Definitelymaybelilac - ~You And I Are Gonna Live Forever~

people shifting on accident and then being absolutely mind boggled is my fav genre

Cosmic Swamp

“Hey, wanna go to the mall today?”

a personal challenge to see how many characters/references I could fit into one picture, could definitely still do more!

WHAT my DR S/O's last name is spelled differently than I remember, and even other people I know about with the same last name also have that spelling... Either I'm a complete idiot or I shifted

But how do I stop checking and waiting if in front of my eyes there is always this damn 3D? I can affirm many times that I am in my DR but it doesnt change the fact that I see all the time that I am not and it is so so tiring. Sorry if my questions are annoying

3d only feels like proof because you believe it is. you see your cr, so you assume it’s real. but reality is just a feedback loop of what you accept as true.

stop waiting for 3d to change first. you change first.

you shift by deciding the 3d is irrelevant. like a rerun of a show you’ve already moved on from.

you don’t argue with it, you don’t wait for it. you just stop caring. and when you stop caring, it stops mattering. and when it stops mattering, it shifts.

If I could give one piece of advice to shifters, from "baby" shifters to the ones who have been trying for five years, specifically the ones still on tiktok, it would be this.

Number one, get off of tiktok. I say this with love toward the shifttok community and as someone who still watches videos on there. Stop depending on other people. Especially on TikTok. People on TikTok love to preach about how much hard work it is and how shifting isn't easy, but everyone is capable of it if they "keep pushing and trying and experimenting with a new method every single night." Which leads me to my next point.

Shifting is easy. People on tiktok love to preach the opposite because they heard the affirmation "shifting is as easy as breathing" and chose to take it literally and then got their feelings hurt when it didn't go their way. Shifting is easy the moment you decide it is easy. And I mean really decide and truly believe, not just saying it a couple of times before bed without any intention behind it and then being confused when you're not in your desired reality.

I used to let myself get obsessed to the point of burn out. I survived the misinformation era of shifttok and unfortunately there still is misinformation on there. But more than that, it's full of people overcomplicating it. In 2023, I barely attempted with shifting at all because I was so burnt out and so drained from my "failures." That bled into 2024 as well where when I finally found my spark again, I would lose it after two tries and then would be demotivated for weeks or even months at a time.

But then at the end of 2024, something finally clicked for me. And it wasn't because of shifttok and it certainly wasn't because of tumblr either (I wasn't actively on shiftblr at this time). Something clicked and I suddenly didn't have any doubts about shifting. I knew with 100000% certainty that shifting is real, and because I knew it was real, I also knew that I would shift eventually. But that was my next obstacle. That one word.

Eventually.

I would spend every attempt believing in shifting but not really believing I would shift then.

Then I came on shiftblr. No, you should not depend on anyone for your shifting journey besides yourself. But I will say it was refreshing to see a switch from "which method should I do?" "What works for you?" "I've been trying for three years and nothing is working" "guys is shifting actually real?" to "obviously shifting is real and it's easy" "all you need to do is let yourself have it" "you don't need elaborate methods, just believe."

I will always love shifttok, but I can admit that it definitely stunted my growth on my journey. Listening to other people and depending on what other shifters, especially successful shifters, were saying fucked me over. You don't need those outside voices. All you need to do is let yourself believe that you can do it. And I mean ACTUALLY believe. The second you decide it's easy, it is easy. Shifting really can be as easy a breathing, if you let it.

And if you were on shifttok, you'd probably have a dozen different people saying in your ear "no, it's not. Shifting is hard because it's taken me years." But it only has taken them that much time because they keep reinforcing that idea over and over in their minds (calling myself out there). If I had the mindset I have right now back in 2020, I would have shifted to my desired reality within the first month of trying.

Although, it is probably a good thing I didn't shift right away to my first dr because that script was rancid and I did not understand shifting back then LMAOOOO

So tldr- stop depending on outsiders on your journey, especially people that overcomplicate it on tiktok. Figure out what you need to do to believe, believe in yourself that you can achieve it too, and then know that you will shift. Every time you want to shift, remind yourself that you will shift and that it is easy. Because it is. You never needed an instruction manual on how to dream or how to breathe. It's already built in. All you need to do is allow yourself.

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"How do I persist if I know it's not here"

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When I started my journey I used to believe it was about "knowing", it isn't. It's about saturating your subconscious. You don't have to know, or believe or feel or whatever else you're worried about.

Also, "ignoring the 3D" isn't what you think it is. Ignoring the 3D does not mean somehow inducing amnesia and you just have no idea what your surroundings are or what's happening around you. That's not it.

Of course you are experiencing what's happening around you, and yes it might trigger you.

I think a lot of the stress associated with "ignoring the 3D" is because you are expecting yourself to magically become oblivious to the world around you.

Ignoring the 3D just means that you continue to feed your subconscious affirmations/visualizations/whatever you're using that imply you have what you want .

You don't have to walk around like you don't know what is happening and abandon responsibilities you just have to affirm anyway.

It's ok if you have to take care of business in the 3D and your actions "conflict with" your desire.

Example: paying your rent when you're affirming that you own a house or going to work when you're affirming you're rich

"Acting as if" is actually just thinking as if. It just means you're telling your subconscious what you want to happen instead of what the 3D is showing you. Your subconscious doesn't care about the 3D or what you're doing in it, you don't have to neglect responsibilities.

It's OK to get emotional, and from personal experience I can tell you it's OK if you don't believe your affirmations. There are times where something manifests and I still don't fully believe it.

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ALL you're doing is repeating something till your subconscious creates it in your reality and you don't repeat "the old story " because it has already been repeated to your subconscious so much that it is an assumption.

That's IT that's all you're doing that all it is. Everything else could say is just noise.

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i'm v curious — what's the routine that's helping you become a master shifter? 👀

I just decide I am one, that’s it.

Sometimes, if I want or to have fun, I affirm to REMIND myself (so NOT to convince my mind of it) and maybe listen to my subliminals.

No more worrying if I’ll shift/manifest or not, there’s literally no chance that I will fail, I am the creator so that’s ME who decides how things go.

I’ll do a mental diet, flipping my negative thoughts into positive ones in my absolute favour, no more wavering, only full belief and discipline.

You can do this with me, and update whenever you like and tagging me :) let’s go get our dream reality.

GuMii