Your best friend had come over for dinner with you and your wife. After dinner the three of you chatted and drank a couple of bottles of wine -- and when your wife finished the second one, your friend laughingly suggested she put it down and give it a spin. The idea of playing this childish game amused you and your wife too, so she gave it a spin and the first spin pointed at you, so you walked over and gave her a little kiss. On her second spin, it pointed at your friend, so he gave her a little kiss, and all three of you laughed -- although their kiss had been on the lips and a little longer than yours with her. The next spin pointed at him again -- and this time, their kiss was a little longer and more passionate. But when they finally broke the kiss, they laughed, so you did too -- not wanting to seem like a prude and not wanting to spoil the fun -- but you were starting to get a little uncomfortable about the game. The next spin was toward you, so you kissed your wife again, but then she kept on with the spins, and the next two pointed at your friend -- resulting in two increasingly passionate kisses -- and for the second of the two it was your wife who went over to where he was sitting and sat on his lap facing him and then the two of them kissed long and intensely. When that kiss finally broke, your friend turned to you and laughingly said that "one more and she'll be mine for the night". You just sat there awkwardly as your wife laughed and smiled -- then spun the bottle again -- and when it again stopped while pointing at him, she walked over, took your friend's hand in hers, and the two of them headed for the bedroom -- and as they walked your friend turned to you and laughingly said "tough luck -- but she's mine now" and your wife simply said "I think you need to sleep in the guestroom tonight hun", and then the two of them went into your bedroom. The next time you saw the two of them was late the following morning.
When we first started this journey, I wasn’t able to completely enjoy a date or a moment with another man. I do enjoy meeting new men and the fun that comes along with it but I always felt that I was only doing it for my husband.
Don’t get me wrong, not that doing it was bad, I couldn’t just let go and be in the moment. I guess there was always some apprehension hidden somewhere.
I know that my husband loves me unconditionally and I love him back with the same complete absoluteness. However it wasn’t until I was able to love and trust myself with that same absolute certainty that I could fully enjoy this gift that my husband had given me. He constantly reminds me, “It’s ok to let go, don’t worry because I’ll never let you fall.” For me, that was scary, to just let go and enjoy this just for myself. Honestly I didn’t know how to do it. The love and trust it takes to allow this and also to accept this can only be described as skydiving, jumping out of a plane knowing your husband packed your chute. A leap of faith. And when I land, he’s always there with open arms, encouraging me, accepting me, loving me. You keep packing and I’ll keep jumping.
Based on a true story. My wife ended up having several golf dates with that guy and slept with him quite a few of those times. At the time she also had a boyfriend that she was seeing regularly. This was the only time that she was sleeping with 2 guys simultaneously. I was traveling a lot at the time so she had plenty of time to herself.
One of my favorite memories of our cuckolding journey was a time when my wife and I went out to a bar and she danced and shamelessly flirted with another guy while I watched. When we got home we talked about it while she casually stroked me and before I could stop my self I came in her hand. She thought it was hilarious that I got so excited by seeing her flirt.
This isn't how you thought your married life would be -- but you know that your wife needs much more than you can provide her sexually, so in a way you are actually pleased that she has found another man who can fulfill those needs for her while she still wants to remain your wife.
[a MsTara original ]
Experienced: He fucks. You watch.