you’re being really controlling
Of course you do understand. You know that a real man -- like your wife's boyfriend -- is very possessive of his woman. And you know your place in her life is now as nothing more than her supportive cuckold, and you need to do everything you can to help her have as fulfilling a relationship with her boyfriend as possible.
[a MsTara original ]
This is based on a true story. When I used to travel a lot for work my wife had a steady boyfriend that she dated regularly. She also used to enjoy playing golf a lot, mostly with other ladies. During one of her golf outings she met a guy and ended up having several golf "dates" with him and sex afterwards. This happened during the same time she had a steady boyfriend.