STOP WITH THE VICTIM MENTALITY

STOP WITH THE VICTIM MENTALITY

STOP WITH THE VICTIM MENTALITY

No, seriously. What are you going to gain with throwing yourself pity parties?

"I can't do"

"Why haven't i...?"

"I've been persisting, but..."

I know. It can be frustrating sometimes. Desperately wanting something to be apart of you. Something you know will solve all your worries, make you happy, and at peace. Remember how that will be nice. I don't need to say anything else, you know enough.

It's okay. We're human. Sometimes, we have to let our emotions out. Cry it all out if you must. Affirm it doesn't matter. You have everything you ever wanted. IT. IS. YOURS. ALREADY. Move on with that in mind. It's literally inevitable.

STOP WITH THE VICTIM MENTALITY

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1 month ago

You can cry.

You Can Cry.
You Can Cry.
You Can Cry.

You're allowed to cry, you're allowed to rest, you're allowed to roll in bed and wish to stay there for a minute, you're allowed to stop being productive in some time, you're allowed to take a break from shifting and from everything.

You're allowed to allow your body to calm itself, to understand that the reality is near, nothing of those I mentioned above will tent your life, nothing at all.

Because you know it yourself, you found shifting for a reason, home is always where your heart will be, head on their shoulder, sharing earphones, walking in the rain, finally having that burden off your shoulder.

I'm proud of you ml, you've gone long enough, and let me see you truly get whatever you want, whether it's the void, manifesting or revising something, shifting or anything of sort.

You're valid, and think of how your younger self would feel to know they achieved something their little heart wanted for so long.

Xoxo. Coco

2 months ago

hey how to point your subconscious into believing something that's clearly not in 3D ( for beginners)

Repetition repetition repetition

Your brain forms new pathways through repetition, memories are solidified by repetition, it's how you learn and how your beliefs are solidified.

Through all ways available to you repeat repeat repeat what you want it to know

Ways you can do this:

Affirmations (repeated internally or verbally)

Visualizations

Grounding in the idea that your desire is fact

Subliminal messages or affirmation tapes

Mediation

Your subconscious takes everything at face value. It believes everything you tell it. When you repeat something to it it will believe you.

Think of it as a glass of water. It starts out muddy and filled with old thoughts. When you fill it with fresh water the mud and grime will be pushed out of the top of the glass as it overflows. Eventually, the glass will be filled with only clean water.

How long will that take? That depends on how much mud (what your subconscious beliefs are and how dedicated you are to those beliefs) is in the glass and how much water you are using.

If you only do a drop a day the cup will eventually be cleared of the mud yes, but it will take much longer. If you continue to add mud (negative thoughts) it will overshadow what little water you add.

But if you use a power washer and blast the cup with more and more and more water, bam, it's clean.

We are creatures of habit

We think thousands of thoughts a day, most of them are thoughts we've thought before. That's why it's so uncomfortable to change a thought pattern, it's a habit.

How do you start a new habit? Repetition and consistency.

Here's my post on that:

How to break old thought patterns

2 months ago

The most important moments to persist is when you feel like nothing is working, when you feel anxious, sad or feel like everything is going down hill. When opposition or circumstances seem to appear is when persistence is the most powerful & important. It’s easier to persist when you feel good and you see evidence of what you want. Don’t give up so easily on the life you want, it’s yours to take! 💗

1 month ago
definitelymaybelilac - ~You and I are gonna live forever~

sailor moon / usagi tsukino

1 month ago

Shifting is guaranteed. I know you hear a lot of people say this, but it truly is. Nothing can stop you from shifting, not even death. The moment you found shifting and decided you want to do it, you already did. There's no hurry, no rush, you just have to wait for it to be reflected into the 3d. And it's 100% sure that it will, so sit back, get yourself a drink (coffee) and watch it come to you!

1 month ago
Mizuno Ami / Sailor Mercury

mizuno ami / sailor mercury

1 month ago

people shifting on accident and then being absolutely mind boggled is my fav genre

People Shifting On Accident And Then Being Absolutely Mind Boggled Is My Fav Genre
People Shifting On Accident And Then Being Absolutely Mind Boggled Is My Fav Genre
People Shifting On Accident And Then Being Absolutely Mind Boggled Is My Fav Genre
2 weeks ago

WHAT my DR S/O's last name is spelled differently than I remember, and even other people I know about with the same last name also have that spelling... Either I'm a complete idiot or I shifted


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1 month ago

the best duo 🤭

The Best Duo 🤭

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1 month ago

how to feel "i have it" when i can't see or feel it. i feel confused because it's not there so i can't feel it. even though i live like i have it but it's not there how can i feel it? please help me 😭

you’re thinking having it means seeing it. but feeling comes before seeing. it’s not about forcing yourself to believe. it’s about settling into the knowing. when you order something online, you don’t pace around doubting it’ll arrive just because it’s not in your hands yet. you just know it’s on its way. that’s the energy.

stop searching for proof. stop waiting to feel it externally. let the knowing be enough. that’s how it shows up

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definitelymaybelilac - ~You and I are gonna live forever~
~You and I are gonna live forever~

Lilac | she/they | 18 | interests include Vocaloid, Sailor Moon, Oasis, and most importantly Reality Shifting

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