Experienced: You know. They know.
You know that your wife is trying to save your feelings by not telling you exactly who she's with when she goes out with other men -- but it does drive you crazy when you're with your friends, knowing that at least a couple of them have dated and had sex with your wife (and probably several times), but you don't know which ones it is.
I’m not fully suire but I wamt you to do it anyway
You and your wife had discussed your cuckolding fantasies, but you never thought she would turn your fantasy into reality. But she has -- and you're now both incredibly excited and pleased -- and anxious and even jealous as you think about her now going to sleep in another man's arms -- a man she'll be having sex with again in the morning.
"And yes -- when I realized pretty quickly that it wasn't just sex that he needed -- he needed some romance too -- that's why I agreed to go out with him on dates. I think that really helped him, don't you -- to be able to take me out to a nice restaurant and to parties and concerts and to come back with me after a date and to have sex and spend the night with me. Even you have to admit it really seemed to help him feel much better.
So I really want you to be more understanding about the whole situation, and realize I'm just trying to do what he seems to really need. And yes -- that also now includes taking me on a two-week cruise with him next week. And if things all work out the way I know he hopes they will, I'll be pregnant when I get back from the cruise. You understand, don't you?"