The Fact That I'm No Longer The Same Age As The Protagonists Of Novels And Films I Once Connected To

one of the things about having some shitty shit happen to me is that now I have lore for my dr

SHIFTERS WHO HAVEN'T REACHED THEIR FULL POTENTIAL YET; WATCH THIS

"How often are you living in the wish fullfilled?"

Credits to Missy Renee 🤍

Having to shift realities just so i can be loved is not fair. I'm not alone but lonely. I have so much love to give, yet no one to love.

“who are you shifting for?” me.

You’re not stuck in this reality.

Have you ever heard of someone who shifted to their DR and couldn’t shift back to their OR?

No!

Shifting back to your OR is easy because you know it’s easy, you know you can’t get stuck.

All reality’s are the same value, one of them isn’t just easier to shift to. You can just as easily shift to your DR as shifitng back to your OR.

SHIFTING IS SO EASY, GO SHIFT!!!

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Call me Rüya. I'm 21 years old and I’m a shifter since September 2019. I use she/her pronouns. I'm bisexual. I speak turkish and english.

I want adult shifter friends so don't be shy to interact with me <333

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Homophobic, racist, anti-shifter, transphobic, don't understand mental health issues, you hate cats (sorry lol)

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Idk if I've talked about this before, but I saw someone post about why people who have been trying to shift for so long might not be shifting (this might not apply to everyone, but it really clicked with me). They only explained why, so I'm gonna talk about the solution I came up with.

They specifically said that it was not tough love, but psychological facts: it's possible that your mind registers shifting as a goal in THIS reality.

Think about that for a second. This is the part that really got me when I started to think about it. When you are here, in your CR, your goal is to shift, right? So what if our minds interprets that as a goal IN THIS REALITY, as simple as going to bed thinking "oh, I'm going to unload the dishwasher in the morning." Because shifting is just aligning with your DR self, and guess what?? Your goal in your DR is not to shift! That blew up my brain a little bit.

"But i want to shift" you know how everyone keeps saying "you are already in your DR"? I interpreted that for so long as motivation. It's not. It's the process. To align with your DR self, just like aligning with another person in your CR you have to have the same goals.

So your goal is no longer to shift. Stop thinking like that. Your goal IS NOT TO SHIFT. Waking up where you are meant to has never been a goal, but an expectation. Your goal is to wake up and go downstairs to have breakfast with your DR friends or family. Your goal is to wake up and get to class on time to ace that Defence Against The Dark Arts quiz you totally forgot to study for until the night before. Your goal is to wake up and win that Oscar, to break that curse, destroy the One Ring, you fucking name it babes.

I don't know if this is really dumb and obvious, but it wasn't for me before, so I really hope this post helps someone else too.

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i don’t know how to balance my cr and shifting. i focus on my dr so much, i ignore my cr and want to perma-shift. i focus on my cr so much i don’t do anything for shifting. i’m almost 21. i don’t have a life. i don’t go to college or exactly have a job. i wanna study and get a life but then i think “why should i work my ass off for a mid life like that when i can just shift”

hey

i saw your submitted ask on chai’s post about reverse psychology to lucid dream.

may i ask how what affirmations you used to it? i just learned about reverse psychology but do t know how to apply

omg hi! i was just complaining about lucid dreaming, saying things like ‘ugh why do i lucid dream every night? ‘why can’t i have normal dreams??’ etc. i completely forgot about this so i’ll do it again lol sorry for replying late btw i just saw now

It's okay to not want to be in this reality. It's okay to permashift. It's okay to respawn. It's okay to have a dr that's not morally okay to others. It's okay to be madly in love with a “fictional character” and shift for them. It's okay to script anything, or not script at all. It's okay to script people out of your dr. It's okay to go off canon. It's okay to use shifting as a coping mechanism. It's okay to not feel motivated to shift. Iits okay to hate your cr. It's okay to doubt. It's okay to feel homesick even when you haven't shifted yet. It's okay to have a s/o. It's okay to not have a s/o. It's okay to only want to shift and then come back. It's okay to have a popular dr. It's okay to not have a popular dr. It's okay to not use methods to shift. It's okay to use methods to shift. It's okay to shift due to your current circumstances. It's okay to shift if you just want to and have no other motive. It's okay.