Can I text him and tell him it’s what I want too? I’ll tell him no more condoms
Absolutely!
You had hoped to be able to spend the evening with your wife – having a nice dinner together at home and then probably watching TV together. But you know that her time with her boyfriend takes priority over time spent with you.
As your wife tells you more about what a wonderful time she had on the date -- and about how much she likes him and about how great the sex was -- you feel a deep sense of relief, since you had been the one who had put in a lot of effort to bring the two of them together. You had been wanting your wife to cuckold you from almost the first day of your marriage, and so when you sensed that the two of them were attracted to each other, you knew this was an opportunity to lead each of them into doing what all three of you really wanted.