And I am not afraid to take some up on those offers
Looks like she is enjoying the attention
You and your wife had arranged to meet after work at a bar near her office. When you arrived you saw one of her friends from work, but your wife wasn't there. She frequently enjoys the romance and excitement of being picked up by new men, but since today is your anniversary, you had been hoping she would spend the evening and night with you. Instead, you'll be spending the night alone while she enjoys herself with another man.
[modified from a MsTara original ]
Do you mean you see him or you SEE him???
Even when your wife first started falling in love with him, she thought her feelings of love for you would remain strong -- but she was wrong. She long ago stopped thinking of you as a real man, and now she only thinks of you as a friend. And yet -- you love her now at least as much, and probably more, than you ever have before. You just pray that there will continue to be some place for you in her world.