My wife and I are still together. It was supposed to be our night together though. She made up a lie and I agreed. Turned out she wanted to be with him that night instead of me. So much so she would lie to get what she wanted. The funny thing is, even if she was honest, I would have let her go. Probably even got excited and encouraged it. It was painful yes. Arousing? More so than if she had been honest. More so than I can explain. She is perfect.