive tattoo.
9. Get a body piercing and tell your husband it was done for your lover.
10. Buy and wear a Hotwife ankle bracelet when you go out.
11. Wear sexy, revealing clothing or high heels in public.
12. Stop wearing underwear and make sure your husband knows.
13. Openly flirt with other men in front of your husband.
14. Socialize with other Hotwives or join a Hotwives group.
15. Require your husband to give you cash for your dates in case you need to get a hotel room.
16. Have your husband go out and get a hotel room for you and your lover to use, and then bring you the key before your date.
17. Have your husband go out with you and make him watch from across the room as you meet, flirt and maybe even pick up men.
18. Have your husband drive you and your lover around while you have sex in the back seat.
19. Have your husband drive you to a motel to meet your lover, and return to pick you up afterward.
20. Have your husband help find men for you.
21. Have your husband accompany you to a bar to meet other men, and have him wait inside while you and another man adjourn to your car in the parking lot to get acquainted.
22. Make your husband watch you have sex.
23. Deny your husband the privilege of watching at other times. Never let him know which it will be.
23. Travel out of town on a business or weekend trip with another man.
24. Call your husband on the phone during sex with another man and let him listen in.
25. Fuck another man in your marital bed.
26. Fuck another man while your husband is at work or out of town, then let him know.
27. Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room.
28. Fuck another man, film it and let your husband watch it later.
29. When your husband watches you have sex, openly express how good it feels.
30. Do something with another man you haven’t done with your husband then tell your husband what you did.
31. Tell your husband every detail of a date afterward and get off on it together.
32. Or deny your husband the details of your date, but let him know it included enjoyable sex.
33. Fuck your husband’s boss.
34. Fuck one of your husband’s friends.
35. Fuck a black man.
36. Fuck a much younger man.
37. Fuck someone rich and powerful.
38. Fuck an authority figure like a police officer.
39. Tease your husband by reminding him that you might let yourself get pregnant by your lover.
40. Go to an XXX adult video booth together and suck a cock through a glory hole.
41. Go to an adult theater with your husband and a lover. Have your husband sit elsewhere and watch you and your lover make out.
42. Accompany a lover to a local swingers club as a couple.
43. Join your lover and a friend of his in a threesome (male or female).
44. Have sex in a semi-public place with a lover, then describe it to your husband.
45. Have your husband clean something in the house while you’re out on a date.
46. Have your husband pick out and pay for lingerie you will wear for your lover.
47. When your lovers call, take the call in another room and close the door for privacy.
48. Have phone sex with a lover, and have your husband watch as you masturbate and talk on the phone.
Why Do I Want to Be Cuckolded?
Why a man would want his wife to sleep with another man.
Because I am proud of her and want others to validate that
Because I enjoy knowing that other men find my wife attractive
Because she has interest in improving her body and appearance as she dresses for other men, feeling sexy and desired
Because I want to bring out the sexy and confident woman in hiding
Because it’s all about her pleasure
Because I enjoy viewing her as the free independent spirit that she truly is
Because I like not having to be in charge all the time, to give up control, to be in a sense dominated and still be loved and accepted by the one that we love the most. All without the guilt or judgment that would normally come with it.
Because it brings out her naughty side
Because I want her to experience as much variety and pleasure as possible
Because she has a much higher sex drive than I do and it fills her sexual needs
Because I want my wife to have the most fun and the most powerful orgasms she can have
Because I get off watching her kiss another man
Because I want to see a larger cock in her
Because watching the love of my life being passionately fucked by another man is the most beautiful and erotic thing I’ve ever seen in my life.
The way her whole being responds to his touch and thrusts, the look of complete surrender in her eyes is the most gorgeous thing I have ever witnessed.
She comes back a new woman; I must fuck her again to call her mine and reclaim her
Because it makes the sex better between the two of us
I am not sure why
As you can see, there are a myriad of reasons why someone would want their wife to sleep with another man.
She is!!!
…and I love it!!
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How Often Should Your Hotwife Play?
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