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Man, is this ever the truth for our relationship.

Your wife no longer thinks of you as a possible sexual partner or lover. She has been dating and having sex with other men for years, and now she has a steady boyfriend she goes out with at least two nights every week. To her, you've become something like a very good friend -- someone she can talk with about the other men who have been in her life and someone to go shopping with and who she knows will be helpful and supportive of her in every way that you can be.

[A modified version of a MsTara original ]