Go Ahead . . .

You were surprised when you boss asked your wife out on a date, and even more surprised when she accepted the invitation without telling you about it or asking your permission -- and now you're surprised that she is asking your opinion on whether she looks sexy enough in this dress to make sure that he will want to have sex with her tonight. What has become obvious is that, in her mind she has already started cuckolding you, and you can sense that nothing is ever going to be quite the same after her date tonight.

When -- at your urging -- your wife first agreed to cuckold you, she warned you that she was not the kind of woman who could easily separate sex from romance and emotion -- and that she would want to have both sex and romance with her lovers.

What you did not anticipate was how emotionally painful it would be for you when she and a lover became emotionally involved -- and her feelings for this lover seem stronger than for any man she has been with before.

And although it is still early in their relationship, this is really the first time you have felt the anguish and fear that she might ultimately leave you for him. You wish there was something you could do to stop it from happening, but it's way too late for that. You will simply have to accept -- and support however you can -- whatever happens between them.

She does more than tease

My husband isn't coming back. So why don't we go to your room?

Your wife has had this job for just a couple of months, but you knew she really liked it and that she got along really well with her boss -- but you hadn't realized quite how well. But now at least you understand why she's had so little interest in having sex with you since she started in this position. You had assumed it was simply because the job was quite stressful -- after all, she does stay late quite frequently.