I Want To Say One More Thing As A Cis Person Who Experimented With Labels Over The Years, Questioned

I want to say one more thing as a cis person who experimented with labels over the years, questioned my gender, and ended up as cis after all. The trans community did not "indoctrinate" me. I had always been asking these questions, even as a little kid before I knew trans people even existed. Over the years, trans women gave me the courage to explore the femininity I wasted my youth denying, trans men taught me that manhood is what you make of it and that nobody could tell me how to define it, and nonbinary people taught me just how limitless my possibilities were. The only parts of my upbringing that left me "confused" about gender were the conservatives who imposed a vision of gender that my friends and I could not relate to. And when I realized trans identity wasn't something I could claim after all, the community loved me all the same. I am happier, and the world is more beautiful, because of trans people. The human impulse to create and survive isn't going anywhere, and neither are trans people.

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1 year ago

If you fall for an internet prank, do you pass it on to your followers?

If You Fall For An Internet Prank, Do You Pass It On To Your Followers?
3 years ago
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS
NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS

NO SHUT UP SHUT UP IM NOT HEARING THIS

based off of @judeharleys fic dire straights!! with a few phrasing and artistic liberties bc my brain inserted a table where it wasnt supposed to be ahfhsdhcdg god homestuck is almost ten years old please read this fic

1 year ago

Y/N: Your job is to make people happy, right?

Dream: Yes?

Y/N: I wish for a romantic partner.

Dream: Uhh....I can't do that. Nightmare!

Nightmare, comes over: What?

Dream: Can you help me explain-

Y/N: That one

Dream and Nightmare: huh?

Y/N, blushing and pointing at Nightmare: I want that one!

1 month ago

Oh did I ever show tumblr my absolutely whimsical hair

Oh Did I Ever Show Tumblr My Absolutely Whimsical Hair
Oh Did I Ever Show Tumblr My Absolutely Whimsical Hair
2 months ago

Scum Villain fandom is the best fandom in existence, actually.

Because what do you mean the main character is shippable with everyone and no one fights about it with each other? What do you mean there's so much headcanon space that we can all be happy and live in harmony? What do you mean there already exist a scenario for Shen Yuan transmigrating into anything? And I mean anythig! He's been a fish, a cat, a sword, a rock, a slime, a system, a mushroom, a crow, a crane, literally every existing character in canon, a bunch of characters nonexisting in canon, and it all makes perfect sense for us?

'Oh, so today Shen Yuan is a magic rock that helps Luo Binghe through the Endless Abyss. Makes sense.'

'Oh yeah, he's a demon prince. You know. As it is.'

'Yeah, he's Shen Qingqiu, and he's got a harem actually. And he was a sk8er boy and he does wild shit. I agree.'

And like, it's not even Shen Yuan only. There can be anything and we'd just go 'yeah, seems plausible'.

I love it here.

4 months ago
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)
Zosan Fics Be Like (part 2)

Zosan fics be like (part 2)

Elaborated thoughts and fic names under the cut

Cat fic - stay by itsmylifekay

Probably just my favorite cat zoro fic I’ve read, very cute, and as all cat fics do, gives me a heart attack by letting the catified person drink alcohol(never give cats alcohol it is incredibly toxic)

Wado fic - precious thing by hllfire

I love this fic it’s a really cool take on how bonding with the swords works and also how sanji bonding with wado would effect things, I also just love wado being able to communicate and kinda pushing them along

King/god zoro fic

This one isn’t a specific one sadly but I’ve read like 3 of these and can probably track them down again if any of y’all want

Soulmates fic - learning to listen by three_days_late

I’m usually pretty neutral on soulmate fics but I like this one because zoro pretty much immediately fucks himself over with it and they have to pull back from that

Unprompted proposal fic - firestarters by adietxt

This one is short but sweet, zoro starts saying what’s on his mind not realizing he’s literally just proposing out of nowhere

Little sanji fic - to you, formerly me by Trixtree

This one isn’t a zosan fic but I’m including it because I adore it. I see a lot of zosan fics where sanji gets reverted to baby sanji and gets attatched to zoro(which are fine but not my favorite) but never any where adult sanji gets to stay and interact with baby sanji which they go into with this one,, they do some really cool stuff with seeing how it effects both Sanji’s and the crew by extension

5 months ago
"This was Luo Binghe As Shaped Entirely By His Shizun’s Loving Hand" -line From A Transmigrator And

"This was Luo Binghe as shaped entirely by his shizun’s loving hand" -line from A Transmigrator and a Time Traveler Walk Into the Bamboo House fic by @verycharismaticdragon

Fanart for one of the first svsss fics I've read :D!

6 months ago

I DONT WANNA PAY BILLS I WANNA USE MY MONEY FOR FOOD AND LIL GIFTS FOR MYSELF AND MY LOVED ONES

I DONT WANNA PAY BILLS I WANNA USE MY MONEY FOR FOOD AND LIL GIFTS FOR MYSELF AND MY LOVED ONES
1 year ago

And it's not weird to see someone as a sibling in a qpr

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

1 year ago

This is kinda weird, but it icks me out whenever somebody calls me "acearo"

Like it's not enough for me to correct them, and I'm certainly not gonna tell other aspecs what to do, but for some reason aroace is the correct way to order it in my mind.

My guess is that it's because my aro-ness has always been more important to my identity to me? Sex has always been something like "oh yeah that's a thing ig, just not my thing", whereas with romance it's always around me, and I feel the lack of it a lot more strongly. And I also just have odd preferences about the way I list things just in general, but yeah

Is this just a me thing, or do other aroaces have opinions on the way people say their identity?

that makes a lot of sense! i've not heard many (or any?) people say acearo, but for someone who feels a stronger connection to being aro, i get how that feels wrong. i'm sure there are others who feel the same way, feel free to comment/reblog if you do!

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